I told her to stay off my lawn and sprayed her with the hose a little while ago, she ran up into the neighbors tree. She might be stuck, you're gonna want to bring a big ladder to come get her quick, otherwise she may end up in the pound.

I don't watch traditional TV. Streaming, On Demand, etc. is how I watch shows and movies. There can be long waits between seasons, but I'll usually binge if a new seasons come out all at once.

Short and sweet. Much better than the "Hi" and "Tell you later" ones. I also like that you actually answered the questions rather than just putting "No Answer". You actually put some effort into your profile.

I'll give it to you that you answered most of the questions, and there's no NA answers, but there's also no About. Doesn't give a good impression.

Looks good.

I'd take out the talk about not interested in games, tired of cheaters, etc. and the part about not being Mrs. America. Those kinds of things tend to make me think one is full of drama and insecurity, but that's just me. Not saying it's accurate impression, it just gives me that impression anymore.

Congrats on the weight loss. You have a cat, so that makes you a winner in my book. :)

I think things are a bit simpler than we like to admit, our arrogance forces us to complicate things. Mental illness is a complex issue, but we make it more difficult on ourselves by furthering complicating it for really no reason, other than our own arrogance.

IDK, there's things we can do much better and really should be doing a lot better.

Mental illness is an evil within people. More people than you think have a mental illness, as you stated most mentally ill are non-violent.

I think to be able to harm others in any form, there has to be a mental illness. Mental illness can go by many names and be in many different forms and levels.

Example, a child that grows up in poverty and a dysfunctional home life may turn toward a gang for love, safety, stability, an escape. This person may never see a professional for any mental issues, but still suffer from mental illness due to the environment they grew up in.

Another example, one grows up fairly normal, is well educated, never gets in trouble with the law, never commits a crime greater than j-walking, but is a pathological liar, most of the lies they weave may be fairly harmless, but they still suffer from mental illness.

In both examples, neither individual may be evil people, but have evil in them.

I think we need to have better discussions of mental illness and deal with it better as a society rather than to try to sweep it under the rug and pretend it's not there.

We don't have to view mental illness as evil, that's just my own view, but we have to acknowledge that it is a serious issue and it effects everyone, everyone is susceptible to mental illness.

They all moved to Phoenix AZ... Trust me


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It's rare and a short lived fantasy. Those kinds of relationships are not real. Most older woman are not into fantasy role playing and certainly wouldn't play with younger lads, as they are seen as still being children.

Honestly, what can an 18 year old really offer say a 38 year old? What could a 38 year old really offer an 18 year old? They're both on different levels in every aspect of their lives.

It is possible to date an older women, but within a reasonable age range. IMO, ten years is the limit, any difference larger than that and it's just too far apart. The closer the difference is to 10, the more issues there are that age contributes to.

Cougars are pretty rare in my area. They used to be native, but have pretty much disappeared. I did see one in Georgia. The one I saw in GA was pretty much my neighbor, I would see it off in the distance from time to time, but it never came near me, there was a huge farm between my house and the woodlands that it was living in. It seemed that its territory bordered just close enough for me to see it and every now and then as it was patrolling or hunting, I would catch a glimpse of it.

I don't think cougars care much about age, they prefer deer and elk, but I think as long as it's big enough to eat, it'll catch it. They are known to hunt skunk and porcupine, if needed.

I'll often ask questions that are already answered in profiles simply to see if the information is accurate. If for example their profile says they live in my city, but they say they live in another country, that's a red flag.

Hate that. I've missed a few opportunities because of my vehicle breaking down at the last minute. I don't trust any vehicle to be reliable. Not even my new car with OnStar. The only thing I trust is that it will eventually f*** me over.

I bet you would, if you lived closer. ;)

I never stood up a date, nor have I ever been stood up. Although I was actually dating this woman once and she told me that she thought we should brake up over the phone, so I told her I would come over so we could talk and do it in person at least. She said she was already in a different state which was literally on the other side of the country.

"Old Shaming" offends me.

Very good point. Perhaps we're not quite ready to invade space just yet, but pushing to land on Mars may not be exactly about getting us on Mars, but what technology will come of it.

I don't see all that happening within the next ten years.

Look at areas like Marshall Islands (Bikini Atoll), Chernobyl, and other areas of the world that we've radiated, that's what our future will look like.

I'm not sure if space really has much to worry about as far as a full fledged human invasion is concerned, we may kill ourselves before we're seen as a threat.

I never said honesty requires resolving issues. I said honesty is only part of a successful relationship. If you don't resolve issues in a relationship it will eventually fail, regardless of honesty.

Honesty is one of several essentials to a relationship. I doesn't matter how honest one is if issues are not being resolved.

Your expectations are understandable. However, the internet can be a weird place. It's not impolite to ignore or not reply online. It's to be understood that no reply is a reply. This is especially true on dating sites.

Also there may be other factors involved such as them not getting your messages, not be able to access the site, etc.