well, i hope you come back bi_curious. i don't think your
question was out of line. most people like to think that
they would try to always stay in a reasonably happy situation
even if someone really attractive even a soulmate came along.

in reality, it is hard to define "reasonably happy" and it all
varies. people on here for a while have seen many many of these
discussions already. i don't think most of the posters on this
thread were trying to be nasty. i certainly wasn't - i just
could not resist teasing them a little...

but almost everybody on here has either felt like they had to
leave an unhappy situation or has had a mate/gf/bf run off so
it can be an emotionally charged subject.

not one which has any easy resolution either as the high
divorce rate and the current dating trends seem to suggest...



so, best wishes out there wherever you are!

we're nice. really we are. well lots of us are. ok at least a few.
or not that bad at any rate.

no, is just vapor, water vapor with some nicotine,
you can control the amount of nicotine, look it up online and read it
is so cool, I quit I tell ya!! and hate the smell of cigarettes

never ... mind.. deleted topic.

i've made more enemies than friends thanks to this damn post....i think that's y i left diary sites a long time ago cuz everyone's a freakin' asshole these days... BTW, i'm more adult than any of you people on here. I live in an 80 year old body and been through more than any of you will ever experience, and quite frankly it's people like you that make me hate this f*cking world.

What is most the romantic thing someone has ever said to you?

I've been aware of life for about 10 years (long story, some of you know already), and in that 10 years it has been me as I've never been close enough to anyone else to actually be concerned about them. I have that now, and in an odd way I appreciate caring enough about someone other than me to actually worry about their well-being...but at the same time it is an odd feeling and one I'm not at all familiar with.

Hopefully I don't screw this up, because I actually like it.

Sorry, just had to let some feelings out.

Go on!!!! I dare yah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

not me, the only problem i have is when i approach a woman, she starts walking away from me

i ask to give him head :D

I am ne thing but closed minded lady....you don't even know me....

Here is where the definition of open minded needs to be understood.... Open mined means that you are open to listen to others thoughts NOT that you agree with them and go off on a tangent of "what if's" and fantasies.... We read what you wrote and then wrote what we thought/felt, etc.... being closed minded is not giving us credit for even reading and responding...

Maybe if you all knew what I was even asking you'd actually understand. I wasn't asking you to give up your recent family for something new. I was asking you to consider the fact that what if there was more than one person out there for you. I have been hurt more than any of you could possibly imagine and it was just a topic I threw out there, hoping to get people to open their minds to the "what ifs?" It wasn't an easy question, no. It deserved thought. But it also deserved an open-minded answer instead of, "well my soulmate would be the man I'm with" or "why would I even consider leaving my family" or "wouldn't that be cheating"? Can't you think outside the box for one single moment? Yes, you'll get hurt. Yes, we've all been hurt. But what if all of that hurt were worth it in the end? And then again, what if it wasn't? I was just trying to get opinions on a topic without trying to make it shallow. That's all.

Sometimes this is hard...
but I can usually tell when I've met the NOT the One.

It was just a question that obviously too many people cannot be open minded to

Can you really tell when you have met "The One"?

I have been getting them lately.

:x Ill be quiet!