100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
Community > Posts By > YouAndImake1
|
Topic:
Cheaters
|
|
I've always held the opinion of once a cheat, always a cheat. History repeats itself. I know some claim that it can be a one time occurrence, but the circumstances that led them to cheat could certainly happen again, and what reassurance would I have that they wouldn't "fall victim" again? Some people decide to make a change in their character which will make the transgression a lot less likely to reoccur... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Three Day Rule
Edited by
YouAndImake1
on
Mon 05/11/09 08:38 AM
|
|
I call when I think of her.
If I get home and want to say thanks for giving me her number, I will, unless she has roomies or children that might be sleeping... If I get home and want to breath into her phone because I got it off the bathroom wall, I will... If I just randomly call a number and get a woman, I first ask if it's ok to perv her and if she says yes, I call her right back... -smirk- -gets autodialer ready for tonight- |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
mingle2
Edited by
YouAndImake1
on
Mon 05/11/09 06:59 AM
|
|
People can be amazing
I can be out there looking Most humans have compassion |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
My father
My first true love My best friend (buried on my Bday)    
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Is there still hope?
|
|
MirrorMirror ur true love is in africa. Come and have a lunch with me in africa and let me rock ur world with true love LMAO your posing is gonna get you bud,,,   |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Is there still hope?
|
|
I truly have no opinion right now as I'm thinking my parameters for what I am searching for may be a little too stringent...
I guess I could say I'm optimistic but that might be overstating the situation. I know what I'm looking for and have already cast aside three now. One had cats and just being around her made me itch. I should've been more firm on the no cats thing I guess, SO I take the hit on that one. The next one,,, coming to meet me for the first time was dressed very immodestly (is that even a word?) and to top it off, when her male friend showed up (for what reason, I don't know, to assess me I guess), she was playing with his phone and saying she was going to text his soon to be ex wife and agitate her. Well, that sort of spelled troublemaker. The third,,, we talked for 1&1/2 hours the first day, 1hour&20min the second day and I started to notice things. She was blaming this guy for something, another guy for something else. I made mention that WE are responsible for things that happen most times. I myself have seen red flags and ignored them, only to pay the price later but in the end, WE are responsible for our lives and the direction they take, most times. I make mention of a profile on Yahoo, she says she has one as well but hasn't used it in ages. I check it out. She has a more current pic that really barely resembles her pics here and it says her activity was in "the last three days". What's really funny is that she gets my phone number that day and says she'll call later. Now, she writes little notes to the email saying how she is so busy that she doesn't have the time to call. I guess there's nothing more to say about that... I guess I may be becoming less optimistic. Then again, this has all happened in less than 2 weeks. Hell, I don't really know... I want to remain optimistic but, I think I'm just sort of indifferent right now... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
YouAndImake1
on
Sun 05/10/09 11:17 AM
|
|
or maybe not. Reading the Boise, Idaho newspaper last week and ran across a ad asking for female paid volunteers to help with research of a new drug that helps females with HSOD (hypoactive sexual desire disorder). Yes, ladies we finally got a name for our lack of desire for hubby/boyfriend/FWB/FB (hope I got that covered).We used to just be called "frigid". No more excuses, "Not tonight dear, I've got a headache" I can see the scenerio now Hey hon, I'm in the mood! How about I take my viagra and you take your special little pill? I stand corrected it's HSDD,sometimes I have trouble reading my own writing........... While I understand the condition exists, I always thought it was a result of the I O (indifferent, inconsiderate other) not being in it for both partners. A lot of men are old fashioned in a few ways... They believe it is fact that most women can't or don't have orgasms or just can't as easily as men, therefore don't put forth the effort They think women are wired just like them (i.e. if I get in there, it feels good and should for her as well) They believe that foreplay for them (she's willing) is the same for women, when a lot of women need a lot more than that They believe it is their right to have sex (whether she likes it or not) It has been proven that women will get pregnant percentagewise during an affair (especially in the beginning) a lot more frequently than during marriage. Why? Gee, let me see, the guy pays attention, takes time to make sure she's content (in all aspects) and actually respects the word no. If you're familiar with the female anatomy, an orgasm isn't just for pleasure, it cause the cervix to "dip down" into the area where the sperm is usually deposited, thereby enabling a pregnancy more efficiently. Hence, more frequency of pregnancies during affairs. How many times have you heard, "I just thought I couldn't have them"? Amazing,,, I'm willing to bet that just like male dysfunction where almost all cases can be resolved through diet, exercise and taking care of their health,,, women's issues can be taken care of more frequently by having needs/desires met... Flowers, candy, cards are all nice but, attention, consideration and respect usually do the trick for me. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Hot or Cold?
|
|
Cold...you can always put more on to stay warm. There is only so much you can take off when it's hot and then you've just gotta be miserable... Agree with you wholeheartedly... Very difficult to strip off the skin 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Wondering
|
|
One ping, one ping only. Holy crap,,, if I interpreted that correctly,,, LMAO |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Matchmaking Game - part 182
|
|
One of my personal favorites, OMG Debbie, we have been talking non-stop for 60 hours. LOL, been there, did that, had the ear infection She might bring someone wonderful---- Someone interesting---- And well off---- And important--- Does zero out of four disqualify me Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make me a match, Find me a find, catch me a catch Matchmaker, Matchmaker Look through your book, And make me a perfect match Matchmaker, Matchmaker, I'll bring the veil, You bring the groom, Slender and pale. Bring me a ring for I'm longing to be, The envy of all I see. Whoa, is this implying marriage? For Papa, Make him a scholar.  For mama, Make him rich as a king.  For me, well, I wouldn't holler If he were as handsome as anything.  Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make me a match, Find me a find, Catch me a catch, Night after night in the dark I'm alone So find me match, Of my own. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Sh*t, sorry...
wrong door |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
a question for you men
|
|
How do you men feel when you tell a woman you love her for the first time, and she just responds "ok, bye"? I tap the next lady behind her in the checkout line and repeat... 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Matchmaking Game - part 182
|
|
So if I put my name here does that mean I am obligated in any way?
-smirk- |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
What has love taught you?
|
 What has love taught you? That God's sense of humor is difficult to understand sometimes... 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Wondering
|
|
Okay, I order a lot online and when I get my things delievey, there is this UPS guy that brings my packages. Well, one day I have sign and he ask me was I was marry and I say no then he ask me was I single and I was like yes. So, he was like that is interesting and I am interested and he say it two times and I look at him like, well, what you going to do about it. Then he said well I will see you again, because I know you order a lot. Damn, what is up with some of these men, they act like they are scare or something. I feel like he went that far and say he was interested in me then he should have gave me his number and we could have took it from there. Oh yeah, when the guy told me he was interested in me, he was looking at me like I suppose to do something about it when he was the one that stated in was interested. Boy, I tell you. I know one thing, I am not going to run behind him, because if he is interested in me like he said then he know what to do( I think).  He might be the type that has manners, respect and admiration for women... Would that be a bad thing or did you expect him to ... nevermind... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
That's just cold...
|
|
Talking to someone for three months from here and we decided to meet today. When I called this morning, his phone was "no longer in service"....so much for ever taking a chance ever again... No hun, don't give up just because of a most likely cheater or cheapskate... They should make a Name and Shame Board for here... I already have two names... Just 2, you must be a newbie. LOL I now have 5 pages of blocked members. If you're talking to me, (I guess since you quoted me) I've been here less than 2 weeks... And Lilbit, at least you didnt waste gas driving somewhere for 2 hours and have the other person not show and never write or call with even a half assed excuse. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
i guess i am too chicken to eat it. i am so mad, i am so hungry i did not eat much 2day i have no money and am going to the store and buy some cheap strong beer Hey, you'll have three squares for a while after they arrest you for shoplifting/stealing... (no money) |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
weight...
|
|
If God didn't want us to eat animals...he wouldn't have made 'em out of meat... or made them taste so damned good after being over a flame...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
WHY IN THE HELL ..........
|
|
Reminds me of one of those 300 # Berthas on TV saying they want a man who's...
Handsome In shape Has money Put up a pic "dude" (which is what I think you probably are)
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
That's just cold...
|
|
Talking to someone for three months from here and we decided to meet today. When I called this morning, his phone was "no longer in service"....so much for ever taking a chance ever again... No hun, don't give up just because of a most likely cheater or cheapskate... They should make a Name and Shame Board for here... I already have two names... |
|
|
|
|
Previous
