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Topic: Sex offenders
debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 03/09/08 02:29 PM
I have a registered sex offender that lives on my block. My other neighbor just opened a day care in her house. Less then a mile away there is another day care and we live by a school. Aren't there some kinda of restrictions against a sex offender being by day cares and schools? Only by schools, not by day cares. In regards to people that have been victimized, I say that choosing not to heal is choosing to give that person power over me. Power that they do not deserve and did not earn. JMO. i think we all want to heal when things happen bad, but for some they can heal quicker than others, but at the end of the day we all want to heal.

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Sun 03/09/08 02:43 PM
people do choose to be a victim my mum god bless her was abused mentally, pyhsically by the one person she should have been able to trust, but she married had three children and moved on, even to her death he tried to hurt her mentally, but she wouldnt let him win

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 03/09/08 04:24 PM
people do choose to be a victim my mum god bless her was abused mentally, pyhsically by the one person she should have been able to trust, but she married had three children and moved on, even to her death he tried to hurt her mentally, but she wouldnt let him win Your mother sounds like she was a very strong woman. I am glad you had such a positive influence in your life. Sorry for your loss

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 03/09/08 04:29 PM
i think every women that as been raped, and still here to tell the story, is a strong person even if they still feel like there a victim. and that goes for everything, not just rape.

daddygone Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 205	Sun 03/09/08 07:21 PM
just out of curiosity where are they supposed to live just because one commits a crime against another does not mean they would do so to you there is no justifiable excuse to commit a violent crime but in their mind it may have been a vengience thing i hear all the time rape is more a power issue than a sexual issue if they have no reason to have power over you then the chances they would rape you would go down wouldn't they ---------- disclaimer i am a guy (altho handicapped and a possible target to violent crime ) i can not understand the rape issue from the female outlook i can only relate by what i have been exposed to maybe they should live with you.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 03/09/08 07:24 PM
just out of curiosity where are they supposed to live just because one commits a crime against another does not mean they would do so to you there is no justifiable excuse to commit a violent crime but in their mind it may have been a vengience thing i hear all the time rape is more a power issue than a sexual issue if they have no reason to have power over you then the chances they would rape you would go down wouldn't they ---------- disclaimer i am a guy (altho handicapped and a possible target to violent crime ) i can not understand the rape issue from the female outlook i can only relate by what i have been exposed to maybe they should live with you. lmao

daddygone Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 205	Sun 03/09/08 07:24 PM
just because someone is a convicted sex offender does not mean they are a bad egg. There is a wide range of crimes that can force a person to have to register that are actually quite innocent I know a guy who is 28 he kissed a girl who was 16, he took a 4th degree felony plea as to not disrupt his and his families lives so he has to register... I mean how bad is that to kiss a 16 year old.... but he's a sex offender now.... of all the 28 year olds he had to have a 16 year old?give us a brake.

daddygone Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 205	Sun 03/09/08 07:36 PM
I think they should be shot!!! I always thought of having them neutered like dogs. now that`s a good idea. after reading some of the horror stories on here how can anyone in their right mind have anything good to say about such a person.maybe it should happen to one of your female family members.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 03/09/08 07:39 PM
I think they should be shot!!! I always thought of having them neutered like dogs. now that`s a good idea. after reading some of the horror stories on here how can anyone in their right mind have anything good to say about such a person.maybe it should happen to one of your female family members. or maybe you should have comprehended the fact that there are different levels of sex offenders. Not everyone on the list is a danger to society. Wow

scttrbrain Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 5769	Sun 03/09/08 07:44 PM Edited by scttrbrain on Sun 03/09/08 07:50 PM
what about those who make a false accusation of sexual misconduct what should happen to them should they not get the penalty they are subjecting their target to (i think so) That's what my last post was about. Falsly accused man got tortured and raped by a family. There has been many girls and women recant their accusations. Many men have spent time in prison only for the accuser to come out and admit it was a lie. Then again...many molesters are very bad and many are not even in the system. There are differing levels of sex offenders though. My brother in law is a registered sex offender. His offense was not speaking up and telling that his girlfriend posted pics of his ex stripper girlfriend in public. She was very jealous of her. So...it cost him out the ass. I have been on a sex offenders list. I mean not one one...but a member of one. I keep in touch with their crimes as well as where they live. Kat

scttrbrain Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 5769	Sun 03/09/08 07:48 PM Edited by scttrbrain on Sun 03/09/08 07:49 PM
Well for all those that say they would not live within a certain distance from a sex offender. I would suggest you to pull the site up in your state and list your zip code I promise you they are closer then you think no matter where you live or how rich or poor the neighborhood is they are there. You would be suprised indeed. Yup. There is one 1000 feet of me and others within a quarter of a mile all around. But...within three miles away there are many. I mean MANY! I researched my youngest sons address and found at leat 50 in his town. One within .23 miles of them. All with minors or instrumentaion. Kat

adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Sun 03/09/08 09:18 PM
just out of curiosity where are they supposed to live just because one commits a crime against another does not mean they would do so to you there is no justifiable excuse to commit a violent crime but in their mind it may have been a vengience thing i hear all the time rape is more a power issue than a sexual issue if they have no reason to have power over you then the chances they would rape you would go down wouldn't they ---------- disclaimer i am a guy (altho handicapped and a possible target to violent crime ) i can not understand the rape issue from the female outlook i can only relate by what i have been exposed to maybe they should live with you. showing an intelligence level here

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 03/10/08 11:36 AM
I think they should be shot!!! I always thought of having them neutered like dogs. now that`s a good idea. after reading some of the horror stories on here how can anyone in their right mind have anything good to say about such a person.maybe it should happen to one of your female family members. i agree i think unless it happens to you, or a family member, no one can possibly imagine the pain it causes the victim AND there family. People say when someone gets cancer in there family, it effcts everyone, not just the person who as cancer, its exactly the same in this case, it effects everyone close to them.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Mon 03/10/08 11:54 AM
or maybe you should have comprehended the fact that there are different levels of sex offenders. Not everyone on the list is a danger to society. Wow I agree with single_rob; there are different levels and not all are a danger to society. But how to weed out the dangerous ones??? when our justice system lumps them together?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 03/10/08 11:56 AM
or maybe you should have comprehended the fact that there are different levels of sex offenders. Not everyone on the list is a danger to society. Wow I agree with single_rob; there are different levels and not all are a danger to society. But how to weed out the dangerous ones??? when our justice system lumps them together? We have to view everyone as dangerous.... the only ones on the list were people that were caught. You'd be surprised at those that are just not arrested. I'm not saying we have to live in fear, just common sense.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 03/10/08 11:58 AM
or maybe you should have comprehended the fact that there are different levels of sex offenders. Not everyone on the list is a danger to society. Wow I agree with single_rob; there are different levels and not all are a danger to society. But how to weed out the dangerous ones??? when our justice system lumps them together? We have to view everyone as dangerous.... the only ones on the list were people that were caught. You'd be surprised at those that are just not arrested. I'm not saying we have to live in fear, just common sense. your totally right. and its always the people you least expect, that does these things, so yes, i agree view everyone as dangerous.

WhispersandWinks Joined Wed 03/14/07 Posts: 1204	Mon 03/10/08 12:18 PM
This subject just a bit touchy and too close to home. Have heard with my own ears a 30-minute taped confession of my EX-husband's admitting to having sex oral, anal, and vaginal many, many times with our daughter. Started when she was 12 and lasted until she ran away at 16. Now, if you had to guess what I'd like to see done (or would much prefer to do myself), reckon what that would be??????

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 03/10/08 12:30 PM
This subject just a bit touchy and too close to home. Have heard with my own ears a 30-minute taped confession of my EX-husband's admitting to having sex oral, anal, and vaginal many, many times with our daughter. Started when she was 12 and lasted until she ran away at 16. Now, if you had to guess what I'd like to see done (or would much prefer to do myself), reckon what that would be?????? its touchy for me to, and too close to home. well i reckon it would be to chop it off, or kill the bastard, i know those were my thoughts.

sexi_PHAT Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 1301	Mon 03/10/08 12:36 PM
This subject just a bit touchy and too close to home. Have heard with my own ears a 30-minute taped confession of my EX-husband's admitting to having sex oral, anal, and vaginal many, many times with our daughter. Started when she was 12 and lasted until she ran away at 16. Now, if you had to guess what I'd like to see done (or would much prefer to do myself), reckon what that would be?????? Oh god....im soooo sorry...im crying reading this ... what a bastard!!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 03/10/08 12:43 PM
I think they should be shot!!! I always thought of having them neutered like dogs. now that`s a good idea. after reading some of the horror stories on here how can anyone in their right mind have anything good to say about such a person.maybe it should happen to one of your female family members. or maybe you should have comprehended the fact that there are different levels of sex offenders. Not everyone on the list is a danger to society. Wow Bingo, the biggest problem with the registry is that people have to be put on it for joke charges. This is why it is a failed system currently, at one point in time maybe this was not true however it does need to be looked at and used properly as to truely serve the public of their interest. This thing gets used for people with sex dolls in a motel room if room service happens to walk in on them, it gets used for kissing a young girl on the cheek even, it gets used when someone flashes themselves in public (debateable). It is in my opinion a joke anymore.