im with you on everything, but about the flashing in public, thats not good, children could see that. at one of my jobs we did sexual counselling, and any man who said things like flashing in public, would have to be dealt with by social services our other means. also they might start in thinking of flashing, but normally it leads a lot further into then rapind someone etc. ive heard many sick stories, and compared to having sex with a blow up doll is just a joke. they should be dealing with the offenders, instead of wasting time dealing with a man who has sex with a blow up doll!!!

sorry i dont know if i explained that right.

what ive saw happen is,

some men start thinking about flashing in public, and then these thoughts go further and further, and down the line they end up raping someone. maybe thats why some of them are put on the register for minor things, because theres a high chance down the line they will do something a lot more serious.

That's why I put debateable in there, it is in some forms debateable. Such as when a girl gets drunk at Mardi Gras starts flashing, boom sex offender. Though rare it does happen.

sex offenders r bad people but we couldnt just "round them up and shoot them" that would be fascism, and its a slippery slope from murdering criminals to murdering "undesirables"

yes i know you put debatable and i was giving you my opinion, i wasnt critising you in anyway, like you said its debatable, therefore others will give there point of view.

but mainly i was trying to point out in general (not to you) that men can start with a minor offence, but then lead to something very serious further down the line. i think thats why minor sexual offences are documented, as theres a good chance they will do something worse further on down the line. jmo

This is what I am talking about!!! Situations like this! WTH do you do? Heres my questions, my son was 18 and his little gf was 15. Of course you know what the scenerio was and she got all scared and went to the school counselors. The police came and read him his rights BUT he denied everything, and nothing came out of it. Her parents refused to press charges as long as they stay away from each other.
Now she is 16 and he is 19...so they can legally see each other! BUT heres the problem, her father found out they were talking again. He called my son and threatened to press those old charges on him. How long do we have to worry about those charges? He is threatening my son to call the authorities IF he ever talks to his daughter again. Of course my son is not going to bother with her...BUT I am curious if he can really do this. Does anyone have a clue?
I know one thing, as soon as my son is free of any possible charges being filed...I am going to call around and see what I can do about some kind of law being passed to protect the guys from these kinds of things happening. I don't think its fair to have to worry about being threatening for a few years that if someone don't get their way....they can press the old charges!

well im sure your son new, that she was underage??? therefore he knew the consquences. im not saying he did wrong, im just saying if he knew her age,why did he do it, when he knew what the consquences could be??

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That's the most updated link

I use www.nsopr.gov/ - national sex offender public registry

and also i know this for a fact

they can keep cases open, so if years down the line you remember something, for example they couldnt remember at the time maybe due to a head injury, the case is still there, as it was left open. thats just a example.

You are right..he did know. All of that has passed and nothing has came out of it, my question was..how long can they hold this over his head?

Theres several women on my local sex offender registry. One of them was a blonde school teacher LOL No joke

like i said, i didnt say he was wrong. this happened to someone i knew and the girl told him she was over 16 and she wasnt.16 is the legal age limit

was the case left open??

because i had a head injury once, i was found flat on the ground lying on my tummy, with a head injury, and i couldnt remember a thing, so the police left the case open, and the case is still open now, incase i remember something, this happened a few years ago. so cases can be left open for a long time. ive never remembered a thing even to this day, but i did have bad concusion.

Actually we never talked to anyone, they talked to the prosecutor and her dad told my son they dropped everything. BUT he is threatening to bring it all back up...is this possible?

arnt you the guy who said, LEAVE SEX OFFENDERS ALONE or something similar????? please do tell me.

all i know is, i can bring up that case anytime i want to in my life, if i can remember something, it was never closed, it was left open.

so if the case was left open, then yes, but if the case was closed i dont know.

and your son shouldnt have been done for rape, i can tell you exactly what rape is, and what your son did, doesnt even come close to it.

Who are you talking to???

that was my fault, unsure...i removed what she had quoted, as it was offensive.

this guy called warewolf, if you read you will see what he said, the mods have just deleted his post, he was swearing and being horrible. i wasnt talking to you. is post was removed so quick you didnt even see it.

lulu, wasnt that a man???