Topic: Who is a real man!
Peachiepoohie's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:15 AM
a real man? I think every man has the potential...it depends on which girl he's with. Every person has their own quirks and eccentricities and those only fit with certian people. I think that when you find that one person that is the missing piece to your "white horse in the snow" jigsaw puzzle of life the "real" man (or woman for that matter) will brightly shine through...


but I could be wrong...

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:15 AM


nothing is real except what speak their whole mind and feeling to all, as anything else is a FAKE, and so will act as a fake does, letting all down they claim to care about and then even themself in the dreadful end.


Bravo.............

Real is what we do on a daily basis. Every second, every minute.
Fake is the lies we tell ourselves to drown out the Real.


the only lies that exist are the wishes the mind whispers in our ears and we let go unchallenged and lead us in chains to our own prison

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:16 AM



A "real" man and a "real" woman are the same minus genitals.

honest
respectful
trustworthy
hard working
able to communicate
pride
etc...



mustaches optional for either in some Balkin States.

lol...as my 3 year old calls it a "Mush ass"



laugh laugh laugh

Careful......that could be a cute early development speech thing

....or a future "Playa"

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:17 AM
Edited by davidben1 on Thu 03/06/08 08:17 AM

a real man? I think every man has the potential...it depends on which girl he's with. Every person has their own quirks and eccentricities and those only fit with certian people. I think that when you find that one person that is the missing piece to your "white horse in the snow" jigsaw puzzle of life the "real" man (or woman for that matter) will brightly shine through...


but I could be wrong...


awh....the one we love enough to admit we're wrong to lead us to happiness

caamken's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:19 AM
A real man does not play by any set of rules. He knows whats right in his heart and does what is just and right no matter what the ramifications are upon himself.

crystal14882's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:24 AM




A "real" man and a "real" woman are the same minus genitals.

honest
respectful
trustworthy
hard working
able to communicate
pride
etc...



mustaches optional for either in some Balkin States.

lol...as my 3 year old calls it a "Mush ass"



laugh laugh laugh

Careful......that could be a cute early development speech thing

....or a future "Playa"

No...smart as a whip...but she just turned three last month. That's a big word. Her English is better than half the people I know...proper nouns etc...and cute as hell she is...lol...plus she knows how to use her laptop better than me...

mrsoonerrich78's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:26 AM
nice,loving,caring,honest,intellgent,commutication,respectiful,faithiful,great personalty,good heart,hard working,pride,

chuck366's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:26 AM
Me!

no photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:40 AM
Whether I am a real man or not... is not for me to judge.

My only job is to try and do the next right thing. In all things.

chuck366's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:42 AM
Edited by chuck366 on Thu 03/06/08 08:43 AM

Whether I am a real man or not... is not for me to judge.

My only job is to try and do the next right thing. In all things.


your either a real man or a fake man is how I see it. There is only one judge in my eyes. no?:wink:

no photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:47 AM
Integrity. That is IT.

no photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:47 AM
A real man does not play by any set of rules. He knows whats right in his heart and does what is just and right no matter what the ramifications are upon himself.


flowerforyou

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Thu 03/06/08 08:49 AM

A real man does not play by any set of rules. He knows whats right in his heart and does what is just and right no matter what the ramifications are upon himself.


love flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:51 AM

A real man does not play by any set of rules. He knows whats right in his heart and does what is just and right no matter what the ramifications are upon himself.


flowerforyou


I disagree. A real man would take into consideration the ramifications upon himself.... for he would not be stupid, ignorant, or break the law if he felt something was "right in his heart". Integrity alone does not equal good judgment or the ability to discern the correct choice, overall.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:51 AM

Whether I am a real man or not... is not for me to judge.

My only job is to try and do the next right thing. In all things.


I think you're right...

and most of the time when someone has to tell you "I'm a real man" or "I'm a nice guy" there is a reason they have to tell you that.... maybe because it doesn't shine threw in their actions??? Just pontificating here.....

chuck366's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:54 AM


Whether I am a real man or not... is not for me to judge.

My only job is to try and do the next right thing. In all things.


I think you're right...

and most of the time when someone has to tell you "I'm a real man" or "I'm a nice guy" there is a reason they have to tell you that.... maybe because it doesn't shine threw in their actions??? Just pontificating here.....


A real man is true to his heart, true to himself and others

no photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:59 AM


A real man does not play by any set of rules. He knows whats right in his heart and does what is just and right no matter what the ramifications are upon himself.


flowerforyou


I disagree. A real man would take into consideration the ramifications upon himself.... for he would not be stupid, ignorant, or break the law if he felt something was "right in his heart". Integrity alone does not equal good judgment or the ability to discern the correct choice, overall.


Real integrity is better than abiding the law. For example if you have a cause you really believe in & you commit an act of civil disobedience to try to change a law, then the ramification may be going to jail, but your integrity is still intact. I do believe integrity is the basis for making desisions. Sometimes I am selfish & let it waver, but I am trying to be a better person.

no photo
Thu 03/06/08 09:00 AM

your either a real man or a fake man is how I see it. There is only one judge in my eyes. no?:wink:


It all depends on how you see it. For the most part? It is none of my business what you think of me.

I know some.. that I consider to exemplify my definition of how a real man chooses to live. I know many that fall short...

Which may play a big part in how I interact with them. Whether I invite them in my home, if they knock on my door. Listen to or dismiss their advice~ follow their example.

Does that mean I stand in judgment of them?
Nope..it doesn't.

It just means I am judging what is and is not permissible in my life.

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 09:03 AM
Edited by davidben1 on Thu 03/06/08 09:06 AM


Whether I am a real man or not... is not for me to judge.

My only job is to try and do the next right thing. In all things.


your either a real man or a fake man is how I see it. There is only one judge in my eyes. no?:wink:


hell yea, we are our own judge and jury or we are blind, so each man look into his heart and admit the nasty truth, we all suck if when we try to be good, but try to be evil and you would be really surprised.....you can't be.....it is only the desire to be good ****ing people that destroy all and make wars between friends and lovers and countries.

chuck366's photo
Thu 03/06/08 09:06 AM


your either a real man or a fake man is how I see it. There is only one judge in my eyes. no?:wink:


It all depends on how you see it. For the most part? It is none of my business what you think of me.

I know some.. that I consider to exemplify my definition of how a real man chooses to live. I know many that fall short...

Which may play a big part in how I interact with them. Whether I invite them in my home, if they knock on my door. Listen to or dismiss their advice~ follow their example.

Does that mean I stand in judgment of them?
Nope..it doesn't.

It just means I am judging what is and is not permissible in my life.


I agree, but "if its not for you to judge" you are concerned or at least respecting the opinion of others opinions of if you being a"real man"

I am a critic to my own behavior. Not what others think of me. Considering many others out there live by "worldy and unethical"(to me) standards at times.