do you really consider the colour of a person or his or her ethnicity before replying dear text or before even liking them back, or accepting to have a date with them... my question he is does complexion really maters.

Depends upon each individual person.

My profile says "No Blacks" I Do find SOME Black Ladies Attractive and even Fewer Beautiful. Just Not Attracted to them in a Physical and even Sexual Sense. I have also found some females here that others would consider Hideous to be at least Attractive enough. I just don't reply and delete their PM's to me because they didn't even take time to read my profile.

ME Knowing Full Well I am not the best looking Guy or even the Most Fit Guy here.

I DO Take into consideration any female that uses those F'n Filters that make them look like Cartoons, Alien, Freaks, Plastic Dolls, and F's up their eyes. WHY they think that would be attractive and way any ( Real ) Man would be attracted to that, No F'n Clue! I take it as they themselves are Also Fake and they are trying to Show/Prove it. Also If it's their Main or Only photo those accounts should be deactivated. BUT..... Since I said this, My reply will probably disappear. Because it's discriminating and telling Mingles how to run their site, when it's just a Personal Opinion. Happens to me all the time.

Can't spell my real name without the letters TMI After All :) (TMI meaning.. too much information)

I don't mind skin color as much as I dislike certain ethnicities/ ideologies...
THOSE I will delete without reply.

What matters to me is true love, be simple

Of course it does to some persons...but so does height and weight and tattoos...etc...(big list)

the point is - everyone has preferences...for some reason you have focused on complexion...but i bet there are reasons you would never date such and such a woman because of your own preferences...

Probably going to get deleted but... I would stop dating someone if when I saw her naked for the first time, her Aureolas where Too Big = worse, took up half or more of her Breasts. Petty I know. I don't care if she don't have any but Too Big, No Thank you. A Nice Pepperoni Size for me please.

Complexion will continue to matter,
as long as foolish people continue to
make it matter.

It's 2020. Stop being a color.
Be a person.

I am a Bobwhite supremecist (That’s a type of bird for those who don’t know) and I am racist against EVERYTHING else. Polar bears, oak trees, you name it.

Joking aside, welcome to Mingle.

Yes I've experienced the huge and seemingly disproportionately sized areola, BUT breasts do not make the woman AND I'm sure most of us have what some women would consider flaws to our bodies. Personally I'm a big guy and for many years did a lot of manual labor so I was pretty muscular but now at the age of 64 and having been retired for almost four years I have what is now (thankfully) called a "dad body". But hey, I earned it and I own it.

YOU'RE RIGHT>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>THERE'S A SIGN FOR THAT



My point in responding to SWM's post is that (as I said) BREASTS DO NOT MAKE THE WOMAN there are a great many things that are more important,to me at least! But I'm a mature adult man.

Composure matters.

Complexion, that’s just the variety in life.

There is nothing wrong with you, IVG.

Your question suggests you are looking for someone who's not black. Why is that? Do you prefer someone white, and why? Can't you be happy with a black woman?

What I wonder is why it's always black people who ask such things?
There are other people that aren't Caucasian who never or very rarely ask this. Maybe ask them how they deal with not being white because it doesn't seem to be a problem for them.

And like Maybewcan said: we all have preferences. And you question suggests you do too.

yes it does to some people on attraction. if you dont that or are saying that as making it racist grow up

I'm never dating a Venusion again. Her complexion was such that I would lose sight of her in City Parks with lots of grass......

....and....

..when a Venusion uses your powder room to take a #5 WOOOOOO! You have to clear your house for at least a WEEK!

In my opinion, yes it does matter, as others have already said it comes down to personal preferences. Some people will date anyone of interest to them, and some will only ever date within their own race, it's a personal choice.

Ooh. Ouch, Crystal. That question is ingrained into the American culture, unfortunately. I'm sure, being an African American, that my opinion would get me a bit of backlash, so I'll keep it to myself, but if you'd like to know, I'd share with you.

Yup, my thoughts exactly every time I see some African guy post that question, (which BTW happens about a thousand times a week).

Sure we all have opinions and we are entitled to them even if no one else agrees with them. For me I cannot be a shallow person and I do not care about the color of a lady's skin. Perfect example is I think Halle Berry is the most beautiful woman alive. I would melt if she even looked at me. We have to look at the inside of a person. If we care about the inside then the outside is mere cosmetics.