with a face like yours you could sell me anything

bbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad gurl..........ewe dont know him he likes sheep

oh sheep yes... but I could change for someone as sexy as her... as long as she doesn't mind a sheep in the bedroom

ooooh blooooooooooodddddyyy hheeeeeeelllllllll

ok well I gotta get goin its been fun.... cya peachie.. I will try and get back to the threads soon..

later shady....its been real and ill keep my eye out for ewe

I got to try and find booty call

GOOD MORNING - I TRULY ENJOY THIS SITE AND LOVE THE FORUMS

PEACHIE LOVE YOUR WITT!!!!

thank you fran.....

Ok, I admit, I havent read this whole thread. And I don't intend to.

It is NOT just girls that dis other girls about being a big woman. I have seen men do it as well!!!!

I am a full figured woman and I have found my other half here on JSH. We are planning a wedding in the near future.

He has always stood beside me and supported me in losing the weight. (I am trying to lose weight to fit into a wedding dress nicely.) I am NOT doing it for him, for he loves me just the way I am. And NO, he doesn't tease me about the weight, nor does he give me the guilt trip when I have a bunch of chocolate covered cherries, with the clear centers. If it's chocolate and I want it, he will buy it.

He loves me for me and what is inside, NOT what's on the outside.

By the way, I have lost 30 pounds thanks to his love and atttention.

CONGRATS AND WTG FINE PORCELAIN. WISHING YOU ONLY THE VERY BEST IN UR UPCOMING NUPTUALS!!!!!!

as Franshade said, wtg porcelain and congrats.

Treneesiu

It looks like this thread fell apart some where but I wanted to chime in. This is something you will unfortunately encounter and may ever be a little guilty of (at some time) yourself. Imagine if you get my pic after we have been talking for a while LOL

People do find it hard to get past the physical part of dating. I for one have a hard time meeting women that are bigger than me. At 5’8” and 140 lbs (which is actually 5lbs over my ideal weight) a girl that is let’s say same height but 180lbs usually will look at my picture and I never hear anything back. That is ok and I don’t care if they think I am not attractive or I am too skinny to get things done .

I would defiantly would not be turned off by you size and don’t let it make you bitter. Everybody here has said it there is someone out there who can get past the BS.

Wow...I have thought about you!! I wondered where you have been, I noticed you have been gone and you didn't say anything. Congrats and I am so happy that you found love!! You deserve it, he is lucky to have you!! Congragts again...

You know, I think beach made a good point. I think being to thin is as bad as being to big. I think people need to start accepting people for who they are instead of what they look like. I have said this a thousand times...over the years, looks fade but the heart can still grow warmer.
I would rather have a man with the warmest heart..who cares what he looks like on the outside? Just so he treats me right and respects my children, I in return will do the same to him. I would rather have someone with inner beauty who knows how to hold a conversation and has a personality then to have someone who is drop dead beautiful and is exactly that...like talking to someone who is dead!! No personality, no caring feelings, who thinks the world revolves around them....don't get me wrong, there are a lot of beautiful people out there that do have personalities and are very caring~~BUT if I had to pick beauty or personality, it would be personality all the way.
Don't give up people...just be patient!!!

Soooooo true unsure

Continue to post here, but I do want thank everyone who has posted something here, good or bad!

What??? I accept people for who they are but it doesn't mean I want to chit chat with them forever if they haven't taken care of themselves the way I would want them to be.

I have many "Fat" and "skinny" freinds who I talk to. They want to date me and I say no. Been there done that already and done with it! They get ticked off and say why as they have great personalities. I tell them yes they do but they don't take care of their bodies the way I want somebody to.

I'll bet $1000 that if Treneesiu and the rest of you had a choice of Calendars to choose from and one was of "Over Weight" men or of "Fit and Trim" Men you'd all choose the Fit and Trim.

I'm a skinny guy and I'm okay with the women who want that fully build bigger dude! I really am okay with that. Treneesiu needs to be fine with herself and that includes accepting the way others feel.

If I went out and all I wanted to meet were the PlayBoy girls then I would likely only acheive meeting and befreinding certain amounts of them. It's a fact and I say this from experience not from vanity.

You know Good Looking People get rejected too. Nobody talkes about that though.

I hope this wasn't offensive to you Treneesiu. I'll be your freind any day of the week.

John

Not offensive at all, UWanna. I know there are ignorant people and people say things thats fine but if I send a message to u and your not attracted then say so thats all. Its a matter of morals not necessarily Fat or thin , rude or nice to fatter people, it's if i send amessage to ya and you read it check out my profile but dont respond. its just not right.

tren,, think of it this way, if they wanna look at you and not talk to you, then either they hatin on you or they aint got the balls to talk to you. screw them, they aint worth your time. find you someone who aint scared to deal with a lady like yourself.