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| Topic: Full Figured daters and the people who Love em | |
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trenessiu: I know how u feel. I have struggled with my weight and size all my life, I have had guys be swwet,nice, untill they see PIC of me, or see me on cam. I know it hurts. But their are guys out their and on JSH that will judge u by your chatacter,values,not your waste size.  I too, have struggled with my weight all my life...ever since middle school...my mom had me on all type of crazy ass diets as a kid...and in high school I was your typical cheerleader who felt the pressures of peer pressure and turned bulemic...only to become real sick...I am a size 8/10 right now and to be honest, it maybe the biggest I have been in a long time...but I am happy with the way I am... I say, don't ever feel like you have to feel bad about the way you look or weigh...everyone is beautiful in their own way :) and yes sadly your sex still makes fun of each other  And you are so very right.... sad ey? makes me wonder how some of you girls use dat girl power and others just want to hurt girls always judging each other by looks style, hair colour,race its truly bring tears to my eyes i say I think that the girls that hurt others have their own issues that needs to be worked out and to make themselves feel better they seem to always find flaws on others... Insecure people always try to bring others down |
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i really can't say that i share ya'lls pain, mostly because i'm not clinically overwieght, but i have dated heavier set gals, and enjoyed dating them, despite what my friends said(not friends anymore), the unfortunate thing is their self image, impeded on our relationship, they had a hard time believeing that they were worth anything, despite what i told them, its sad yet so very true with alot of overweight individuals, and my advice to anyone struggling with it, that does find that one, don't let yourself destroy your happiness. those that can look past the physical, should be appreciated  aye I do that...new to the dating scene really...I've done that with just meeting people...I try not to because I know the above but still thoughts process through. I guess a couple people taught me this summer though that some can like you and show your beautiful no matter what. And while for my own health I want to lose weight, because though I'm fit for my size I know its still not the best weight to be...anyhow I'm not doing it because I want to be able to date anymore...so kudos to those people...though lol they will never know....
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Hello doll.
don’t let it get too you most of the time people are afraid to let themselves open up to a woman/man that is not something they feel they can flaunt , or they go after what people make them think is the type of person they should be with … That makes me so angry … people are not Just a look it’s the inside that counts !!!! I hope you find someone that can appreciate you for you …. And forget those people doll gods got someone out there just for you … just wait you’ll see … hope I helped …
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THANKS i JUST THINK MAYBE THIS SITE IS NOT FOR "MY KIND" I think there are some BBW dating sites. Heard that from a friend. Don't know the name of it but it's worth a try. By the way, I like women with curves. |
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i have a small wieght issue, its more because allowed myself to go for awhile there, and the feeling after the gym, doesn't necessarily give me the visual affirmation i want right now, but i have more energy and i'm working my way towards looking good. so like i have told a friend on here before, you may not even see the visual results right away, but it does happen, i have seen it, its slow going but its happening, so keep it up, if nothing else you'll feel better
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i have a small wieght issue, its more because allowed myself to go for awhile there, and the feeling after the gym, doesn't necessarily give me the visual affirmation i want right now, but i have more energy and i'm working my way towards looking good. so like i have told a friend on here before, you may not even see the visual results right away, but it does happen, i have seen it, its slow going but its happening, so keep it up, if nothing else you'll feel better aye I'm a supervisor at my job in the summer (its a seasonal location) and towards the end had to be careful with the radio on my pants...lol didn't even realize I had lost those inches until my belt was tightened to the last not  ch!!!!
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sometimes these threads irritate me. i am a big girl, i am what i am, but i happy with me, i love me. i have no problem with men, i get what i give. i dont whine about being big or why dont men like me or whatever. they have preferences same as i do, so that would be calling the pot black if i give a man hell for not wanting to be with me because im big, maybe i dont wanna be with him for ....whatever the reason. it is what it is. but bbw often say they are singled out. its their own fault. they separate themselves. i dont see me as a bbw...i see me as a woman, plain and simple. its all in the attitude and how you carry yourself. i have dated men who really didnt like bbw but they loved ME! the body is merely a shell, but when you point out your "negatives" for lack of better terms, dont get pissed when they notice! be you, love you, to hell with the rest, if they dont talk to you because you are big, their loss, could be missin out on a great friend or more. i have over 100 on my friends list, i talk to most of them. why? because im me.
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thats good, you see it does happen, but just keep your head held hi, no one is perfect, and i have dated skinny gals too, yet they had no personality, probably because they didn't need to have one, but still, you want to talk about shallow people.
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exactly when i was younger (cough cough lol) i was the "built" "hottie" type. i had men chasing me all the time. i have had my share of trophies, unfortunately they were empty, pretty to look at, but served no purpose. as i got older i learned to look beyond and see the heart. many men do the same. yeah, im not what i was 20 years ago, not many of us are, but point is, dont judge them all. be yourself. love yourself. if you dont love you, no one else can! xooxxoxo
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trenessiu: I know how u feel. I have struggled with my weight and size all my life, I have had guys be swwet,nice, untill they see PIC of me, or see me on cam. I know it hurts. But their are guys out their and on JSH that will judge u by your chatacter,values,not your waste size. I too, have struggled with my weight all my life...ever since middle school...my mom had me on all type of crazy ass diets as a kid...and in high school I was your typical cheerleader who felt the pressures of peer pressure and turned bulemic...only to become real sick...I am a size 8/10 right now and to be honest, it maybe the biggest I have been in a long time...but I am happy with the way I am... I say, don't ever feel like you have to feel bad about the way you look or weigh...everyone is beautiful in their own way :) and yes sadly your sex still makes fun of each other And you are so very right.... sad ey? makes me wonder how some of you girls use dat girl power and others just want to hurt girls always judging each other by looks style, hair colour,race its truly bring tears to my eyes i say I think that the girls that hurt others have their own issues that needs to be worked out and to make themselves feel better they seem to always find flaws on others... Insecure people always try to bring others down ya and some of those girls try to proove us guys they are great good lookin nice sweet girls but we wont fall for their act dat's why when a girl does dat to another girl its a total turn off and i tell dat girl off and protect tha girl who was being hurt by im sick of girls who think they are so worth so nice yet hurt other girls |
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well i think everyone has something beautiful about them, no matter the size, shape, color, etc....
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well i think everyone has something beautiful about them, no matter the size, shape, color, etc.... its nice how some people say this but in reality alot of people do not go by this and really hurt others |
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i agree...alot of people do, but im not alot of people, i can only speak for myself.
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its even on this site hun
sadly to say some people still judge by beauty and call others ugly dat's society its poison and yet we just gotta ignore dat negativity |
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everyone is different......some people like full figured women.....in fact I know they do!!! I did a little experiment on a yahoo chat room..........my nick name was Kraft_Dinna that night, and I was kinda bored....so I told everyone I was 469 lbs and didnt shave my legs and sometimes braided my pit hairs for fun and you would not believe the chat requests I was getting!!!
Horny men of all ages wanted me.......because they thought I was fat!!!
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omg my gf and i did that i was desperatefatwhore put some awful pic up, it was histerical...it proves that no matter what, there is someone out there that likes what ya got!
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everyone is different......some people like full figured women.....in fact I know they do!!! I did a little experiment on a yahoo chat room..........my nick name was Kraft_Dinna that night, and I was kinda bored....so I told everyone I was 469 lbs and didnt shave my legs and sometimes braided my pit hairs for fun and you would not believe the chat requests I was getting!!! Horny men of all ages wanted me.......because they thought I was fat!!! some guys like dat
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lol I think I remember you Desperate Fat whore!!!
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<-------stares at caris
  DAT DAT.........DAT IS NOT AN EFFING WORD ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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<-------stares at caris DAT DAT.........DAT IS NOT AN EFFING WORD ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it is so
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