Topic: Full Figured daters and the people who Love em
jenleah32's photo
Fri 12/21/07 01:54 PM
I have some extra wieght on me and I am very self concious about it because I know I should be smaller but not skinny.
I get a lot of really nice guys talking to me though and They ask me how much I weigh and I tell them and they are like "Oh wow that is not bad at all" So naturally this boosts my self esteem but it still doesn't change the fact that I am still not going to be happy being heavy. There are a lot of men that don't mind a larger woman and there are those that like thinner woman Just like us woman have preferences in men. I prefer to date fit black men. Now this doesn't mean that I wouldn't date someone who was heavier or of another race cause attraction comes in all shapes sizes and colors! That is why GOD made all kinds of men and woman in this world, there is someone for everyone and there is someone out there for you as well!flowerforyou

Turtlepoet78's photo
Fri 12/21/07 01:55 PM
Personaly I prefer a woman with some meat to em, big girls do it better;^]

madamx7316's photo
Fri 12/21/07 02:01 PM
there are alot of men who like meat with their taters haha

andreajayne's photo
Fri 12/21/07 02:16 PM
LOL @ madam!

I like me how I am! If someone doesn't like it, thats ok, I wouldn't want someone who doesn't like me for me!

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Fri 12/21/07 02:17 PM

I have some extra wieght on me and I am very self concious about it because I know I should be smaller but not skinny.
I get a lot of really nice guys talking to me though and They ask me how much I weigh and I tell them and they are like "Oh wow that is not bad at all" So naturally this boosts my self esteem but it still doesn't change the fact that I am still not going to be happy being heavy. There are a lot of men that don't mind a larger woman and there are those that like thinner woman Just like us woman have preferences in men. I prefer to date fit black men. Now this doesn't mean that I wouldn't date someone who was heavier or of another race cause attraction comes in all shapes sizes and colors! That is why GOD made all kinds of men and woman in this world, there is someone for everyone and there is someone out there for you as well!flowerforyou
To me...that is the rudest thing a guy can ask a girl....its like us asking how BIG they are (penis size)..you know they gonna lie!!laugh laugh laugh

carebear19622's photo
Fri 12/21/07 02:18 PM
you can ask me that I haven't told a good lie in a long timelaugh

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Fri 12/21/07 02:20 PM

you can ask me that I haven't told a good lie in a long timelaugh
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carebear19622's photo
Fri 12/21/07 02:22 PM
ready for santa Gurl?

jenleah32's photo
Fri 12/21/07 02:22 PM
Edited by jenleah32 on Fri 12/21/07 02:23 PM


you can ask me that I haven't told a good lie in a long timelaugh
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HAAAAAAWWWWWWAAAAAIIIII whats up girl??? How are you sweetie???flowerforyou

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Fri 12/21/07 02:23 PM

ready for santa Gurl?
If Santa has got a big candy cane for me...sure!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

carebear19622's photo
Fri 12/21/07 02:24 PM
if I only had that darn passport:wink:

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Fri 12/21/07 02:28 PM

if I only had that darn passport:wink:
laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink:

carebear19622's photo
Fri 12/21/07 02:29 PM
flowerforyou I hope you and your girl have a good oneflowerforyou

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Fri 12/21/07 02:30 PM

flowerforyou I hope you and your girl have a good oneflowerforyou
Thank you dear...you too!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

carebear19622's photo
Fri 12/21/07 02:34 PM
thanks sweetie I still want the one thing we are all here for




someone special to spend the holidays with.....priceless

desdemona47's photo
Sat 12/22/07 11:44 AM

Easier target


LOL

I just think attraction is attraction. The mainstream cultural ideal of a woman (or man!) is just one way to be. I know I'm a big girl and that some guys will exclude me automatically because of that, but that's true of other physical features, too. There's some men that only date blonds... or girls with certain skin tones... or anything, really. Their loss.

But no one can help who he or she attracted to, honestly. So if someone stops talking to you because of pictures only, it wasn't meant to be. But don't give up. There are people out there that love every body type or style.

madamx7316's photo
Sat 12/22/07 06:55 PM


Easier target


LOL

I just think attraction is attraction. The mainstream cultural ideal of a woman (or man!) is just one way to be. I know I'm a big girl and that some guys will exclude me automatically because of that, but that's true of other physical features, too. There's some men that only date blonds... or girls with certain skin tones... or anything, really. Their loss.

But no one can help who he or she attracted to, honestly. So if someone stops talking to you because of pictures only, it wasn't meant to be. But don't give up. There are people out there that love every body type or style.



amen!

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Sat 12/22/07 08:37 PM


Easier target


LOL

I just think attraction is attraction. The mainstream cultural ideal of a woman (or man!) is just one way to be. I know I'm a big girl and that some guys will exclude me automatically because of that, but that's true of other physical features, too. There's some men that only date blonds... or girls with certain skin tones... or anything, really. Their loss.

But no one can help who he or she attracted to, honestly. So if someone stops talking to you because of pictures only, it wasn't meant to be. But don't give up. There are people out there that love every body type or style.



very well said

Jeepinfool's photo
Mon 12/24/07 11:52 PM
Edited by Jeepinfool on Tue 12/25/07 12:08 AM
i think alot of the guys on here are full of **** and are just trying to get laid, by saying they love thicker gals. with that said i have dated thicker gals(which i do enjoy), i have dated countless types of gals and shape of a woman doesn't make any differenve, and i'm actually able to say that, with out the intentions of trying to get laid. for the those guys that are trying, i say, we all can see right through you, so give it up....your not fooling anyone

madamx7316's photo
Tue 12/25/07 12:23 AM

i think alot of the guys on here are full of **** and are just trying to get laid, by saying they love thicker gals. with that said i have dated thicker gals(which i do enjoy), i have dated countless types of gals and shape of a woman doesn't make any differenve, and i'm actually able to say that, with out the intentions of trying to get laid. for the those guys that are trying, i say, we all can see right through you, so give it up....your not fooling anyone


actually i took that comment as an insult. are you saying its not possible for these men to like us bigger girls and that we are easy prey? maybe im reading this wrong