your probably right, and if I did take what you said out of context, thats my fault, but it sure did sound like you were coming after me...

nope not at all...just questioning the meaning of what you said

Jeepinfool, thanks, we all need to hold our head high, life is too tough to be mean to yourself.

by the way....he likes the thicky thicky thick girls

im not thick..im fat and sassy lmao...fiesty too get that honest from the red hair

Hey I don't have red hair...and I'm one fiesty chick! :)
thats why we get along so well!

no doubt, nicewoman, not everyone is going to like someone or be attracted to someone and thats the vicious cycle alot of us allow ourselves to get into. but the important thing is the key word, not everyone, which means there are others that do appreciate us all

Amen to that,

I don't have to be anyone special just to say that being fat isn't right. Because it's not. All sorts of health complications can and do arise as a result.




Hmm, but I would agree with that.




Yeah, I have them. Rofl



I'm just saying it might be that nature has it that in general we aren't attracted to bigger people because they may not live a long and healthy life.



I wouldn't even notice a 4 pound drop or gain to be honest. I've dropped two stone the last few weeks and still in the same clothes size. Just a little bit loose! Lol

Yep. I do have a few extra pounds unfortunately. But I did just give birth a couple of months ago through caesarean, so losing the weight is coming slower than I'd like it too.
Indeed I am a chubby chaser. Can't explain that one.
And I'm twenty on Friday! Yay!

QUOTE:
It's like me saying, "Young single mothers are whores" who the hell am I to make that statement?


Hmm, but I would agree with that.


hmmmm lots of contradictions

i do wish you luck on the weight loss and happy birthday

I too had my two children by Caesarean...and not so much fun is it!! Good luck on your weight loss...take it one day at a time...for me I've been taking it a day at a time for almost 6 years...

Hey you and my son have to same birthday!! My baby is turning 13!! Can you freakin' believe that I'm a mother of a teenage boy now....how crazy!

Happy 20th!

hey girl i see they got you started, lol hope you enjoyed your hoilday, and i never called myself fat, fat to me is like your weight is 250-300 pound if your between 150-210 your not fat your just a pretty juicey woman thats what i call myself an no matter what any1 says love yourself, because you can be a little over weight but if you want to you can put your mind together an loose the weight but once your ugly inside an out theres nothing you can do about that but live with it, for the people who always got something to say about others that maybe a bit heavy you just mad or jealous or just dont have a life to just sit an talk about what other should do, sweep in front of your own front door, i rather have my plump round 40-ds my 27inch wast n my peacan brown ass so round you can set a plate on it an eat off it ass my 38 hipe that wen a walk across running traffic i dont have to wait for a red light cause they just stop even wen they have their partners in the car, so girl friend you tell the next ones that, an never call yourself fat we are just juicey in all the right places,, n happy new years girl......lol. lol lol lol

Something to remember concering weight, is that some, not all, but some cannot control their weight due to medications and such. I am one of those people, and before anyone says "well you can switch medications" keep in mind that it's not always that simple. I went through hell most of my life on & off medications that only made the condition worse in the long run, then finaly I found one that worked, sure it piled on some weight but at the same time in the almost 10 years I've been on it I've not had a single panic attack and only a few minor freak outs. I'll take the weight gain anyday rather than going back to the way it used to be;^]

I would definitely date
a full-figured women
as long as she is
more or less proportional
to her height like me.

Preference would be
in the Minneapolis-St. Paul
area.

you too darlin and i think you are fantastic! yeah i get riled up every now and then...sometimes its just misunderstandings on both parties. lots of love to ya girl xoxoxoxo

I have found that guys who are obsessed with the weight of the female are shallow, my personal experience of course, but they are so worried about what others will say about their woman or choice that they cannot get over it. Those that are shallow like that are not worthy of a good women anyway. They need to stick to a like-shallow female and move on. So do not consider it your loss when they go, consider it your gain that you don't have do deal with their sick agenda in life. Thicker ladies rule!!!!! Okay I am biased, I have met thinner ladies who rule too.

People come in all shapes and sizes and everyone has there preference whom they are attracted to...
Like I prefere skinny tall men but that is my preference. I am not small a few extra pounds but I love me. I think we have to accept who we are then others will be attacted to us.
Those are my thoughts on the subject.