Topic: Full Figured daters and the people who Love em
Jeepinfool's photo
Tue 12/25/07 12:49 AM
Edited by Jeepinfool on Tue 12/25/07 01:02 AM


i think alot of the guys on here are full of **** and are just trying to get laid, by saying they love thicker gals. with that said i have dated thicker gals(which i do enjoy), i have dated countless types of gals and shape of a woman doesn't make any differenve, and i'm actually able to say that, with out the intentions of trying to get laid. for the those guys that are trying, i say, we all can see right through you, so give it up....your not fooling anyone


actually i took that comment as an insult. are you saying its not possible for these men to like us bigger girls and that we are easy prey? maybe im reading this wrong

apparently you can't read, i have dated thicker girls and thinner girls, and feel they are no different than each other, some are shallow and some are not, but both are equal in my eyes. you really should take and english course or atleast stop being so ****ing sensitive that you can see the fact that i'm complimenting everyone of you. i was referring to the guys on here that say that they love thick gals, but in reality, they are only wanting to get laid. and to you guys that are trying to get laid, yes, i'am cockblocking, i don't want to see anyone get used, its not right...
and so i'm not saying you can't find a quality guy cause your thicker, i'm just calling out the guys who use women, and if thats insulting to you, then i apologize.

madamx7316's photo
Tue 12/25/07 12:49 AM
noway

madamx7316's photo
Tue 12/25/07 03:02 AM



i think alot of the guys on here are full of **** and are just trying to get laid, by saying they love thicker gals. with that said i have dated thicker gals(which i do enjoy), i have dated countless types of gals and shape of a woman doesn't make any differenve, and i'm actually able to say that, with out the intentions of trying to get laid. for the those guys that are trying, i say, we all can see right through you, so give it up....your not fooling anyone


actually i took that comment as an insult. are you saying its not possible for these men to like us bigger girls and that we are easy prey? maybe im reading this wrong

apparently you can't read, i have dated thicker girls and thinner girls, and feel they are no different than each other, some are shallow and some are not, but both are equal in my eyes. you really should take and english course or atleast stop being so ****ing sensitive that you can see the fact that i'm complimenting everyone of you. i was referring to the guys on here that say that they love thick gals, but in reality, they are only wanting to get laid. and to you guys that are trying to get laid, yes, i'am cockblocking, i don't want to see anyone get used, its not right...
and so i'm not saying you can't find a quality guy cause your thicker, i'm just calling out the guys who use women, and if thats insulting to you, then i apologize.


apparently i understand why you are single lmao...i would not have been insulted by your response if you would have explained it like you did in the 2nd half. cursing at me, calling me an idiot...you have hostility issues obviously. you should be apologizing for what you just said, not that i didnt understand your first post!

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Tue 12/25/07 03:12 AM
Let It Slide Madam ,,, Not all of us were breast fed

madamx7316's photo
Tue 12/25/07 03:13 AM
i did get amused over the sensitive part...you know how easy my feelings are hurt lmao dohlaugh

Lôôking4U's photo
Tue 12/25/07 03:16 AM

i think alot of the guys on here are full of **** and are just trying to get laid, by saying they love thicker gals. with that said i have dated thicker gals(which i do enjoy), i have dated countless types of gals and shape of a woman doesn't make any differenve, and i'm actually able to say that, with out the intentions of trying to get laid. for the those guys that are trying, i say, we all can see right through you, so give it up....your not fooling anyone



Deja moo: The feeling that you've heard this Bull before!

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Tue 12/25/07 03:18 AM


i think alot of the guys on here are full of **** and are just trying to get laid, by saying they love thicker gals. with that said i have dated thicker gals(which i do enjoy), i have dated countless types of gals and shape of a woman doesn't make any differenve, and i'm actually able to say that, with out the intentions of trying to get laid. for the those guys that are trying, i say, we all can see right through you, so give it up....your not fooling anyone



Deja moo: The feeling that you've heard this Bull before!


maybe in my new english class they will teach me that difference isnt spelled differenve...ya think? laugh

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Tue 12/25/07 03:18 AM
happy Deja Moo???????laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 12/25/07 03:24 AM

happy Deja Moo???????laugh laugh laugh laugh


lmao

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Tue 12/25/07 03:32 AM


I came on this site to make new friends not looking for a 'potential mate' and I have gotten that 'you've got a pretty face but u should loose weight' thing...

I am ME...I love ME...and whomever chooses to be with ME has to accept ME the way I AM!

It's a package deal!!!... the kids, the dogs, the birds, etc...it doesn't make me less attractive nor less of a person being overweight.

I don't know about you guys, but I live very far from where u guys are and I honestly just like reading your posts and meeting new people with different ideas and of course a different culture!

That being said....be confident in the way you portray yourself, have faith (it's one of the few things NO ONE can take away from you) and believe that if there is someone out there for you, YOU will find him or he will find you!!

Well said deardrinker flowerforyou


Excellent

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Tue 12/25/07 04:52 AM
I don't see why people feel the need to empower being fat. If you're fat, it isn't right. There WILL be health complications.

Maybe it's just ground into people's brains to stay away from overweight people when looking for a partner because of all the complications that might arise. It's funny what nature can do to our minds. And I'm just sayin.

Also. It isn't attractive. Fat jigglin' all over the place? Not a good sight. Stretch marks. They're marks that shouldn't be there. Same goes for cellulite. I'm not saying people aren't attracted to it, I myself love big guys.

Maybe instead of wondering why men aren't into fat women, lose some weight even just for your health or to help you live longer and then maybe you could restart your search. And I'm not talkin' 2 stone or so over the recommended body weight.

I'm talkin' about 4 stone plus.

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Tue 12/25/07 10:55 AM
Edited by MZKat on Tue 12/25/07 10:56 AM

I don't see why people feel the need to empower being fat. If you're fat, it isn't right. There WILL be health complications.

Maybe it's just ground into people's brains to stay away from overweight people when looking for a partner because of all the complications that might arise. It's funny what nature can do to our minds. And I'm just sayin.

Also. It isn't attractive. Fat jigglin' all over the place? Not a good sight. Stretch marks. They're marks that shouldn't be there. Same goes for cellulite. I'm not saying people aren't attracted to it, I myself love big guys.

Maybe instead of wondering why men aren't into fat women, lose some weight even just for your health or to help you live longer and then maybe you could restart your search. And I'm not talkin' 2 stone or so over the recommended body weight.

I'm talkin' about 4 stone plus.



First of all, who are you to say that being "Fat...isn't right"? It's like me saying, "Young single mothers are whores" who the hell am I to make that statement? Let alone, who are we to judge?

However, I do agree with you regarding health concerns...being a nurse, I do see a lot of health complications that arise from being obese. Greater risk with heart problems, diabetes, arthritis, depression and countless other risks. One would have to ask themselves if these risks out-weigh that burger that you're about to inhale :)

You're statement about the attractiveness, you are not all...let's face it sista you can't speak for everyone...so let's not insert our foot into the mouth...Stretch marks, I hate to tell you men and women are blessed with them, regardless of the size you are...having children, weight training and puberty is one culprit of those "ugly stretch marks".

I think we all know that being obese is a health issue, however, I think that this thread was meant to ask, why some men are not attracted to "bigger" girls...when I say "bigger" I mean not your rail thin girl on the cover of Glamour magazine...our society puts a lot of emphasis on what an ideal girl/man should look like...it's unrealistic lets face it. Everyone is different, we ALL are built different...shoot on a good day I'm 156 pounds and on a day like today I'm close to 160 pounds, does that make me not attractive? I think not...there are a lot more than looks that make one attractive...I'm not ashamed to say that I'm a size 8/10...and I don't judge someone based on their weight...to me that is ridiculous!

But to each is their own.

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Tue 12/25/07 11:50 AM

I don't see why people feel the need to empower being fat. If you're fat, it isn't right. There WILL be health complications.

Maybe it's just ground into people's brains to stay away from overweight people when looking for a partner because of all the complications that might arise. It's funny what nature can do to our minds. And I'm just sayin.

Also. It isn't attractive. Fat jigglin' all over the place? Not a good sight. Stretch marks. They're marks that shouldn't be there. Same goes for cellulite. I'm not saying people aren't attracted to it, I myself love big guys.

Maybe instead of wondering why men aren't into fat women, lose some weight even just for your health or to help you live longer and then maybe you could restart your search. And I'm not talkin' 2 stone or so over the recommended body weight.

I'm talkin' about 4 stone plus.



your own profile says you have a few extra pounds and are a chubby chaser...then again you are only 19, that explains the rudeness

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Tue 12/25/07 12:13 PM
she who acts in contradiction to her stated beliefs or feelings ....... could that mean she is a hypocrit...

ok ok...I will play nice :)

Merry Christmas....

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Tue 12/25/07 12:17 PM
i normally dont say anything to rude people, cuz, whats the point? but...hey what the heck lol

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Tue 12/25/07 12:23 PM
My motto is....I'll tell you how it is, instead of you finding out from others what I think of you....

:tongue:

Jeepinfool's photo
Tue 12/25/07 07:20 PM



i think alot of the guys on here are full of **** and are just trying to get laid, by saying they love thicker gals. with that said i have dated thicker gals(which i do enjoy), i have dated countless types of gals and shape of a woman doesn't make any differenve, and i'm actually able to say that, with out the intentions of trying to get laid. for the those guys that are trying, i say, we all can see right through you, so give it up....your not fooling anyone



Deja moo: The feeling that you've heard this Bull before!


maybe in my new english class they will teach me that difference isnt spelled differenve...ya think? laugh


so that is your only weapon against me is a technicality, hmmm... interesting, i will remember that in the future when you make a typo, but thanks for letting me know...

Jeepinfool's photo
Tue 12/25/07 07:22 PM


I don't see why people feel the need to empower being fat. If you're fat, it isn't right. There WILL be health complications.

Maybe it's just ground into people's brains to stay away from overweight people when looking for a partner because of all the complications that might arise. It's funny what nature can do to our minds. And I'm just sayin.

Also. It isn't attractive. Fat jigglin' all over the place? Not a good sight. Stretch marks. They're marks that shouldn't be there. Same goes for cellulite. I'm not saying people aren't attracted to it, I myself love big guys.

Maybe instead of wondering why men aren't into fat women, lose some weight even just for your health or to help you live longer and then maybe you could restart your search. And I'm not talkin' 2 stone or so over the recommended body weight.

I'm talkin' about 4 stone plus.



First of all, who are you to say that being "Fat...isn't right"? It's like me saying, "Young single mothers are whores" who the hell am I to make that statement? Let alone, who are we to judge?

However, I do agree with you regarding health concerns...being a nurse, I do see a lot of health complications that arise from being obese. Greater risk with heart problems, diabetes, arthritis, depression and countless other risks. One would have to ask themselves if these risks out-weigh that burger that you're about to inhale :)

You're statement about the attractiveness, you are not all...let's face it sista you can't speak for everyone...so let's not insert our foot into the mouth...Stretch marks, I hate to tell you men and women are blessed with them, regardless of the size you are...having children, weight training and puberty is one culprit of those "ugly stretch marks".

I think we all know that being obese is a health issue, however, I think that this thread was meant to ask, why some men are not attracted to "bigger" girls...when I say "bigger" I mean not your rail thin girl on the cover of Glamour magazine...our society puts a lot of emphasis on what an ideal girl/man should look like...it's unrealistic lets face it. Everyone is different, we ALL are built different...shoot on a good day I'm 156 pounds and on a day like today I'm close to 160 pounds, does that make me not attractive? I think not...there are a lot more than looks that make one attractive...I'm not ashamed to say that I'm a size 8/10...and I don't judge someone based on their weight...to me that is ridiculous!

But to each is their own.


you give it to them Kat. love, jeepeinfool

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Tue 12/25/07 07:24 PM



I don't see why people feel the need to empower being fat. If you're fat, it isn't right. There WILL be health complications.

Maybe it's just ground into people's brains to stay away from overweight people when looking for a partner because of all the complications that might arise. It's funny what nature can do to our minds. And I'm just sayin.

Also. It isn't attractive. Fat jigglin' all over the place? Not a good sight. Stretch marks. They're marks that shouldn't be there. Same goes for cellulite. I'm not saying people aren't attracted to it, I myself love big guys.

Maybe instead of wondering why men aren't into fat women, lose some weight even just for your health or to help you live longer and then maybe you could restart your search. And I'm not talkin' 2 stone or so over the recommended body weight.

I'm talkin' about 4 stone plus.



First of all, who are you to say that being "Fat...isn't right"? It's like me saying, "Young single mothers are whores" who the hell am I to make that statement? Let alone, who are we to judge?

However, I do agree with you regarding health concerns...being a nurse, I do see a lot of health complications that arise from being obese. Greater risk with heart problems, diabetes, arthritis, depression and countless other risks. One would have to ask themselves if these risks out-weigh that burger that you're about to inhale :)

You're statement about the attractiveness, you are not all...let's face it sista you can't speak for everyone...so let's not insert our foot into the mouth...Stretch marks, I hate to tell you men and women are blessed with them, regardless of the size you are...having children, weight training and puberty is one culprit of those "ugly stretch marks".

I think we all know that being obese is a health issue, however, I think that this thread was meant to ask, why some men are not attracted to "bigger" girls...when I say "bigger" I mean not your rail thin girl on the cover of Glamour magazine...our society puts a lot of emphasis on what an ideal girl/man should look like...it's unrealistic lets face it. Everyone is different, we ALL are built different...shoot on a good day I'm 156 pounds and on a day like today I'm close to 160 pounds, does that make me not attractive? I think not...there are a lot more than looks that make one attractive...I'm not ashamed to say that I'm a size 8/10...and I don't judge someone based on their weight...to me that is ridiculous!

But to each is their own.


you give it to them Kat. love, jeepeinfool


You know I'm a slugger Jase....hehehe

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Tue 12/25/07 07:42 PM
hey kat your on, great, this thread has been going on for quiet some, huh...