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Topic: What am I doing wrong?
markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Mon 05/14/18 07:05 PM
I have done a mutual match with over 800 ladies and I have not got even one person to reply that's serious about a relationship. I need some help from someone to give me some advice of what I am doing wrong. Expecting results

Unknow Joined Sat 02/17/18 Posts: 27	Mon 05/14/18 09:01 PM
Yes I have to all of the ladies but they didn't reply back. I have tried to contact them, but they just are not interested anymore.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45448	Mon 05/14/18 09:04 PM
Yes I have to all of the ladies but they didn't reply back. I have tried to contact them, but they just are not interested anymore. Easiest thing in the world to spot is a serial mailer/matcher. You think they cannot feel the insincerity of being one of 800? Being married is NOT a draw. You should finish with the one you have before trying to catch a new one.

undrboss Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 522	Mon 05/14/18 09:20 PM
why do you think that 800 women as you claim hasnt replied back ?

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9012	Mon 05/14/18 09:58 PM
Yes I have to all of the ladies but they didn't reply back. I have tried to contact them, but they just are not interested anymore. I have never used mutual match but have always viewed it as nothing more than a computer generated game .. Which is unable to confirm the authenticity of profiles . As already suggested .. make contact yourself and be sensible with your trust

Fervid_heart Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 489	Mon 05/14/18 10:09 PM
I use Mutual Match to feel powerful. I say no to everyone

iam_resurrected Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 985	Mon 05/14/18 11:33 PM
how about instead of waiting to be matched, you actually do a search on your own and then contact them. yeah yeah yeah, we like the drive thru menu and get it to go special. technology has created a reason to be lazy. but every woman i have been with or knew/know hates a lazy man!! j/s Iam_notgoingtohavetolookatyouruglykisseroverherenowami? good to see you made it here.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 5066	Tue 05/15/18 12:49 AM
I have done a mutual match with over 800 ladies and I have not got even one person to reply that's serious about a relationship. I need some help from someone to give me some advice of what I am doing wrong. Maybe add a few more photos in your profile, and be more targeted by sending women of interest messages rather than relying upon 'nudges' or 'mutual match', a change in your approach is surely needed with a current nil success rate in responses. Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33478	Tue 05/15/18 06:05 AM
1- get divorced first 2 - when you're divorced come back and - change your profile. Not exactly inspiring. Everyone is trustworthy, honest, not judgemental. Come up with something that's uniquely you. - get some decent pictures that are sharp and not so dark. And the guy with the tree could've been anyone. Too far away.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33478	Tue 05/15/18 06:06 AM
Did I say: Get divorced? How can you even be up for marriage if you're still married?

Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17198	Tue 05/15/18 06:33 AM
I use Mutual Match to feel powerful. I say no to everyone I click on 'Maybe' first, to give them a bit of hope, and when those Barbie Doll like young girls come up again, then I hit 'No'. Now that is "powerful", German way

olivepit Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 393	Tue 05/15/18 06:43 AM Edited by olivepit on Tue 05/15/18 06:44 AM
I have done a mutual match with over 800 ladies and I have not got even one person to reply that's serious about a relationship. I need some help from someone to give me some advice of what I am doing wrong. I know the feeling I've messaged over 900 and no luck so I'm thinking of hanging out at walmarts parking lot with some duct tape and try my luck.

Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Tue 05/15/18 07:31 AM
I have done a mutual match with over 800 ladies and I have not got even one person to reply that's serious about a relationship. I need some help from someone to give me some advice of what I am doing wrong. I know the feeling I've messaged over 900 and no luck so I'm thinking of hanging out at walmarts parking lot with some duct tape and try my luck. That didn't work last time don't know why ya would try again. Ya think 3 months in would have taught ya a lesson.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Tue 05/15/18 07:33 AM
that's cuz he forgot the chloroform

Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Tue 05/15/18 07:34 AM
Nope he remembered it he just sneezed that's how they caught him

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Tue 05/15/18 07:38 AM


Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Tue 05/15/18 07:51 AM
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oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1719	Tue 05/15/18 08:20 AM
It seems trying on a dating site is a waste of time and energy. We can have just as meaningful of a conversation with the bots and scammers.

Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Tue 05/15/18 08:22 AM
That's not true I know many couples who met on dating sites. Once you get past the nonsense you can meet some great people.

undrboss Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 522	Tue 05/15/18 08:52 AM
It seems trying on a dating site is a waste of time and energy. We can have just as meaningful of a conversation with the bots and scammers. depends on where one lives and the age. I have a buddy on here and he isnt having much luck at 39 but his cousin who is 25 is having amazing luck . I know a poster on DH who was in his 50's in L.A and he was having amazing luck but another person who is 50 from Minnesota is having terrible luck.