Geez....mutual match had never been meant for anything more than a fun game to connect....not to rely on

We might as well put up one of those pop up banners, mentioning this. And another one with instructions, how to delete an account

And every other thing that has recently been mentioned

Oh. I forgot how to upload pictures

and just how many of those 800 have been online in less than 4 days?
i will take bets that most have not been online in over a month which is the oldest note the site give for activity.

next how many of those mutual matches have matched you back?

I said that I'm ready to get married .. They (the men) are very happy. And say the same thing. But! When I say that marry me this July. They are all silent. No man replied. Am I wrong? I just want to get married now and study calmly. I can work and learn abroad without worry because I already have a mahram / Spouse.
Why does nobody want to get married as soon as I think?
Why? Why? Why?

simply put llulu 2 months to meet and learn about a perfect stranger is not enough time. it is barely enough time to get to dating exclusively

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2 months not enough then
How long do you think to marry me?

I know how you feel. Nobody on this site is serious. To them, it's just a game.

I have tried to get the attention of even one lady. I am not a serial stalker or anything. I got out of a marriage of 15 years and I have been legally separated for just over a year.

I just feel that the people on this site don't take other people seriously.

I am going to try for another 3 months, but I am starting to get that feeling.

I know two months is nothing. However, I can't even get one lady to look at my profile and take me seriously. That's the problem. I am not looking to get results in three months, but at least a friendship that can develop into something more I was looking for.

Thanks for the input.

That's the problem. There are so many people out there that it's just trying to find the right person. I am an IT professional. Unemployed.

I know technology makes a person lazy. However, when you have degenerative disc disease in your neck in a couple of spots, you can't always head out and go meet people.

Also, what if you are unemployed and seeking work. You just can't meet a lady at a bar or a dance club. I am a self-taught certified IT professional with over 15 years of knowledge/experience and I am constantly upgrading.

So it's not me being lazy, but it's the fact that I don't have the funds to do the traditional dating scene and it's physically easier on me.

That's the thing. I have contacted them in a very polite way. However, when they learn that I have degenerative disc disease in my neck and I explain of the disability, they want nothing to do of me.

The scammers don't bother me. I am an IT professional of CompTIA A+, CompTIA Network+, CompTIA Server+, and CompTIA Linux+. I also have extensive cybersecurity knowledge as well.

Thank you for the concern.

no offense Talgam, but maybe they smell the desperation

confident women or most women in general can smell desperation.