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Sun 06/15/25 10:14 AM
All the sites ebb and flow, depends on who is chatting, makes a lot of difference.

You are right, it used to be a hoot reaching its zenith in around 2010.

Scammers use it now and administration is flighty.
A return of the old days is always expected but rarely happens...we can but hope.

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Sat 06/14/25 04:57 PM
Edited by soufiehere on Sat 06/14/25 05:00 PM

Well, I think that Mingle might have implemented AI and that software is posting pictures. Makes sense now after I read last week that most moderators are gone, meaning being fired.
AI can be a good thing and also a bad thing.

Uh, the moderators were never fired, we ended up
quitting when we saw how things were being over-run
with scammers several years ago.

We revolunteered several times, for instance, when
another dating site went down a lot of their
people came here..we helped to get them adjusted.
I hope.

It is a lot of work..and people resent you mightily,
but it is also satisfying to get some kind
of order that people like to visit and return.

Since then they did indeed let all the admins (in The
Philippines) go and it does not look like
they will be replaced.

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Sat 06/14/25 01:20 PM

The were, never to be copied..RIP darlin'.

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Wed 06/11/25 01:04 PM

The back-up plan.

I told you MY reasons...methinks your comment
says more about YOU.

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Wed 06/11/25 01:03 PM
When was it last fired?

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Thu 06/05/25 10:03 PM

If you found love, why would you be on here?

The friends we left behind, the interest in them persists ;-)

soufiehere's photo
Thu 06/05/25 05:10 PM
Me, about 15 years ago ;-)

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Thu 06/05/25 12:04 PM
No can do...best bet is to copy keepers offsite,
like on a text document.

Otherwise they last about 30 days, unless you are
a paying customer they are indefinitely held.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 06/02/25 12:04 PM
A lottery winner?

soufiehere's photo
Fri 05/30/25 09:33 PM
We know....we have been around that long, good luck ;-)

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Fri 05/30/25 04:52 PM

Why are you sending me mail? My profile clearly states my age, and that I am here for friendship, and possibly casual dates. Like a coffee or lunch date. Not for hook ups or intimate encounters. Certainly not for any long term relationship or marriage.
Why are you at 39 and still wanting kids contacting a 66 yr old widower who smokes like a train, doesn’t what kids, and never drinks.
Oh and I forgot, you are on the other side of the country. Unless you are 55 or older, and live in Michigan, please don’t like me, don’t message me.

Your target audience is not likely to read anything in the forums.

They are busy scamming.

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Thu 05/29/25 11:21 AM
Never used an ad blocker.
Never had an ad.
Go figure ;-)

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Wed 05/28/25 11:27 AM

trying to view all message history and account data. can I do that? if so how?

Far as I know, only paid members retain their chat
history beyond about 30 days.

On each profile, bottom left, it will show any
interactions you have with that member.

Also, on your own profile, upper right, it will
show the past 20 interactions, or so.

As for retaining chats beyond that, you need to copy
them yourself and file them somewhere.

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Wed 05/28/25 11:20 AM

:anguished: Christmas tree still up... it's almost summer time. I do still have some lights around the firepit. 🤫
Whadoyoumean it's halfway to Christmas ;-)

soufiehere's photo
Tue 05/27/25 01:02 PM
Don't you have a bathroom??

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Tue 05/27/25 01:00 PM

Thank you!

I got myself a new Christmas tree last year, the old one had had it. That was large, so is the new one :)
I too love having it up, cosy lighting etc, but it does take away quite a lot of light where I'm usually sat so at a certain point I'm fed up with that.
Christmas all year long for us ;-)

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Tue 05/27/25 09:05 AM




Wow.... you're a very talented painter :thumbsup:

Thank you so much, Sir!
I keep challenging myself the last couple of years so I'm learning new techniques, how to paint new things etc. I really enjoy that!


Psssst..we still have our Christmas tree up ;-)


:laughing: laugh
You're kidding me?! No Christmas trees allowed after my birthday!! Which was May 13th.
It is just a small one but the lighting is so cozy ;-) Happy belated birthday Pretty Woman ;-)

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Tue 05/27/25 01:08 AM


Wow.... you're a very talented painter :thumbsup:

Thank you so much, Sir!
I keep challenging myself the last couple of years so I'm learning new techniques, how to paint new things etc. I really enjoy that!


Psssst..we still have our Christmas tree up ;-)

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Fri 05/23/25 10:02 AM

Meet someone discreetly for first gay experience

Putting it out in front of 87 million subscribers is hardly discreet.

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Tue 05/20/25 10:11 AM

i HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO WITHSTAND THE AGGRAVATION USING THIS SITE.:smile: :tongue:

Imagine our aggravation when you use all capitals,
against the rules...maybe start by reading them.

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