Does the financial secure offered by the man affect girl's dession... I mean can a girl in love refuse a respectful bond due to man's poor financial status?!

Maybe.
Depends on the girl.


Huh?
Can a girl that has bonded with a guy refuse to bond with a guy because he's poor?
Or can a girl that has stuck around a guy long enough to be in love with him refuse to stick around him long enough to bond with him, because of his poor finances?
Um...no?

There are many good women out there that will choose love over money.. but there are a small number who will be gone as soon as the money is gone. This is a small number, but gives the majority of women an undeserved bad name.
Have a great day.

Well back in my day, when dinosaurs roamed the earth, it was more Love and money. Now....well it's like saying guys with va Jay jays. J KD
I'm sure there are like 45...left....all over the world.

A girl's got to eat.

I don't believe many women are motivated by a man's financial status in making their decision on marriage because it's a team effort, and there are many things people think are much more important before they decide to marry, the love for each other as you have already mentioned.

Works both ways and they say money ain't everything but it sure helps to have a couple of bob

Back when I was in my late 20's, early 30's, upon seriously dating, it certainly was a consideration as to his financial ability to support a family. Will he be able to support me in a fashion to which I want to become accustumed?

Not every woman is in it for money just like not every woman wants to support someone

A girl's got to eat.


i agree with this

Girls/women are all different.

Some may be independent enough that they merely want companionship and are not concerned with a mans finances as long as he will not become their dependent.

Other may be struggling themselves a bit too much to take on someone elses financial dependency.

I think it will always matter , on some level, it just is more of a priority or a dealbreaker for some than for others.

This very old and very common worry, is almost always much more subtle and involved than it is made out to be.

It's almost never as simple as "either she'll take me exactly as I am, or she's a gold digger."

Wealth is directly connected to lifestyle, and thereby to what a persons daily life consists of, in the smallest of ways. It determines what kind of other people are going to live around you. It determines what you can and can't indulge in, even for small entertainments. It even decides what diet you can and can't consume.

That kind of stuff means that basic compatibility is what decides things.

One other point, is that lots of people seem to cling to the idea that love is a magic force, because it does feel so wonderful, and because people who love, do so often do great things for each other.

But love is not something that is a part, and separate from the people who experience it, it IS the people themselves. It doesn't guide, it doesn't decide, and it certainly doesn't change a person's basic needs, concerns, or life goals. So to expect the fact that someone really does love you, to cause them to become someone else entirely, is unrealistic, if not self-defeating.

I don't know.. but if I was a woman...
I wouldn't date anyone that couldn't afford to date me..lol

If a woman is independent enough to make her own keeping,this definitely not an issue to begin with. Chances are,she would rather focus on the degree of emotions you could offer to her.

yes
Financial security does not imply rich. It is the ability to financially meet lifestyle requirements. You can be poor but meet your financial requirements for your lifestyle.

I am disabled. I get a disability check once a month. All my bills are paid and I sometimes have excess that I put in savings. Due to my health, my lifestyle is afforded at my limited income.

What I find difficult is finding a woman that can tolerate my health restrictions. I have the money to go do things with a woman and can support another mouth but I am limited in the activities I can do.

I also believe in getting my money's worth from my expenditures.
I eat very little and have barely any appetite. I can afford to go out for dinner at a nice place but since I will only eat a very small amount of my food it makes no sense to pay $30 a plate for dinner. Especially when I have trouble finishing a $4 cheeseburger.

I can go to 6 Flags and afford a great time for two but will wear down in a short time. The $250 I spend will be a waste if we have to leave early because of my health. Maybe one ride or two with lots of breaks and rests.

Even free things like walking on the beach at sunset has to be moderated and done with caution. I will do it but it will be limited.

While your question is about money, my issues concern health.
Its tough to find a woman that can accept health issues in a man.
It is easier to deal with them if they happen during the relationship but not many will enter into a new relationship with a man that already has them.

Nearly every woman's profile I see, that is filled out, is written in a manner that suggests or clearly states they expect high activity levels. While financially able, I am physically restricted. It is not fair to their expectations of lifestyle for me to woo them.

Its really tough to find a woman that truly wants to be with you for your personality and charisma.Many will say that its what they value the most but in reality it is about what activities you share.

My wallet and my will is ready, its my body that refuses to cooperate.

A woman must learn not to be dependent on a man, her objective in life must be a set goal to become self sufficient. However, i strongly believe any guy that complains a girl is asking too much is BROKE

If he/she can't support themselves then yes it could have a impact on a relationship..

I'm not one that goes for the money but I will not support someone else either...

Her financial situation does not impact my decision...as long as she has respect for herself.

The Man needs to hold any job even if minimum wage and own shelter. It takes an enormous amount of time and energy to get to know someone to see if u can trust them so you can merge your assets which is i guess what most want in the West. This is in my opinion very risky and very time consuming. If u have built up any kind of life for yourself with your own possessions, journals diarys books etc why would you take all your stuff and basically give a man and their family members access to your stuff. For example when you go to work his sister could be at house and steal something. Im half a century old im no foolish 20 year old although that is a wonderful time in life. Once you know who u are and have a life and stuff it is enormously risky to merge assets as it would take so much time to check out this persons life to see if any of them would steal. So in my opinion ,its only important for a Man to have a job any job a ton of Books and his own shelter. Moving in and merging assets is gonna be a NO because it takes too much emotional time and energy to screen him and everyone who he lets in access to his life. Females need to have their own job own money own shelter if you want to be safe!!!!!! So a mans bank account is really NONE of your business

Yeah many girls do that but not all girls. A good girl will support him in any condition of his life.