Why is it that more and more woman online think they have millions of options and choices? They seem to have a false sense of entitlement. Also where are the ladies that will stop accepting free meals and offer to cook for a man for once or at least offer to go dutch at dinner, its getting out of hand you go to dinner with a man thats not your type then order up a storm just to take it to go. Then you wonder why?

Did you mean losing.

Come on.. you invite a woman out and you expect her to pay 1/2 ?

1. a woman has a sense of entitlement because she did not say yes to your invite?
2. you have decided somewhere along the line that you do not like paying for dinner?
3. you believe that a so-called classy lady would not expect you to take her to dinner but would instead offer to cook for you?

Chill out bro, you sound very bitter. mybe you need some time to lick your wounds

If you don't like spending money ( which seems to be the case),Burger King is having that 2 Whoppers for $10.00 deal..

If you cant afford to provide a meal you really don't expect them to want such a poor bloke do you?

Because with the internet they literally have
millions of choices.

Survival of the fittest.
And you have to bait the trap.
With something.

"false sense of entitlement"??? What does that mean?

Translation: The author of the above-quoted post believes that women should act the way that he wants them to.

From now on, when I go out with anyone, I'll pay for myself.

Take her to a coffee shop.

But dude, order the de-caf eh.

Yeah, and his ego is hurt cos he's spent money on women while he isn't getting out of them what he wants. Sounds like he feels he's entitled to some reward for his wonderful behaviour and effort. A cry for recognition of his greatness?

Maybe you are focusing on eye-candy too much as opposed to quality women? And then blame women for you not succeeding.
In any case, if you end up dating women that aren't what you want, YOU are doing something wrong. Learn how to filter properly.

As for the rest:
- We DO have millions of options and choices.
- We are entitled to do and choose whatever we want, like everyone else.
- Don't take a woman out for dinner on a first date and your problem is solved. Dinners are not the best way to get to know someone anyways.
- Even though I am Dutch, I don't go Dutch on a (first) date. But I also don't expect him to take me out to dinner. If he does, it's his choice. I do however always offer to contribute when the check arrives, they never want that.
- You go out on a date to find out if someone is your type. That's what dating is for...

Was trying to come with an eloquent response. I cannot. Without any personal attacks, I can say with a confident degree of certainty that many will agree, the whole premise of the text of original post...

...is a complete crock of waste. NO! I will not waste any more time defending an obvious (and I believe shared sentiment.) I will just trust in the reasonable.

Humm well I will admit that some women feel that the man should pay... If you ask her out then it is up to you to pick a place to go to....

In reality the one that ask should pay...

But due to many of the guys that have this type of attitude is why women like myself, will let it be known it is a dutch type thing on the first meet...

Why is it that some men believe women belong in the kitchen?? That is what I'm taking from what you have said..

Myself I'm sorry it is time for guys to cook for me nothing better then that in my book.. I will even help out but never expect a woman to wait on you or anyone hand n foot unless you return all those favors..

Are we entitled to anything or think we are?? Hummm no we work full time jobs just like anyone else. What we expect and entitled to is Respect. Are there ones out there that do expect it sure there is. But.... do not lump all women in that category.....

So if you are only finding those that are out for a free meal then I must say it is the women you are going for.. When you look for eye candy then you get what you get.

..well.well.. I think what we have here is what is known as a Country Gentleman..... and for the most part I agree.. there was a time when a lady would offer to cook a gentleman a home cook meal..
Knowing that he is a bachelor and probably eats a lot of low quality restaurant food... because he cannot cook for himself... being the poor helpless Bachelor.. maybe she might even offer to darn his socks well at it..
.... but sadly long gone are those bygone years ..lol... the good graces of a true lady...yup... nowadays..some ladies not all !!..but some do take advantage of a gentleman's hospitality and generosity...
Will take him..up on the offer of dinner.. even know!! full well she is not romantically interested in him...
Leading him on so to speak...
But what are you going to do? A girl's got to eat...lol

Well personally I would much prefer to invite someone around for dinner and cook a good meal for them. Its a great way to have a great conversation and spend time while cooking to get to know someone. If they are not comfortable in your home then maybe meet somewhere in public like a park or a beach and pack a picnic its not rocket science in my book.

I just wonder why I am too honest to have foregone this beautiful option of not having to cook all them years, hot dang it!!! Why didn't anyone tell me it was an option to begin with?
Oh wait, someone did. My mom. But I don't like that sort of thing. Sigh. I'm too good for this world. Dammit.

I am peeved now though... Thinking of all the great meals I could've had over the last 4 years and missed out on...
I could've been eating steak, lamb, salmon, great salads and fresh greens, soup etc. etc.
Dang dang hot dangit! Esp concerning the lamb! Sigh...