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Shall we try what u were syin?
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rubbers don't work every time, neither does the pill IF I don't know them well enough to have an inkling of the type of parent they might be, what their full name is,, SOMETHING about their upbringing/friends/life or what type of character they have their cleanliness and something of their sexual habits kids and disease can be very permanent consequences for a momentary weakness,,, I just couldn't take the potentially permanent risks of sex for the temporary pleasure,,,with someone I knew next to nothing about Despite I have never & really never thought I could...I did have a deep close connection with somebody, which the possibilities of I could have. Already having 3 grown kids & no intentions of having any more...medically & physically impossible without intervention. Regarding STD's, being a Nurse I know how to protect myself. Being single for the second time of 5 years without giving sex a thought...my interpretation of these sites are to get to know somebody prior to the date...so it totally depends on how deep the connection is & nothing to do with self respect or morals. |
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Yeah
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rubbers don't work every time, neither does the pill IF I don't know them well enough to have an inkling of the type of parent they might be, what their full name is,, SOMETHING about their upbringing/friends/life or what type of character they have their cleanliness and something of their sexual habits kids and disease can be very permanent consequences for a momentary weakness,,, I just couldn't take the potentially permanent risks of sex for the temporary pleasure,,,with someone I knew next to nothing about Despite I have never & really never thought I could...I did have a deep close connection with somebody, which the possibilities of I could have. Already having 3 grown kids & no intentions of having any more...medically & physically impossible without intervention. Regarding STD's, being a Nurse I know how to protect myself. Being single for the second time of 5 years without giving sex a thought...my interpretation of these sites are to get to know somebody prior to the date...so it totally depends on how deep the connection is & nothing to do with self respect or morals. it is always morals,, whether the moral says that the focus should be 'chemistry' or the moral says the focus should be the nature of the relationship and commitment and nurses catch stds too,, condoms aren't 100 percent,,, it makes the risk smaller , so to each their own its just not one Im engaging in with someone that I don't really know,,,, |
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I guess it depends on the situation. i had a connection and talked for a few months and i guess you could consider i slept with him on the first date. i also thought as in the hours spent before getting to know each other there was a super connection and that it would last.......
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I bring a pre-nup to the first date. Just "that" good. I like that idea. 
I have, it's not about self respect. The heart wants what the heart wants. |
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If the chemistry was right, I'm not sure I would be able to control myself. Ironically enough I would appreciate it if he would control himself and not do it. Simply cos I don't think it helps to have sex that early on if you want to really get a serious thing going.
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Well, ummm errrr, I would, but it would have to be in a bed other than the one we just had sex in. Guess that's why most hotels have rooms with 2 queen beds in em. |
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Edited by
jimmorrisoncutthroat
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Thu 08/14/14 01:51 PM
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I bring a pre-nup to the first date. Just "that" good. I like that idea.
I have, it's not about self respect. The heart wants what the heart wants. more like the mind wants what body wants... this my friends is the definition of a perfect first date... |
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I luv your style.
Crazy funny chicks rule |
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WOULD YOU
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Wow fantastic
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I've had first time sex with women.
It was always about the sex and never about a relationship...It was always motivated by lust, a physical attraction, and served to quench my appetite when nature called...It was also good for my ego... However, It was never as good or even close to being as good as the sex I have when being in a 'love or gf' relationship... |
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Not a good idea. For meaningful lovemaking you have to know the person well enough so you can trust each other with your bodies. Whenever two objects touch something is left behind (forensics principle)...you leave a piece of yourself behind every time you sleep with someone, so chose wisely. |
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are there seahawks tickets involved.?
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 When we know our partner deeply than it is Yes its the very first experience and fun which we wanted we recieved. Its the best time of our life.
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I've had first time sex with women. It was always about the sex and never about a relationship...It was always motivated by lust, a physical attraction, and served to quench my appetite when nature called...It was also good for my ego... Replace the word "women" with "men", and I'd think we were separated at birth! 
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Yes you are absolutely right.
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Laughing .. Yes ... Yes. I haven't had sex with a man for six months. If he was adorable and the chemistry was electrifying.. I would rip his clothes off and jump on him. There wouldn't be a lot of sleeping going on :-) |
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So is anyone gonna shag or what?
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