Topic: Sleeping with someone on first date? | |
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Edited by
Rock
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Mon 09/08/14 04:47 PM
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okay let's say you met this woman. are.man.. and they have a smoking hot body.. I mean drop dead gorgeous body.. chiseled .abbs perfect !.breasts everything... . but their face !!..not so much.. .. I mean.. they fell out of the ugly tree..and hit every branch on the..way down..lol... would you still sleep with them...? Absolutely! That's what paper bags and doggie style are for. Smokin' hawt body/ugly face. |
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how?
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No way ...
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If already on the first date she wants me and I want her...
then why not? Whats the problem? |
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If she wants too why not? That's a bingo! haha
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You mean sex, right? I went on a date to watch Dark Knight at a drive-in once. She actually fell asleep like ten minutes into the movie. I guess I can say she slept with me on the first date. Literally.
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You mean sex, right? I went on a date to watch Dark Knight at a drive-in once. She actually fell asleep like ten minutes into the movie. I guess I can say she slept with me on the first date. Literally. Aw Jc. Such a gentleman! |
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okay let's say you met this woman. are.man.. and they have a smoking hot body.. I mean drop dead gorgeous body.. chiseled .abbs perfect !.breasts everything... . but their face !!..not so much.. .. I mean.. they fell out of the ugly tree..and hit every branch on the..way down..lol... would you still sleep with them...? This used to be easy, back in the day. Now I am not into that type of thing. I want a meaningful relationship that does not rely on "sleeping with him." |
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If you want to have sex on the first date, go for it. If not, don't. Why is it such a big deal?
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.. I honestly try not to let it happen..
I mean before I meet them.. I say this to myself... no matter how much they beg for it.. no matter how persistent they are.. just say no.. .. repeat the words you told them earlier.. before the date.. now when you meet me.. you are going to want to sleep with me..... but you need to be strong... use all of your will power...... because I do not have any... |
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Hell, if you are getting sex before breakfast, after lunch ad 2x before bedtime every day then yes by all means wait with it way way past your first date. In fact, why date at all if your bedlife is well covered.
Fo me, sex is precious (and sadly rather rare) intimate highlight of my life. Physical togetherness is awesome and the naked body of a woman lying next to you, illuminated by the candlelights... its the most beautiful thing in the world. And I should put a limit on it myself? Who in their right mind, who havent got any for a month or more would want to do that? Is it the old wives tale that your date may think of you as easy when you give in too quickly and lose respect? Gimme a break, respect may go out of the window when youre playing starfish in bed, no matter if it happens after 1st or 12th date Women have this awesome power to show their man something absolutely amazing, to make him feel something that a man cannot never repeat on his own, nor want to... a touch of a womans hands, touch of a womans skin, feel of a womans body and passion! it doesnt matter when it happens, what counts is HOW it happens. |
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I only have sex on our last date.
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rubbers don't work every time, neither does the pill IF I don't know them well enough to have an inkling of the type of parent they might be, what their full name is,, SOMETHING about their upbringing/friends/life or what type of character they have their cleanliness and something of their sexual habits kids and disease can be very permanent consequences for a momentary weakness,,, I just couldn't take the potentially permanent risks of sex for the temporary pleasure,,,with someone I knew next to nothing about This I agree with; especially the chance of getting a disease. |
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Would you consider sleeping with someone on the first date? |
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i just happen to be adorable........................look i have to try its been 5 years lol xx
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I tell myself every time... this time PhD... you must remain strong...
. you must remain vigilant... . you mustn't have more than three drinks..... don't give in to their powde puppy dog eyes... no matter what..... .....hmmm... how can you say no!! to puppy dog eyes...hmmmm . |
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I had sex recently on first date....the chemistry and experience was electric....was incredible....he felt it too and think we could have been happy as f buddies...but It was long distance and he wanted me as a gf , but he wasn't emotionally involved so it fizzled out...
It's like everything ..if u can't have it ...u want it more....with sex ...longer u leave it more respect grows..also u not feeling rubbish when u sleep with losers too quickly...cos players will move on if they have to wait. |
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Hi
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That would be a "no".One should respect themselves more than a roll in the hay on first dates. Not saying, it never has happened but as one grows older and supposedly wiser, better choices for self are made. Ask yourself this, should this relationship work, do you want him/her to respect you? Don't give it up so easily,honey.
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