Please .. [B]NOTE: Please don't message me if you have an empty profile and NOT taken the time to give some info about yourself, hence I will not take the time to answer...NOR will I want to meet with you..[/B] ........................................ Now grab a coffee/tea/drink make yourself comfy cause this is a long read LOL... ........................................ Oh... and btw if you cannot construct a simple sentence when you first introduce yourself don't bother! .. a 'hi' is not a conversation! :P ........................................ LIVE and LOVE so intensely that when death comes there is nothing left for him to take. ........................................ Please don't waste your and my time emailing me to just have an Online relationship. ........................................ Wouldn't you agree? I have friends and can't even keep up email with them so PLEASE understand my situation. Bottom line is I am looking for a partner NOT JUST a friend. There you have it. ::cool:: ........................................ Anyhow.. here I am.... "drum rolls.... " ........................................ I enjoy doing so many things, a list would too long to put in here but I guess I would be best described as a good conversationalist, funny, passionate, spontaneous and arty, tidy - and deep breath - worldly, fun loving and NOT an 'intense person', I have a bubbly personality, my smile and laugh come easy, I love making people smile, did I include enough adjectives there"?? LOL. I am a social person, a 'people's person" but I have to admit I also enjoy having "me, myself and I" time. ........................................ I have traveled internationally and homeland many times and I afford myself every few years or so, (been far too long since my last trip, I have itchy feet again when I finished my renovation on my beach cabin I be outta this place)) ever since my two boys were old enough to do their own thing. I have been to numerous places, I visited/vacationed in the USA (x4), I have also traveled to most countries in Europe, the UK, Tahiti, Thailand and China. Yes, I travel on my own, (Except when I traveled to different countries in Europe for 4 months) I find it interesting meeting new people and seeing new places. ........................................ I don't have a "man" in my life besides my two adult boys.. but they live their own lives! Well they are old enough to live their own lives! And it is a big wide world to explore. ........................................ I might as well tell you that I was born in Austria and moved to Australia when I was only a little kid. Hence, I am not a 'Fair Dinkum" Aussie ;) but am a nice mixture. ........................................ A physical relationship is IMPORTANT to me, but ultimately it is that feeling of connection, trust and admiration that makes having a relationship worthwhile. I am passionate about life, when something/someone sparks my interest I tend to immerse myself deeply. By that I mean I really get 'into him". Two ways of saying it, I guess. ........................................ I do 'take care' of myself and I would expect the same of you. I tend to be the girly type. You can always ask me 'smirk'. ........................................ Sorry.. sorry but I do have to mention: I am petite and not into being squashed by an "obese" person - by that I DO NOT mean a few extra pounds I mean obese.. ........................................ Emotional everyday roller coaster ride most people seem to enjoy as they must hash out and count out the same problems over and over again does not interest me in the least. It is not worth it! I tend not to moan about problems, I would rather search for solutions. ........................................ While I would love to, simply LOVE to, stumble across someone to sweep me off my feet - as we say in Australia : "Where the bloody hell are YOU?" LOL besides I am really not very heavy! ;) I am by no means desperate or desperately seeking. In fact, I am happy and feel pretty comfortable about myself but it would be nice to add a man I can admire to the mix of my life. ........................................ I would love to be with a man who is "Good looking in my eyes", and would be happy to interact with me that keeps my attention, A man who can converse with me and be a "decent sort, smart and active.". Intelligence goes a long way! ........................................ Cheers! ........................................ Addendum!!.. If you do NOT have at least one photo, preferably more of yourself on your profile, I am NOT interested to chat, unless you can email one to me on this site. Please do not ask to accept a friend request unless we have exchanged at least a couple of messages. Hey com'on how can I be your friend if we had never even conversed a little? ......and NO will NOT send you money!!!!!!!!!! NOT one cent shoooo shooo go away. I do enjoy reading the forums to while away some spare time I have often very late at night (for me). ........................................ .............. and if you are married or attached in any way and your children are not independent already please give me a miss. ........................................ G'Day I KNOW , I KNOW, it will never happen again.. I think I have had my share of relationships to last me till I go and live with the angels.. :D