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Topic: A very unfortunate matter concerning a Mingle2 moderator
msmyka's photo
Tue 05/15/12 01:51 PM

I wonder if he is a Justin Beiber fan?.........smokin


too soon

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:01 PM
Edited by Ladylid2012 on Tue 05/15/12 02:02 PM

I wonder if he is a Justin Beiber fan?.........smokin


no photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:05 PM
For me, it feels like I have been to a funeral. This person I thought I knew, is no more. He is gone. I feel sad.

willing2's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:21 PM


In other words..let us take care of them for the rest of their natural lives, let them have accass to the internet, write books and cry about how badly they are mistreated...wow...that's real punishment there.
While in the meantime..all the other ones like them, say hey...what's the worse that can happen to us??? Let's go ahead and do whatever our perverted minds tell us to...we'll be taken care of even if we get caught.
Way to go!!


I said nothing about internet access, they don't need that.

By treat them like humans, I mean I don't think they should be tortured or mutilated.

Why should I care if they write books or complain about their treatment?

I believe that all prisons should require that the inmates work. They work or they go in the hole. The goal would be to make prisons self sustaining. Put the prison somewhere that limited or no guards would be required. I think it could be done without encouraging more offenders or acting like barbarians.


He and the other child predators should receive the same type of treatment and compassion they showed their victims.

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:31 PM
moderators have to register for the site like everyone else. How do you prove anyone is who they claim to be? We volunteer our time, so there wasn't a need to prove who we are before since taxes aren't involved. Not sure how anyone can prove who they are online....to be honest. Even on paying sites...someone can be using someone elses credit card. There was no way to tie this alias to Keith Willis before now because the authorities didn't even know. I always thought Lex was his real name. How do you do a background check on Lex Fonteyne? When people register...they could use someone elses name. I'm sure Kristi and I can confirm ID's with each other since we live so close (show ID's to each other) but people are here from all over the world.

I have no problem with a back ground check, but how do you prove who you are?

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Tue 05/15/12 02:32 PM



In other words..let us take care of them for the rest of their natural lives, let them have accass to the internet, write books and cry about how badly they are mistreated...wow...that's real punishment there.
While in the meantime..all the other ones like them, say hey...what's the worse that can happen to us??? Let's go ahead and do whatever our perverted minds tell us to...we'll be taken care of even if we get caught.
Way to go!!


I said nothing about internet access, they don't need that.

By treat them like humans, I mean I don't think they should be tortured or mutilated.

Why should I care if they write books or complain about their treatment?

I believe that all prisons should require that the inmates work. They work or they go in the hole. The goal would be to make prisons self sustaining. Put the prison somewhere that limited or no guards would be required. I think it could be done without encouraging more offenders or acting like barbarians.


He and the other child predators should receive the same type of treatment and compassion they showed their victims.


What makes civilization civilized is that we treat our mentally ill with care, rather than torture them.

no photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:33 PM
Thanks Spider. flowerforyou


metalwing's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:35 PM

moderators have to register for the site like everyone else. How do you prove anyone is who they claim to be? We volunteer our time, so there wasn't a need to prove who we are before since taxes aren't involved. Not sure how anyone can prove who they are online....to be honest. Even on paying sites...someone can be using someone elses credit card. There was no way to tie this alias to Keith Willis before now because the authorities didn't even know. I always thought Lex was his real name. How do you do a background check on Lex Fonteyne? When people register...they could use someone elses name. I'm sure Kristi and I can confirm ID's with each other since we live so close (show ID's to each other) but people are here from all over the world.

I have no problem with a back ground check, but how do you prove who you are?


I am happy to check you out!

I'm just a secret agent space pig. No one has ever proven differently!

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:37 PM


moderators have to register for the site like everyone else. How do you prove anyone is who they claim to be? We volunteer our time, so there wasn't a need to prove who we are before since taxes aren't involved. Not sure how anyone can prove who they are online....to be honest. Even on paying sites...someone can be using someone elses credit card. There was no way to tie this alias to Keith Willis before now because the authorities didn't even know. I always thought Lex was his real name. How do you do a background check on Lex Fonteyne? When people register...they could use someone elses name. I'm sure Kristi and I can confirm ID's with each other since we live so close (show ID's to each other) but people are here from all over the world.

I have no problem with a back ground check, but how do you prove who you are?


I am happy to check you out!

I'm just a secret agent space pig. No one has ever proven differently!


laugh well I'm a cartoon

Winx's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:39 PM
Edited by Winx on Tue 05/15/12 02:42 PM
Oh, crud. He has two more profiles:


http://www.okcupid.com/profile/XenonBaboon/


http://www.linkedin.com/pub/lex-fonteyne/38/213/1b0?trk=pub-pbmap




metalwing's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:39 PM




In other words..let us take care of them for the rest of their natural lives, let them have accass to the internet, write books and cry about how badly they are mistreated...wow...that's real punishment there.
While in the meantime..all the other ones like them, say hey...what's the worse that can happen to us??? Let's go ahead and do whatever our perverted minds tell us to...we'll be taken care of even if we get caught.
Way to go!!


I said nothing about internet access, they don't need that.

By treat them like humans, I mean I don't think they should be tortured or mutilated.

Why should I care if they write books or complain about their treatment?

I believe that all prisons should require that the inmates work. They work or they go in the hole. The goal would be to make prisons self sustaining. Put the prison somewhere that limited or no guards would be required. I think it could be done without encouraging more offenders or acting like barbarians.


He and the other child predators should receive the same type of treatment and compassion they showed their victims.


What makes civilization civilized is that we treat our mentally ill with care, rather than torture them.


A quick clean death is not considered torture.

msharmony's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:40 PM
the original article stated he was on many dating sites...

no photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:40 PM

moderators have to register for the site like everyone else. How do you prove anyone is who they claim to be? We volunteer our time, so there wasn't a need to prove who we are before since taxes aren't involved. Not sure how anyone can prove who they are online....to be honest. Even on paying sites...someone can be using someone elses credit card. There was no way to tie this alias to Keith Willis before now because the authorities didn't even know. I always thought Lex was his real name. How do you do a background check on Lex Fonteyne? When people register...they could use someone elses name. I'm sure Kristi and I can confirm ID's with each other since we live so close (show ID's to each other) but people are here from all over the world.

I have no problem with a back ground check, but how do you prove who you are?


I would think that if someone did a background check on Lex Fonteyne, they wouldn't come up with much except for his online persona. That should be a red flag.

So yes, a background check could have picked up something odd like that.

msharmony's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:41 PM


moderators have to register for the site like everyone else. How do you prove anyone is who they claim to be? We volunteer our time, so there wasn't a need to prove who we are before since taxes aren't involved. Not sure how anyone can prove who they are online....to be honest. Even on paying sites...someone can be using someone elses credit card. There was no way to tie this alias to Keith Willis before now because the authorities didn't even know. I always thought Lex was his real name. How do you do a background check on Lex Fonteyne? When people register...they could use someone elses name. I'm sure Kristi and I can confirm ID's with each other since we live so close (show ID's to each other) but people are here from all over the world.

I have no problem with a back ground check, but how do you prove who you are?


I would think that if someone did a background check on Lex Fonteyne, they wouldn't come up with much except for his online persona. That should be a red flag.

So yes, a background check could have picked up something odd like that.



you wouldnt find much on Ms Harmony either,,, except online persona

thats not really that 'odd',, some people dont do much thats 'cyber' worthy,,,,and they dont participate in many cyber social networks,,,

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:42 PM


moderators have to register for the site like everyone else. How do you prove anyone is who they claim to be? We volunteer our time, so there wasn't a need to prove who we are before since taxes aren't involved. Not sure how anyone can prove who they are online....to be honest. Even on paying sites...someone can be using someone elses credit card. There was no way to tie this alias to Keith Willis before now because the authorities didn't even know. I always thought Lex was his real name. How do you do a background check on Lex Fonteyne? When people register...they could use someone elses name. I'm sure Kristi and I can confirm ID's with each other since we live so close (show ID's to each other) but people are here from all over the world.

I have no problem with a back ground check, but how do you prove who you are?


I would think that if someone did a background check on Lex Fonteyne, they wouldn't come up with much except for his online persona. That should be a red flag.

So yes, a background check could have picked up something odd like that.


Like I said...I always thought THAT was his real name. But I could use my sister's information....how would anyone know? You could be using your neighbor's information....how would anyone know?

teadipper's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:44 PM

For me, it feels like I have been to a funeral. This person I thought I knew, is no more. He is gone. I feel sad.


Me too Jeannie. Yes, what he did was horrible. But there was a part of Keith, the Lex part who was brilliant. I am not saying his crimes were not bad. But the clever guy who did the "Glorious Profile" threads and wrote was a very intelligent person. I think we all mourn THAT ASPECT of the person we thought we knew. The guy with the perfect grammar and spelling, etc. Remember his crimes were almost a decade ago. He often said his only friends were online. He avoided women with children at all costs, etc. I think he was trying to have a somewhat normal life. I am not making excuses for what he did. But if you knew the crimes of every person who walked down the street, you would never leave your house. A friend told me that after I found out about another friend's horrible violent past. And it's true.

metalwing's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:44 PM



moderators have to register for the site like everyone else. How do you prove anyone is who they claim to be? We volunteer our time, so there wasn't a need to prove who we are before since taxes aren't involved. Not sure how anyone can prove who they are online....to be honest. Even on paying sites...someone can be using someone elses credit card. There was no way to tie this alias to Keith Willis before now because the authorities didn't even know. I always thought Lex was his real name. How do you do a background check on Lex Fonteyne? When people register...they could use someone elses name. I'm sure Kristi and I can confirm ID's with each other since we live so close (show ID's to each other) but people are here from all over the world.

I have no problem with a back ground check, but how do you prove who you are?


I would think that if someone did a background check on Lex Fonteyne, they wouldn't come up with much except for his online persona. That should be a red flag.

So yes, a background check could have picked up something odd like that.


Like I said...I always thought THAT was his real name. But I could use my sister's information....how would anyone know? You could be using your neighbor's information....how would anyone know?


They could go to a Mingle Meet!

newarkjw's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:45 PM


I wonder if he is a Justin Beiber fan?.........smokin




I'm sure I have been called worse............smokin

msharmony's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:45 PM


For me, it feels like I have been to a funeral. This person I thought I knew, is no more. He is gone. I feel sad.


Me too Jeannie. Yes, what he did was horrible. But there was a part of Keith, the Lex part who was brilliant. I am not saying his crimes were not bad. But the clever guy who did the "Glorious Profile" threads and wrote was a very intelligent person. I think we all mourn THAT ASPECT of the person we thought we knew. The guy with the perfect grammar and spelling, etc. Remember his crimes were almost a decade ago. He often said his only friends were online. He avoided women with children at all costs, etc. I think he was trying to have a somewhat normal life. I am not making excuses for what he did. But if you knew the crimes of every person who walked down the street, you would never leave your house. A friend told me that after I found out about another friend's horrible violent past. And it's true.



flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 05/15/12 02:45 PM

They could go to a Mingle Meet!


AHHHHHHHHHH but I could use my sister's ID. We look alike in pictures.

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