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Topic: Do You Set off Red Flags when it comes to Dating?
Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Tue 02/21/12 04:13 PM
I think of a red flag as something that indicates a person would be bad in a relationship or a dangerous person. I think things like smoking, snoring and being too tall are just preferences that people have. Not red flags. A red flag I have is that I've been married 3 times.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 02/21/12 04:26 PM
I think of a red flag as something that indicates a person would be bad in a relationship or a dangerous person. I think things like smoking, snoring and being too tall are just preferences that people have. Not red flags. A red flag I have is that I've been married 3 times. Yeah, and me a red flag is never having been married. Sounds like I can't committ.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 02/21/12 04:30 PM
Intense, fiery passion when I feel for someone. Scorpio traits I'm growing proud of.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21863	Tue 02/21/12 04:32 PM
my disclaimer: i don't like humans. Oh come on. They're not that bad if you marinate them.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Tue 02/21/12 04:36 PM
my disclaimer: i don't like humans. Oh come on. They're not that bad if you marinate them. And people criticize my fondness for cats.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Tue 02/21/12 04:37 PM
Yeah, and me a red flag is never having been married. Sounds like I can't committ. Well, can you?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Tue 02/21/12 04:38 PM
my disclaimer: i don't like humans. Then what would be the point of you being on a date?

LilBitJ Joined Sun 02/19/12 Posts: 3	Tue 02/21/12 04:50 PM Edited by LilBitJ on Tue 02/21/12 04:52 PM
the red flags that i suppose are in my possesion is.....only 5'1, althletic built, very athletic, a little tomboyish but(not HOMO),can count the guys that i have had a relationship on 4 fingers, i uphold high standards for myself, independent, been in church since i was 11, will not date foolish men, pretty boys are pleasing to my eyes, i think oral sex is nasty and im very private about my life and who i allow in it!

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Tue 02/21/12 04:54 PM
the red flags that i suppose are in my possesion is.....only 5'1, althletic built, very athletic, a little tomboyish but(not HOMO),can count the guys that i have had a relationship on 4 fingers, i uphold high standards for myself, independent, been in church since i was 11, will not date foolish men, pretty boys are pleasing to my eyes, i think oral sex is nasty and im very private about my life and who i allow in it! Apparently you do not understand what a red flag is. It is something negative about you. You didn't mention any negatives about yourself.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Tue 02/21/12 04:56 PM
But....... but...... BUT.......... I have a............. Beard!!!!!!!!!!! but you smoke. D: Well........ I'm only...... Human!!!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 02/21/12 04:58 PM
Yeah, and me a red flag is never having been married. Sounds like I can't committ. Well, can you? Honestly, at one time I thought I could but now what would be the point?

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Tue 02/21/12 04:59 PM
I set off Red Flag..... Yellow Flags when I cause a crash.... But I never get the Checkered Flag!!!! Oh...... And I Will NEVER raise the ....... White Flag!!!!!!!

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 02/21/12 04:59 PM
Dip it in a glass of water and the smoking stops Ghost .

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Tue 02/21/12 05:01 PM
Yeah, and me a red flag is never having been married. Sounds like I can't committ. Well, can you? Honestly, at one time I thought I could but now what would be the point? It's not too late for you to be committed . . .

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Tue 02/21/12 05:01 PM
Dip it in a glass of water and the smoking stops Ghost . Dayummm Thanks Bro....... Never thought of that!!!

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 02/21/12 05:01 PM
Yeah, and me a red flag is never having been married. Sounds like I can't committ. Well, can you? Honestly, at one time I thought I could but now what would be the point? Taking a chance at having a happier life.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 02/21/12 05:10 PM
My red flags, I have the aura of a whore. I literally look down on people when I think they are being douches...and they know it. I drink....if a chick don't like it she can kick her own @$$ to the curb. I smoke. I smoke. :) I don't give a phuq about hearing about failed relationships with ex's. I could go for days,.....

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Tue 02/21/12 05:10 PM
Then what would be the point of you being on a date? when was i on a date?

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 02/21/12 05:23 PM
My red flags, I have the aura of a whore. I literally look down on people when I think they are being douches...and they know it. I drink....if a chick don't like it she can kick her own @$$ to the curb. I smoke. I smoke. :) I don't give a phuq about hearing about failed relationships with ex's. I could go for days,..... More of necessity than a red flag. We thank you for it in the end. Forgive me? Youth is wasted on us, I'm happy to admit that.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Tue 02/21/12 05:24 PM
Intense, fiery passion when I feel for someone. Scorpio traits I'm growing proud of. Scorpio is my moon sign. So I definitely know what you mean.