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| Topic: Do You Set off Red Flags when it comes to Dating? | |
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 Then what would be the point of you being on a date? when was i on a date? Bianca, why are you so down on others and yourself? |
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Flags?????
Flags H3LL!!!!!!!! I can pay for everything I buy at Wallyworld and still....... Set off the 5 finger discount alarm on my way out the door!!!!!! Forget the.......... Flippin Flags!!!!!!!!!!!  
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i wanna play flag football? lol
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Bianca, why are you so down on others and yourself? are you a therapist? |
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Bianca, why are you so down on others and yourself? are you a therapist? No............ But....... I play one on TV!!!!!!!! |
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Bianca, why are you so down on others and yourself? are you a therapist? Of course not. Just curious. |
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Absolutely. I've been married but it was an abominable experience, I would never do that again. I never had kids, I don't drink, I'm not really a "people person," I have Asperger's, I'm a reclusive hermit who does little other than write books and dwiddle around on the computer, and I have the attention span of a chili dog. Women are not looking for someone like that....! I never thought you as not being a people person Lex. You seem rather friendly here on the forums. Well, it's different on here. I don't get incessantly pummeled by people with idiotic demands here, the way I used to in real life. I've found that the best people are on line people, because they're not trying to get something from you every 15 seconds. Hey Lex. Can I borrow some money?  
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Absolutely. I've been married but it was an abominable experience, I would never do that again. I never had kids, I don't drink, I'm not really a "people person," I have Asperger's, I'm a reclusive hermit who does little other than write books and dwiddle around on the computer, and I have the attention span of a chili dog. Women are not looking for someone like that....! I never thought you as not being a people person Lex. You seem rather friendly here on the forums. Well, it's different on here. I don't get incessantly pummeled by people with idiotic demands here, the way I used to in real life. I've found that the best people are on line people, because they're not trying to get something from you every 15 seconds. Hey Lex. Can I borrow some money? Sure, as soon as Paramount sends me the check for the movie option. |
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Her name is Bianca?
I am almost insulted. (Eventually I will get over it,....must be the facial hair thing) |
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Bianca, why are you so down on others and yourself? are you a therapist? Yeah,.......next question. |
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Absolutely. I've been married but it was an abominable experience, I would never do that again. I never had kids, I don't drink, I'm not really a "people person," I have Asperger's, I'm a reclusive hermit who does little other than write books and dwiddle around on the computer, and I have the attention span of a chili dog. Women are not looking for someone like that....! since u brought it up what is asperger's? if I may ask? I mean u can refer me to google - I'd rather know what u say tho |
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Have been reading topics on seeing red flags in others but how about ourselves? I will go first. Me, never married; never been in a long term relationship, never had kids, very independent, being in the military, my age, a bit too tall for most men, and too muscular. So anyone else think they set off red flags when it comes to dating? this is a great post Nvy because it asks us to look at ourselves and realize that we are not perfect I know I am not - my age is a red flag - most men are not looking for a woman my age - now this is something that I don;t think will be a red flag to some men - thsoe are the ones I am looking for I will never again get into a relationship with a man who has reservations about my age & spend time arguing about it like I did in my last relationship - another red flag is prolly the fact that I do have some trust issues - but hoestly I have gotten a lot better about that I think just have met some great folk on here who have helped me see that kindness still exists in the world! I am difficult to control & stubborn about changing my mind - I HATE when my partner tries to change my mind about things at the same time I do not like to argue - I cannot be controlled - but to a man who percevies that as a ref flag? I would not be interested in anyway |
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Absolutely. I've been married but it was an abominable experience, I would never do that again. I never had kids, I don't drink, I'm not really a "people person," I have Asperger's, I'm a reclusive hermit who does little other than write books and dwiddle around on the computer, and I have the attention span of a chili dog. Women are not looking for someone like that....! since u brought it up what is asperger's? if I may ask? I mean u can refer me to google - I'd rather know what u say tho Pretty sure that was an @$$burger reference....when.someone gets naked and it smells like they are cooking cheeseburgeres....or maybe that is just my personal experience. |
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Edited by
krupa
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Tue 02/21/12 06:57 PM
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this is a great post Nvy because it asks us to look at ourselves and realize that we are not perfect..,...yes I am! I know I am not - my age is a red flag - most men are not looking for a woman my age - now this is something that I don;t think will be a red flag to some men - thsoe are the ones I am looking for....hate to bust your bubble...but, you are a bit young for me.......seriously. I will never again get into a relationship with a man who has reservations about my age & spend time arguing about it like I did in my last relationship - ...,,....2 minutes arguing. Is too much. another red flag is prolly the fact that I do have some trust issues - but hoestly I have gotten a lot better about that I think...that is something for you to deal with just have met some great folk on here who have helped me see that kindness still exists in the world!.......not everyone sucks..,just saying. I am difficult to control & stubborn about changing my mind - I HATE when my partner tries to change my mind about things at the same time I do not like to argue - I cannot be controlled - but to a man who percevies that as a ref flag? I would still be interested in anyway....as long as you are still willing to have sex...,guys will cope. |
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I used to pee my bed.........
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Absolutely. I've been married but it was an abominable experience, I would never do that again. I never had kids, I don't drink, I'm not really a "people person," I have Asperger's, I'm a reclusive hermit who does little other than write books and dwiddle around on the computer, and I have the attention span of a chili dog. Women are not looking for someone like that....! since u brought it up what is asperger's? if I may ask? I mean u can refer me to google - I'd rather know what u say tho Here's a good link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger%27s_syndrome I was diagnosed with "high-functioning" Asperger's in 2007. |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Tue 02/21/12 07:00 PM
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@ this is a great post Nvy because it asks us to look at ourselves and realize that we are not perfect..,...yes I am! I know I am not - my age is a red flag - most men are not looking for a woman my age - now this is something that I don;t think will be a red flag to some men - thsoe are the ones I am looking for....hate to bust your bubble...but, you are a bit young for me.......seriously. I will never again get into a relationship with a man who has reservations about my age & spend time arguing about it like I did in my last relationship - ...,,....2 minutes arguing. Is too much. another red flag is prolly the fact that I do have some trust issues - but hoestly I have gotten a lot better about that I think...that is something for you to deal with just have met some great folk on here who have helped me see that kindness still exists in the world!.......not everyone sucks..,just saying. I am difficult to control & stubborn about changing my mind - I HATE when my partner tries to change my mind about things at the same time I do not like to argue - I cannot be controlled - but to a man who percevies that as a ref flag? I would still be interested in anyway....as long as you are still willing to have sex...,guys will cope. thanks krupa some good & helpful insights there - I really appreciate it. tho not sure that Lex will appreciate your definitions 
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Jumps at scary movies....
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My red flags?
OMG even I can't write that much lol! But yea I have a bouquet full. I just keep hoping it will bearable along with the good points. |
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Have been reading topics on seeing red flags in others but how about ourselves? I will go first. Me, never married; never been in a long term relationship, never had kids, very independent, being in the military, my age, a bit too tall for most men, and too muscular. So anyone else think they set off red flags when it comes to dating? Oh yea, I am sure that I do. I am not very trusting of anyone including my family so I am sure that triggers red flags. And then when someone tries to manipulate me, the result isn't good and I am sure that is more than a trigger  |
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