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 calma downzee |
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I didn't say 'hide' from me. I didn't say 'presently'. See? Still the hypocrite. Judge, Hyprocritical, Self-Righteous. Maturity looks so awesome. And now you're down to three 'points'. Letting some out huh? Aw, maybe you should buy some more in style specs? Immaturity - 12 Maturity - 1 Hey, figured I'd be 'considerate'. That picture is pretty funny. 
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Exactly.
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 Sounds like you need to work on not letting yourself be offended by someone calling you an old timer. People get offended way too easily these days. I wasn't 'offended' by the old timer term... I was offended by threatened for bumping into a teenie-bopper which I had apologized too.. I was offended by... him. Not so much her. In your last response to me, you said you were offended by her words. Now you're changing your story. Sorry, I used 'enraged' by him. I'm calculating several different thoughts as I didn't expect this to get me so many responses. :O Offended by her. Enraged by him. Geez. Right, that's what I was saying. Don't let something silly like that offend you. |
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You are 30!!! You are not in high school anymore fighting to preserve your reputation. Everyone has to grow up sometime.. "Everyone has to grow up sometime." Why? What for? I love my childish mentality. I have tons of fun. Live life. Laugh more. The pressures and depression that follows suit with 'adulthood'. No thanks, nu-uh, not for me. I'm having the time of life.. ..not sitting here remembering the times that past. You can keep your adulthood. Keep your politics and seriousness. I'll always be a Toyz R Us kid. I'm only a few years older than you and am having a good life as well. Not quite sure why you're assuming all adults are sitting here remembering the times of their past, rather than having fun. But hey, you did ask for opinions when you posted this and you got them. I can see you don't like many of them. |
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Right, that's what I was saying. Don't let something silly like that offend you. To be entirely accurate: Time Frame - Reaction at the Time As it happened: Shocked The Look she made: Blank BF in Face: Confused BF Speaks: Agitated BF Backs Away: Annoyed I Walk Away: Now offended Seeing his Car: Devious Keys Come Out of Pocket: Juvenile Finished Keying: Proud Walking Away: Not so much Getting Home: Regret Typing This Up: See all of the above. Since it's hard to categorize an entire situation into one 'emotion'. |
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You are 30!!! You are not in high school anymore fighting to preserve your reputation. Everyone has to grow up sometime.. "Everyone has to grow up sometime." Why? What for? I love my childish mentality. I have tons of fun. Live life. Laugh more. The pressures and depression that follows suit with 'adulthood'. No thanks, nu-uh, not for me. I'm having the time of life.. ..not sitting here remembering the times that past. You can keep your adulthood. Keep your politics and seriousness. I'll always be a Toyz R Us kid. I'm only a few years older than you and am having a good life as well. Not quite sure why you're assuming all adults are sitting here remembering the times of their past, rather than having fun. But hey, you did ask for opinions when you posted this and you got them. I can see you don't like many of them. Not that. What I don't like is the fact I asked one question: Would you be offended. That's the headline as well. I didn't ask to be 'judged'. I didn't ask to be 'labeled'. I didn't ask to be 'degraded'. I didn't ask to be 'stereotyped'. The question was a 'yes' or 'no' question. Not a 'you need to group up, you have a son, and a history of violence that proceeds you'.. Yeah, no.. not all that. Next time, I'll leave out the story. Only ask the question. |
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..and before you go there.
I did also ask if I overreacted. Still, it's a yes or no question. No reason to attack my character. Or judge my entire life from one incident. |
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Final Note before I ignore this thread for the rest of my life..
In reality.. I helped the economy! I just gave some detailer some work. Took from the rich - gave to the poor. Modern Day Robin Hood.. :D |
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..and before you go there. I did also ask if I overreacted. Still, it's a yes or no question. No reason to attack my character. Or judge my entire life from one incident. You seem to be looking for others to validate what you did. When you ask if others would have been offended, or if you overreacted, of course people are going to give their thoughts on why or why not. I know you're new here, but you can't post a thread like this and expect only yes or no answers. You've been attacking and judging other people here, too. That's not going to help get people to take you more seriously. |
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Final Note before I ignore this thread for the rest of my life.. In reality.. I helped the economy! I just gave some detailer some work. Took from the rich - gave to the poor. Modern Day Robin Hood.. :D So you'll feel the same should someone do that to your car? |
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..and before you go there. I did also ask if I overreacted. Still, it's a yes or no question. No reason to attack my character. Or judge my entire life from one incident. You seem to be looking for others to validate what you did. When you ask if others would have been offended, or if you overreacted, of course people are going to give their thoughts on why or why not. I know you're new here, but you can't post a thread like this and expect only yes or no answers. You've been attacking and judging other people here, too. That's not going to help get people to take you more seriously. Who did I judge? o.o I attacked someone? o.O You did notice that people left their opinions, I accepted them and didn't attack them, right? Or you just included that guy up there? |
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Edited by
Sin_and_Sorrow
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Fri 01/06/12 10:59 AM
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Final Note before I ignore this thread for the rest of my life.. In reality.. I helped the economy! I just gave some detailer some work. Took from the rich - gave to the poor. Modern Day Robin Hood.. :D So you'll feel the same should someone do that to your car? Well, seeing as the person would have to do it for another reason than why I did it... No. Can't expect me to answer a question that just realistically wouldn't happen. In reality, I'm comparable to a teddy bear. I hold the door for people, ie, I was/did even in this situation. I'm courteous, friendly, polite. To do it to THAT type of person is/would have to be for an entirely different reason. |
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..and before you go there. I did also ask if I overreacted. Still, it's a yes or no question. No reason to attack my character. Or judge my entire life from one incident. You seem to be looking for others to validate what you did. When you ask if others would have been offended, or if you overreacted, of course people are going to give their thoughts on why or why not. I know you're new here, but you can't post a thread like this and expect only yes or no answers. You've been attacking and judging other people here, too. That's not going to help get people to take you more seriously. Oh man I post threads like that all the time. In the beginning I used to be really defensive when someone really didn't agree with me. I personally don't think most of the people here take me seriously as I am bubbly and sarcastic a lot of the time. But I try to hear the other side a little bit more now. Its important since I am the one asking the question and for the real reason, I want the advice. lol |
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..and before you go there. I did also ask if I overreacted. Still, it's a yes or no question. No reason to attack my character. Or judge my entire life from one incident. You seem to be looking for others to validate what you did. When you ask if others would have been offended, or if you overreacted, of course people are going to give their thoughts on why or why not. I know you're new here, but you can't post a thread like this and expect only yes or no answers. You've been attacking and judging other people here, too. That's not going to help get people to take you more seriously. Oh man I post threads like that all the time. In the beginning I used to be really defensive when someone really didn't agree with me. I personally don't think most of the people here take me seriously as I am bubbly and sarcastic a lot of the time. But I try to hear the other side a little bit more now. Its important since I am the one asking the question and for the real reason, I want the advice. lol I can take criticism. What I won't is personal attacks. "You NEED anger management" Eh, no I don't. Than I explained I took it in the past. Than that's used against me, seconds later. I didn't go on a path of destruction chaos.. Just wrote him a little message.. Trust me.. he got the point. He'll respect his elders, ha! I even admitted I overreacted.. So to argue something I agreed with, doesn't even make sense? I just didn't like the personal attack. That was unnecessary. |
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..and before you go there. I did also ask if I overreacted. Still, it's a yes or no question. No reason to attack my character. Or judge my entire life from one incident. You seem to be looking for others to validate what you did. When you ask if others would have been offended, or if you overreacted, of course people are going to give their thoughts on why or why not. I know you're new here, but you can't post a thread like this and expect only yes or no answers. You've been attacking and judging other people here, too. That's not going to help get people to take you more seriously. Who did I judge? o.o I attacked someone? o.O You did notice that people left their opinions, I accepted them and didn't attack them, right? Or you just included that guy up there? What I noticed is that you're very, very defensive. And yes, you definitely went after Spider. Yes, he likes to push people's buttons, which he did with you. And it worked. It got you even more defensive. |
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Final Note before I ignore this thread for the rest of my life.. In reality.. I helped the economy! I just gave some detailer some work. Took from the rich - gave to the poor. Modern Day Robin Hood.. :D So you'll feel the same should someone do that to your car? Well, seeing as the person would have to do it for another reason than why I did it... No. Can't expect me to answer a question that just realistically wouldn't happen. In reality, I'm comparable to a teddy bear. I hold the door for people, ie, I was/did even in this situation. I'm courteous, friendly, polite. To do it to THAT type of person is/would have to be for an entirely different reason. Ah, so if it's your own reason for keying someone's car, it's fine, but if someone else does it, it's not. Yes, that makes much sense. 
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..and before you go there. I did also ask if I overreacted. Still, it's a yes or no question. No reason to attack my character. Or judge my entire life from one incident. You seem to be looking for others to validate what you did. When you ask if others would have been offended, or if you overreacted, of course people are going to give their thoughts on why or why not. I know you're new here, but you can't post a thread like this and expect only yes or no answers. You've been attacking and judging other people here, too. That's not going to help get people to take you more seriously. Who did I judge? o.o I attacked someone? o.O You did notice that people left their opinions, I accepted them and didn't attack them, right? Or you just included that guy up there? What I noticed is that you're very, very defensive. And yes, you definitely went after Spider. Yes, he likes to push people's buttons, which he did with you. And it worked. It got you even more defensive. *sigh* If you say so.. All he did was make himself look like a dumba**. A retard who hasn't gotten anywhere, except in his own mind and ego. He made no points. No clarifications. All he did was attack my, as a person. Push my buttons? Ok, call it whatever you want. Truth is, he was making me laugh.. His type is pathetic, sad, and make me pi*s myself with laughter. The E-bada** is just a sad, pathetic lifestyle. So, if that's called defensive. Whatever. I didn't know you could be defensive and lyao at the same time. I even liked his pictures. He should upgrade though.. That pancake one is so ridiculously outdated. Besides.. He's criticizing me for attacking a guy ten years younger than me... He's 40. I'm 30. I'm supposed to take that seriously? lmao. OK. |
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Yes, he likes to push people's buttons, which he did with you. And it worked. It got you even more defensive. I wasn't trying to push anyone's buttons. He asked for opinions and I gave mine. He's the one who got his back up because I didn't applaud his criminal behavior. |
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..and before you go there. I did also ask if I overreacted. Still, it's a yes or no question. No reason to attack my character. Or judge my entire life from one incident. You seem to be looking for others to validate what you did. When you ask if others would have been offended, or if you overreacted, of course people are going to give their thoughts on why or why not. I know you're new here, but you can't post a thread like this and expect only yes or no answers. You've been attacking and judging other people here, too. That's not going to help get people to take you more seriously. Who did I judge? o.o I attacked someone? o.O You did notice that people left their opinions, I accepted them and didn't attack them, right? Or you just included that guy up there? What I noticed is that you're very, very defensive. And yes, you definitely went after Spider. Yes, he likes to push people's buttons, which he did with you. And it worked. It got you even more defensive. Why place judgment on ONE incident though? Sounds a little shady. I could understand offering some insight on how HE personally would have handle it and leaving it at that. Not going and making a diagnonsense on one act that should define Mike's whole personality? |
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