Topic: Is wrong to feel offended when...
MariahsFantasy's photo
Fri 01/06/12 12:43 PM





Wow, that's childish. Whatever...


Don't take things so seriously. :smile:


I didn't. lol I have a large span of humor on everything. I don't go out of my way to embarrass people I don't know.


That was embarrassing? It was just something silly. What you were talking about fit into the definition of judgment. That's all.


According to you. I disagree tremendously with all you said. I don't think they're the same. There are distinctions as I pointed out in the article. Silly=fun. Someone randomly cheering on what you were trying to do to me with the definitions bs isn't what I call entertaining. whoa

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Fri 01/06/12 12:44 PM






So...

Because I didn't agree with Spider..
That constitutes the idea of 'everyone'?

He wasn't the only one to object my choice.

People don't agree with me everyday.
Especially on here. It's life.

There's a thin boundary between Stating an opinion and being aggressive.

Just as there is that thin boundary between accepting criticism and becoming defensive.

I did both, because I felt both.

There's nothing more to it than that.

If I'm not permitted to state my opinion to an opinion, well, forgive me, but I never received that memo.


Can you show me where someone told you that you were not allowed to state your opinion?


No, because that's not what I said.


No one said you can't give your opinion. Simple as that. But, the issue is that you were complaining about being attacked, then did the exact same thing.


Exactly.

If you weren't expecting that reaction...
...you didn't read my post very well.

Action - Reaction

I felt attacked in the story. - I Scratched his car.

Action - Reaction

I felt attacked - I met aggression with aggression.

I didn't condone it after the fact.
I was against the idea of criticizing me for retaliating.
Because that's what I do; retaliate.

He was saying to 'Be the bigger man, and walk away'.
Yet how am I supposed to take that seriously..
..when he couldn't even do it himself?




So you're saying your actions are always the fault of others? You don't have any responsibility over the way you react?

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Fri 01/06/12 12:44 PM
I say don't worry about it. The experience was one that is a good example of cause and effect. (Karma)

It is karma coming down, on the young guy. He was trying to act tough to show off for his girl. He paid with the reaction he got from an older guy in his prime who reacted to his own tough guy attitude.

I certainly don't consider you to be "the older generation." I consider them to be fools. (Young and clueless.)

One thing us even older generation need to consider is that the new breed of fools on the street are often hyped up with crystal meth and packing a weapon. They would just as sooner shoot you as look at you.

I think he is damn lucky you did not take out your anger on him instead of his car. I'm sure a hospital bill would be a lot higher than the car's paint job.

Also, I'm glad you did not take it out on him. If he was under 18 years old, you could end up in jail for beating up on a minor.

People need to be more aware that their own attitudes and vibrations attract these kinds of situations. When you mellow out, you will not be attracting this kind of experience into your life.

Next time just call him a snot nosed brat and tell him to grow up.



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Fri 01/06/12 12:46 PM






Wow, that's childish. Whatever...


Don't take things so seriously. :smile:


I didn't. lol I have a large span of humor on everything. I don't go out of my way to embarrass people I don't know.


That was embarrassing? It was just something silly. What you were talking about fit into the definition of judgment. That's all.


According to you. I disagree tremendously with all you said. I don't think they're the same. There are distinctions as I pointed out in the article. Silly=fun. Someone randomly cheering on what you were trying to do to me with the definitions bs isn't what I call entertaining. whoa


One of the definitions of judgment:

the process of forming an opinion or evaluation by discerning and comparing b : an opinion or estimate so formed

That is an opinion. You can disagree if you'd like. I was just going by the definition from good ol' Merriam-webester.

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Fri 01/06/12 12:47 PM







So...

Because I didn't agree with Spider..
That constitutes the idea of 'everyone'?

He wasn't the only one to object my choice.

People don't agree with me everyday.
Especially on here. It's life.

There's a thin boundary between Stating an opinion and being aggressive.

Just as there is that thin boundary between accepting criticism and becoming defensive.

I did both, because I felt both.

There's nothing more to it than that.

If I'm not permitted to state my opinion to an opinion, well, forgive me, but I never received that memo.


Can you show me where someone told you that you were not allowed to state your opinion?


No, because that's not what I said.


No one said you can't give your opinion. Simple as that. But, the issue is that you were complaining about being attacked, then did the exact same thing.


Exactly.

If you weren't expecting that reaction...
...you didn't read my post very well.

Action - Reaction

I felt attacked in the story. - I Scratched his car.

Action - Reaction

I felt attacked - I met aggression with aggression.

I didn't condone it after the fact.
I was against the idea of criticizing me for retaliating.
Because that's what I do; retaliate.

He was saying to 'Be the bigger man, and walk away'.
Yet how am I supposed to take that seriously..
..when he couldn't even do it himself?




So you're saying your actions are always the fault of others? You don't have any responsibility over the way you react?


No, no, no... not at all.
*sigh*

I'm saying...
Be what you preach. Not a hypocrite.
He's telling me I should have done this..
We he himself wasn't doing it.

I'm saying for every Action there is a Reaction.

It just so happens that in these particular two cases..

There was an Action.
That I Reacted to.

Not at all that.
Eh, no.
Nope, not at all.

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Fri 01/06/12 12:47 PM







So...

Because I didn't agree with Spider..
That constitutes the idea of 'everyone'?

He wasn't the only one to object my choice.

People don't agree with me everyday.
Especially on here. It's life.

There's a thin boundary between Stating an opinion and being aggressive.

Just as there is that thin boundary between accepting criticism and becoming defensive.

I did both, because I felt both.

There's nothing more to it than that.

If I'm not permitted to state my opinion to an opinion, well, forgive me, but I never received that memo.


Can you show me where someone told you that you were not allowed to state your opinion?


No, because that's not what I said.


No one said you can't give your opinion. Simple as that. But, the issue is that you were complaining about being attacked, then did the exact same thing.


Exactly.

If you weren't expecting that reaction...
...you didn't read my post very well.

Action - Reaction

I felt attacked in the story. - I Scratched his car.

Action - Reaction

I felt attacked - I met aggression with aggression.

I didn't condone it after the fact.
I was against the idea of criticizing me for retaliating.
Because that's what I do; retaliate.

He was saying to 'Be the bigger man, and walk away'.
Yet how am I supposed to take that seriously..
..when he couldn't even do it himself?




So you're saying your actions are always the fault of others? You don't have any responsibility over the way you react?


No, no, no... not at all.
*sigh*

I'm saying...
Be what you preach. Not a hypocrite.
He's telling me I should have done this..
We he himself wasn't doing it.

I'm saying for every Action there is a Reaction.

It just so happens that in these particular two cases..

There was an Action.
That I Reacted to.

Not at all that.
Eh, no.
Nope, not at all.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Fri 01/06/12 12:51 PM







Wow, that's childish. Whatever...


Don't take things so seriously. :smile:


I didn't. lol I have a large span of humor on everything. I don't go out of my way to embarrass people I don't know.


That was embarrassing? It was just something silly. What you were talking about fit into the definition of judgment. That's all.


According to you. I disagree tremendously with all you said. I don't think they're the same. There are distinctions as I pointed out in the article. Silly=fun. Someone randomly cheering on what you were trying to do to me with the definitions bs isn't what I call entertaining. whoa


One of the definitions of judgment:

the process of forming an opinion or evaluation by discerning and comparing b : an opinion or estimate so formed

That is an opinion. You can disagree if you'd like. I was just going by the definition from good ol' Merriam-webester.


Words and definitions change every day. Besides mainly ALL words come from some other meaning, not solely by the ones listed. I disagree with the context of it. Judgment isn't always an opinion. And that is MY opinion. Life shouldn't be dictated in definitions. Another opinion. lol I feel like I have to do this every time so you won't say "lighten up" "stop taking it so seriously."

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Fri 01/06/12 12:53 PM








Wow, that's childish. Whatever...


Don't take things so seriously. :smile:


I didn't. lol I have a large span of humor on everything. I don't go out of my way to embarrass people I don't know.


That was embarrassing? It was just something silly. What you were talking about fit into the definition of judgment. That's all.


According to you. I disagree tremendously with all you said. I don't think they're the same. There are distinctions as I pointed out in the article. Silly=fun. Someone randomly cheering on what you were trying to do to me with the definitions bs isn't what I call entertaining. whoa


One of the definitions of judgment:

the process of forming an opinion or evaluation by discerning and comparing b : an opinion or estimate so formed

That is an opinion. You can disagree if you'd like. I was just going by the definition from good ol' Merriam-webester.


Words and definitions change every day. Besides mainly ALL words come from some other meaning, not solely by the ones listed. I disagree with the context of it. Judgment isn't always an opinion. And that is MY opinion. Life shouldn't be dictated in definitions. Another opinion. lol I feel like I have to do this every time so you won't say "lighten up" "stop taking it so seriously."


I never said anything was always anything else. However, in this discussion, opinion fit into the context of that part of the definition of judgment.

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Fri 01/06/12 12:58 PM
Man..
This dumb topic got more hits, views, and responses..

Than all my poems combined. :/

I now refuse to contribute to this thread anymore
..because of the depressive nature in which I feel from its growth.

Laterz. :D

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Fri 01/06/12 01:01 PM

Man..
This dumb topic got more hits, views, and responses..

Than all my poems combined. :/

I now refuse to contribute to this thread anymore
..because of the depressive nature in which I feel from its growth.

Laterz. :D


I thought it was a very interesting thread to read. Did you read my response?

I said "Forget about it."

Everyone in their life has to learn how to deal with anger. Don't let these bleeding hearts get you down.


MariahsFantasy's photo
Fri 01/06/12 01:01 PM

I never said anything was always anything else. However, in this discussion, opinion fit into the context of that part of the definition of judgment.


Well, the difference was clear in the article I posted that I don't think you read. I'm fine with you disagreeing with me and I don't take all this that seriously anyway. The clear contrast is evidence. We have none, so therefore since we're not omnipotent it is/has to be opinion. I still back that I was referring to spider's writing, the tone of it. The brashness.

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Fri 01/06/12 01:06 PM


Man..
This dumb topic got more hits, views, and responses..

Than all my poems combined. :/

I now refuse to contribute to this thread anymore
..because of the depressive nature in which I feel from its growth.

Laterz. :D


I thought it was a very interesting thread to read. Did you read my response?

I said "Forget about it."

Everyone in their life has to learn how to deal with anger. Don't let these bleeding hearts get you down.




Yes, I did. :]

I just didn't have a chance to respond to everyone.

Nothing brings me down..
Except myself.. my thoughts.. and the few regrets and scars I bare.


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Fri 01/06/12 01:13 PM


I never said anything was always anything else. However, in this discussion, opinion fit into the context of that part of the definition of judgment.


Well, the difference was clear in the article I posted that I don't think you read. I'm fine with you disagreeing with me and I don't take all this that seriously anyway. The clear contrast is evidence. We have none, so therefore since we're not omnipotent it is/has to be opinion. I still back that I was referring to spider's writing, the tone of it. The brashness.


I read it. It doesn't change what I thought about that part of the definition I posted.

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Fri 01/06/12 01:13 PM

Man..
This dumb topic got more hits, views, and responses..

Than all my poems combined. :/

I now refuse to contribute to this thread anymore
..because of the depressive nature in which I feel from its growth.

Laterz. :D


waving

MariahsFantasy's photo
Fri 01/06/12 01:15 PM



I never said anything was always anything else. However, in this discussion, opinion fit into the context of that part of the definition of judgment.


Well, the difference was clear in the article I posted that I don't think you read. I'm fine with you disagreeing with me and I don't take all this that seriously anyway. The clear contrast is evidence. We have none, so therefore since we're not omnipotent it is/has to be opinion. I still back that I was referring to spider's writing, the tone of it. The brashness.


I read it. It doesn't change what I thought about that part of the definition I posted.


Cool. God or whoever created us didn't give us all the same mind. Its all good. :smile:

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Fri 01/06/12 01:15 PM


Man..
This dumb topic got more hits, views, and responses..

Than all my poems combined. :/

I now refuse to contribute to this thread anymore
..because of the depressive nature in which I feel from its growth.

Laterz. :D


waving


Oh, Singmesweet..

By the way..

No hard feelings.

:D

I still got much love for you.
I do respect your opinion(s).

And if at any point I did upset you..
..just know, t'was never my intentions.

Take care.

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Fri 01/06/12 01:17 PM
Y'all got way to much time on your hands.

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Fri 01/06/12 01:18 PM

*aroused*

xD


*stops all rock throwing.*

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Fri 01/06/12 01:20 PM

Y'all got way to much time on your hands.


...and?

I work at home.

So if you are classifying 'time' in the sense of:

'Not doing anything overly productive'

Then yes, I do.

However, what you consider wasting time..
..does not mean it runs coherent with my belief.

I was killing a few hours.
Now I do gotta go.

So, I'll waste no more of it.
As you put it.

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Fri 01/06/12 01:20 PM


*aroused*

xD


*stops all rock throwing.*


*hugs then runs*