Topic: Why do girls always go for duche bag *** holes?
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Sat 03/19/11 10:30 PM
unbefrackin-lievable

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Sun 03/20/11 09:17 AM

how encouraging to think that we are now 2 dimensional

my golly molly why, that's almost human!

next thing u know we'll get the right to vote

***thanks for the warnings, once again:wink:


ROFL!

I posted that exact same statement about a year ago and a all the women in this forum agreed with it.

I find it interesting that you have chosen this spin. Are you trying to pick a fight?

I didn't say anything about women being anything less than complete human beings. We all have light and dark sides. I am suggesting women are more than what they often present to others. Deeper, more profound. I am saying women have deep desires that few men are able to understand and the few able to address them reap the rewards of their efforts.

I said it simply for the sake of brevity. If you'd like, I can elucidate.

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Sun 03/20/11 09:35 AM





Girls don't go for douchebags or a-holes. Those douche bags you are speaking of, once were really sweet to these girls.. Long enough to get their interest or attention.. and once the girl fell for the guy, he turned into a douche. The girls still think that the douche guy is really that sweet, smooth talking guy, who was telling them that they are beautiful... when in all reality he was just a playa from day one.
True story.


Dont that mean again that MANY Girls OFTEN go ONLY for douchebags???


Not at all. As was already said above, most women don't go for a guy because he's a douchebag. Re-read what she wrote.


Re-readed thatlaugh n dont wanna re wite same again !!
but it mean ONLY that 'though unknowingly & unwillingly,MANY girls OFTEN go only for douchebags'.

Ofcource, the most common truth behind these stories is that -

Many GENTLEMAN dont have the time to spare for girls.


If they don't have the time to spare then there's no reason to complain about not getting what they want.



Absolutely right.

Even it is just an injustice to raise this kind of questions/ making comments by roughly classifying the human beings in categories like men / women.
(Ofcource its my personal opinion)
& thats why I added words like MANY , OFTEN , ONLY perticullarly with emphasis.




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Sun 03/20/11 09:42 AM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 03/20/11 09:43 AM


how encouraging to think that we are now 2 dimensional

my golly molly why, that's almost human!

next thing u know we'll get the right to vote

***thanks for the warnings, once again:wink:


ROFL!

I posted that exact same statement about a year ago and a all the women in this forum agreed with it.

I find it interesting that you have chosen this spin. Are you trying to pick a fight?

I didn't say anything about women being anything less than complete human beings. We all have light and dark sides. I am suggesting women are more than what they often present to others. Deeper, more profound. I am saying women have deep desires that few men are able to understand and the few able to address them reap the rewards of their efforts.

I said it simply for the sake of brevity. If you'd like, I can elucidate.


no thanks I'm fine with your original statement

sorry you don't like mine, and it doesn't matter to me who else agreed with it - that seems an odd reason for ME to agree

I'm not that ONE dimensional

and no darlin' Ima lover not a fighter

it's just really my opinion - I wouldn't devote any effort to changing my mind - no need

enjoy ur dayflowerforyou

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Sun 03/20/11 11:11 AM

What "nice guys" don't understand is there are two sides to a woman. One side wants to be loved, cherished and cared for. The other side wants to be grabbed by the hair, drug back to your cave and pounded like a dirty little slag. Once a man can address both her sides women find him attractive and other men will call him names out of envy.


I'd have to agree with this for the most part. devil

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Sun 03/20/11 07:36 PM

unbefrackin-lievable
drinker

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Sun 03/20/11 08:59 PM


What "nice guys" don't understand is there are two sides to a woman. One side wants to be loved, cherished and cared for. The other side wants to be grabbed by the hair, drug back to your cave and pounded like a dirty little slag. Once a man can address both her sides women find him attractive and other men will call him names out of envy.


I'd have to agree with this for the most part. devil



there is more to what I want than that

I am not sure I like men who seriously think they know what I want, as a woman, when I haven't been asked

or think they know what "all" women want - like we are all the same

so not only is what I want not going to be the same as what another woman, you for example, wants

it is going to be much more multi- demensional than that statement

and some things in that statement I don't want

so it's just all wrong in my eyes on so many levelsflowerforyou

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Sun 03/20/11 09:03 PM



What "nice guys" don't understand is there are two sides to a woman. One side wants to be loved, cherished and cared for. The other side wants to be grabbed by the hair, drug back to your cave and pounded like a dirty little slag. Once a man can address both her sides women find him attractive and other men will call him names out of envy.


I'd have to agree with this for the most part. devil



there is more to what I want than that

I am not sure I like men who seriously think they know what I want, as a woman, when I haven't been asked

or think they know what "all" women want - like we are all the same

so not only is what I want not going to be the same as what another woman, you for example, wants

it is going to be much more multi- demensional than that statement

and some things in that statement I don't want

so it's just all wrong in my eyes on so many levelsflowerforyou


I'm not saying that's all I'd ever want. But, those are things I want. Sometimes I'd take part of it as well, depending on what I want at the time.

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Sun 03/20/11 09:07 PM




What "nice guys" don't understand is there are two sides to a woman. One side wants to be loved, cherished and cared for. The other side wants to be grabbed by the hair, drug back to your cave and pounded like a dirty little slag. Once a man can address both her sides women find him attractive and other men will call him names out of envy.


I'd have to agree with this for the most part. devil



there is more to what I want than that

I am not sure I like men who seriously think they know what I want, as a woman, when I haven't been asked

or think they know what "all" women want - like we are all the same

so not only is what I want not going to be the same as what another woman, you for example, wants

it is going to be much more multi- demensional than that statement

and some things in that statement I don't want

so it's just all wrong in my eyes on so many levelsflowerforyou


I'm not saying that's all I'd ever want. But, those are things I want. Sometimes I'd take part of it as well, depending on what I want at the time.


yes, that makes senseflowerforyou

guys....geez. yanno I'm prolly being too hard on the dude - he was prolly trying to be friendlylaugh

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Sun 03/20/11 09:10 PM
Hey, you're the only one that's going to know exactly what you want!

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Sun 03/20/11 09:18 PM

Hey, you're the only one that's going to know exactly what you want!
flowerforyou waving yes I agree in principle, but it gets confusing sometimes. I admire those people who always are so certain of exactly what they want

I tend to get lost in the options sometimesohwell


I know, though, that it's not a douchebaglaugh

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Sun 03/20/11 09:26 PM
:heart: drinker Bottom line here folks,,we're ALL considered a piece of S-hit IF,,we do not find the one who likes us,,,also LIKABLE AS WELL!:wink: drinker
THEN,,is WHEN THAT PERSON,,makes their conclusions as their other,,being a BAD PERSON,,,in THEIR MINDS!!!!!!!

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Sun 03/20/11 09:29 PM

Never understood it. Then they all come complain to me about it!!




not enough examples in their life of something else?

not enough strong supportive fathers who loved their moms?


,,,who knows

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Sun 03/20/11 10:55 PM


Cause Nice Guys Finish Last. Hell, Green Day laid it out pretty straight for everybody years ago.

I feel ya man. I've thought about becoming one of the ********, but ya know, it's just not me...

At least I don't have to worry about spending my money on a woman. drinker


Nice guys don't finish last. Self proclaimed nice guys who whine about everything finish last. They're not really nice guys.

Genuine nice guys aren't going to describe themselves as such.


Sarcasm goes unnoticed...

Actually, I do consider myself a very stubborn a$$hole. I just don't try to be.

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Sun 03/20/11 11:33 PM
i thought about this one for a while long ago and came up with the opinion that its all about being comfortable----the more comfortable you are, the more girls seem to dig you...******** don't care about the girls so they are super comfortable because they don't care about treating the girl right or going out of their way at all---i've actually tested being nice and being an ******* out with girls: ******* me ALWAYS won...BUT usually, the girls that are attracted to this really aren't worth anything substantial and meaningful; so take solace in that

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Mon 03/21/11 03:53 AM



Cause Nice Guys Finish Last. Hell, Green Day laid it out pretty straight for everybody years ago.

I feel ya man. I've thought about becoming one of the ********, but ya know, it's just not me...

At least I don't have to worry about spending my money on a woman. drinker


Nice guys don't finish last. Self proclaimed nice guys who whine about everything finish last. They're not really nice guys.

Genuine nice guys aren't going to describe themselves as such.


Sarcasm goes unnoticed...

Actually, I do consider myself a very stubborn a$$hole. I just don't try to be.


Do you try not to be?

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Mon 03/21/11 04:26 AM
Jerks have the confidence that is attractive to women. If you're a nice guy, great, but you need to stop being a jelly-boned wimp about it. There is such a thing as the "Knight in shining Armor" Do you think Prince Charming is whining about Princesses loving the Black Knight better? No, he charges in and saves the day on a gallant steed. Have some backbone and FIGHT for your love. You can be "nice" and passionate at the same time and guarantee there are women who will like that attitude, not all of them mind you, but there will be some.

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Mon 03/21/11 05:23 AM
Edited by red_lace on Mon 03/21/11 05:25 AM

Jerks have the confidence that is attractive to women. If you're a nice guy, great, but you need to stop being a jelly-boned wimp about it. There is such a thing as the "Knight in shining Armor" Do you think Prince Charming is whining about Princesses loving the Black Knight better? No, he charges in and saves the day on a gallant steed. Have some backbone and FIGHT for your love. You can be "nice" and passionate at the same time and guarantee there are women who will like that attitude, not all of them mind you, but there will be some.


Right-O, josh! :thumbsup:

Though I would like to say that jerks are only attractive to some women. :)

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Mon 03/21/11 05:34 AM
The other side wants to be grabbed by the hair, drug back to your cave and pounded like a dirty little slag
Hey guys! Did ya ever try that with your girlfriend? Go ahead. I dare ya. See if that works out for you.

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Mon 03/21/11 05:36 AM

Jerks have the confidence that is attractive to women. If you're a nice guy, great, but you need to stop being a jelly-boned wimp about it. There is such a thing as the "Knight in shining Armor" Do you think Prince Charming is whining about Princesses loving the Black Knight better? No, he charges in and saves the day on a gallant steed. Have some backbone and FIGHT for your love. You can be "nice" and passionate at the same time and guarantee there are women who will like that attitude, not all of them mind you, but there will be some.


Fortunately, it's not just the jerks who have confidence. I'm into guys with confidence, but I'm definitely not into jerks.