Topic: Why do girls always go for duche bag *** holes?
Goofball73's photo
Fri 03/18/11 07:35 PM
Because they have a big set and nut up and, you know, ask the chick out. It's really simple.

Oh, and bad boys love to play Hungry Hungry Hippos, which all the chicks love. So, just FYI for ya.

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Fri 03/18/11 07:38 PM

Because they have a big set and nut up and, you know, ask the chick out. It's really simple.

Oh, and bad boys love to play Hungry Hungry Hippos, which all the chicks love. So, just FYI for ya.



good point - the date usually goes to the guy who askslaugh

not sure what he non-askers are expecting????what

Goofball73's photo
Fri 03/18/11 07:44 PM
I've had to walk up to chicks and talk to them, and do so on behalf of my friend who couldn't "bring myself to talk to someone so hot". Ugh! Basically, he was afraid of rejection, which I get. Hell, none of us like it. But majority of "bad boys" don't care about it. To them, it's all a numbers game. If they keep talking, eventually one chick will say "yes".

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Fri 03/18/11 07:58 PM

I've had to walk up to chicks and talk to them, and do so on behalf of my friend who couldn't "bring myself to talk to someone so hot". Ugh! Basically, he was afraid of rejection, which I get. Hell, none of us like it. But majority of "bad boys" don't care about it. To them, it's all a numbers game. If they keep talking, eventually one chick will say "yes".


ya I've overheard the type of man ur referring to talking about their conquests & methods

yuck

as always ladies the watchword is "buyer beware"

I think it pays to take time to develop relationships...regardless of how they ultimately turn out...then we know what we;re getting male & female alike

but the kind of guys you're talking about don't care about that...so once again "buyer beware"

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Fri 03/18/11 08:27 PM
I happen to be very fond of the 'nice guys'
I gravitate away from the ******** and egomaniacs, except as friends. Their entertaining and fun to party with but I'd
never date em. Not ALL women want to be with the 'douchebag'
We do however want our men to have a spine and part of that is by not whining, whining is a turn off.

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Fri 03/18/11 11:08 PM

Girls don't go for douchebags or a-holes. Those douche bags you are speaking of, once were really sweet to these girls.. Long enough to get their interest or attention.. and once the girl fell for the guy, he turned into a douche. The girls still think that the douche guy is really that sweet, smooth talking guy, who was telling them that they are beautiful... when in all reality he was just a playa from day one.
True story.


Dont that mean again that MANY Girls OFTEN go ONLY for douchebags???

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Sat 03/19/11 12:08 AM


Girls don't go for douchebags or a-holes. Those douche bags you are speaking of, once were really sweet to these girls.. Long enough to get their interest or attention.. and once the girl fell for the guy, he turned into a douche. The girls still think that the douche guy is really that sweet, smooth talking guy, who was telling them that they are beautiful... when in all reality he was just a playa from day one.
True story.


Dont that mean again that MANY Girls OFTEN go ONLY for douchebags???


Yep yep yep yep yep

mscherbear's photo
Sat 03/19/11 12:11 AM

Girls don't go for douchebags or a-holes. Those douche bags you are speaking of, once were really sweet to these girls.. Long enough to get their interest or attention.. and once the girl fell for the guy, he turned into a douche. The girls still think that the douche guy is really that sweet, smooth talking guy, who was telling them that they are beautiful... when in all reality he was just a playa from day one.
True story.


Oh so true... :(

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Sat 03/19/11 12:19 AM
We do however want our men to have a spine
Could it be that what you call "have a spine" is really just "don't give a crap"?

mscherbear's photo
Sat 03/19/11 12:23 AM

We do however want our men to have a spine
Could it be that what you call "have a spine" is really just "don't give a crap"?


Absolutely NOT! We want them to have an opinion!

gummykiss's photo
Sat 03/19/11 01:21 AM


Cause Nice Guys Finish Last. Hell, Green Day laid it out pretty straight for everybody years ago.

I feel ya man. I've thought about becoming one of the ********, but ya know, it's just not me...

At least I don't have to worry about spending my money on a woman. drinker


Nice guys don't finish last.

Self proclaimed nice guys who whine about everything finish last.


explode They're not really nice guys. explode


Genuine nice guys aren't going to describe themselves as such.


Exactly.

Couldn't have put it in better words.

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Sat 03/19/11 09:11 AM

I happen to be very fond of the 'nice guys'
I gravitate away from the ******** and egomaniacs, except as friends. Their entertaining and fun to party with but I'd
never date em. Not ALL women want to be with the 'douchebag'
We do however want our men to have a spine and part of that is by not whining, whining is a turn off.


well said Lady

couldn't have said it better

I love you & soufie because the 2 of u say what I mean so welllaugh flowerforyou

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Sat 03/19/11 09:14 AM


Girls don't go for douchebags or a-holes. Those douche bags you are speaking of, once were really sweet to these girls.. Long enough to get their interest or attention.. and once the girl fell for the guy, he turned into a douche. The girls still think that the douche guy is really that sweet, smooth talking guy, who was telling them that they are beautiful... when in all reality he was just a playa from day one.
True story.


Dont that mean again that MANY Girls OFTEN go ONLY for douchebags???


no it means that a lot of them (particularly younger) gravitate to them because they fall for the smooth talk that players exhibit and then don't see the signs that he's a "bad boy" right away - often not until something happens - like she catches him cheating

if I'm reading cindy correctly

ya I'm instantly suspicious if smooth talkers myself

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Sat 03/19/11 09:15 AM

We do however want our men to have a spine
Could it be that what you call "have a spine" is really just "don't give a crap"?


no artlo

it means standing up for yourself and protecting the ones u love

I think it applies to men and women both

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Sat 03/19/11 09:16 AM



Cause Nice Guys Finish Last. Hell, Green Day laid it out pretty straight for everybody years ago.

I feel ya man. I've thought about becoming one of the ********, but ya know, it's just not me...

At least I don't have to worry about spending my money on a woman. drinker


Nice guys don't finish last.

Self proclaimed nice guys who whine about everything finish last.


explode They're not really nice guys. explode


Genuine nice guys aren't going to describe themselves as such.


Exactly.

Couldn't have put it in better words.
:thumbsup:

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Sat 03/19/11 09:19 AM
I guess I mis-understood what we were talking about. I thought we were talking about the the difference between the a-holes who had no problem propositioning a total stranger vs. the guy who was scared to death to ask out the campus queen for fear of being humiliated.

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Sat 03/19/11 09:25 AM

I guess I mis-understood what we were talking about. I thought we were talking about the the difference between the a-holes who had no problem propositioning a total stranger vs. the guy who was scared to death to ask out the campus queen for fear of being humiliated.


were you talking to me?

if so yes, I think in part anyway that topic is being discussed

but having the sac (as goof would say) to approach a woman & be honest w/ her about what you want IS having a spine because u r standing up for yourself

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Sat 03/19/11 09:29 AM
So, I think we're closing in on why women often seem to go for the douche-bags.

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Sat 03/19/11 09:44 AM

So, I think we're closing in on why women often seem to go for the douche-bags.


like I said before

the date usually goes to the ones who asks

but to agree with you, I would have to agree that women usually go for douchebags

and I don't, I don't agree that the original premise is true as often as the OP would make it out to be

he's whining

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Sat 03/19/11 09:47 AM
Perhaps he is whining, but I want to defend him. I'm more like him than the douche-bags.