In my experience there are three kinds of men.

1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married.

2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment.

3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.)

Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories?

Most men that I meet are so afraid of commitment that they fall straight into those categories.
Its such a shame.
Where are all the genuine men?

Oh they are all genuine men. They just fall into those categories.

If a man is not perfect you can blame his mother for not raising him right.

oh sure..it's always mom's faught,
always starts in the womb!

Yeah I can't go with the "mom's fault"...

i dont fall in any of them as i told my new girlfriend im looking for a relationship. when marrage comes up in conversation i talk about it but as i said i will propose when i think/ hope we are at the point where we know were going to work together for marrage to work.
i have never played the field and never plan to. still i know what you mean with most guys

You are oversimplifying and making a big generalization about men. There are numerous other possibilities. I would hate to lump all women into 3 categories. What about these types of men:

4. Those who bend over backwards to adore a woman but she's not yet ready for commitment.

5. Those who find themselves at the hands of a woman who just wants to "play the field".

6. Those who are willing to take the time to build a relationship but get caught up in love so fast they fall head over heels and don't have any brakes.

Men are not as callous as you describe. Not all men are in it for self gratification; there are those of us out here who know how to treat a woman with respect and know what kinds of joys are worth waiting for.

Don't be so cynical. Love can be grand and romance is not dead. Kissing and spooning is under-rated.

--Just my two cents ...

Very valid points.. Men and women both have their good and bad traits...

Why are women always trying to fit men into certain categories, while at the same time always wanting to be "loved for who they are"?

I don't. Should I?

i'd say that's worth more than two cents!

haha I have enough trouble trying to fit into my own jeans without trying to fit men in catergories

Unfortunately, I have not had those experiences. My post was based in my personal experience. I might seem cynical, but that is just my experience.

This is all in good fun, don't take offense in the following:

4. Those who bend over backwards to adore a woman but she's not yet ready for commitment. -------> STALKERS


5. Those who find themselves at the hands of a woman who just wants to "play the field". ---------> SEX TOYS;

6. Those who are willing to take the time to build a relationship but get caught up in love so fast they fall head over heels and don't have any brakes. -->THE TWITTERPATED

Sometimes, for a man, the call of that sexual "chemistry" gives the illusion that they are "head over heels in love." They can't think strait. Its the same as being temporarily insane.

They need someone to slap them and tell them to come back to their senses.

One has nothing to do with the other.

For both men OR women: You can't be loved for who you are if you are not honest and being true to who you really are.

Not me.
I want to be loved for who Angelina Jolie is.

wouldn't that be nice...

And then there's me.

I'm just a pig!

OMG, read this man's profile ladies -
He used the word 'outlier' - I think I'm twitterpattered.

AND he likes cats

There's another kind. "I want to be married. I just don't want to get married ". That was me. What do you think that means?

You are looking for fallen men?

Bingo! You're my soulmate.

Because I also only date fallen and wayward Catholic girls in highschool uniforms.