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Oh they are all genuine men. They just fall into those categories. If a man is not perfect you can blame his mother for not raising him right.    -----> Mama's boy?  |
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Oh they are all genuine men. They just fall into those categories. If a man is not perfect you can blame his mother for not raising him right. -----> Mama's boy? Good, then your mama raised you right. 
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Tue 03/15/11 01:19 PM
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Oh they are all genuine men. They just fall into those categories. If a man is not perfect you can blame his mother for not raising him right. -----> Mama's boy? Right click on your image, go to "copy image URL" and copy. Then past in the post. Put {img] in front of it and {/img] at the end of it. But use these:[ ] |
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Edited by
armycat23
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Tue 03/15/11 01:46 PM
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In my experience there are three kinds of men. 1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married. 2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment. 3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.) Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories? Why are women always trying to fit men into certain categories, while at the same time always wanting to be "loved for who they are"? Agreed, but I'll humor this thread and do my own take for girls. 1. fits girls as well There's one girl I know that was always anti-marriage for a long time and last month she's all giddy about getting married to her boyfriend now whom she's dated for 3 months. 2. Ones who talk about "there's no good men left" while completely ignoring the good guys right next to her bc they didn't fit all their preferences. 3. This one is the same as well. All you need to do is go anywhere where alcohol is served.......lol or even Craig's List for that matter. 4. Those that are truely looking for a ltr. (You can add this to the guy's list as well) In regards to your number 2, why should a woman (or man) date someone just because they're a "good guy" or a "good girl," when they don't fit the preferences of what they're looking for? Who they date is their business but if I have to hear that "Oh there's no good guys out there" simply bc the person they picked fit the list of dozen physical attributes but cheated on them and had a nasty personality it's going to drive me crazy. Well, not literally. lol And trust me, on any given week I hear it at least 5 times. Guys are different....sure a girl being cute factors in it bc there needs to be some physical attraction but they don't eliminate girls bc of their height, hair style, or any minor stuff like that. Never. Guys just don't nitpick stuff like that. They will say "Oh, she's cute and she takes care of herself....." that's pretty much it. They may have preferences for bigger boobs or something but they won't say "Oh, that chick is only a C cup....pass". That's my point. Girls could have a fantastic relationship but I can recall dozens of times where guys under 6'2 were immediantly cut from the competition. Let me also add that there are many girls who aren't like this as well. Btw, I do think it's funny how you have an issue with my category but none of the three listed earlier that generally paint a negative picture on males. hmmmmmmmmmm...... In summary, if girls or anyone else has a ton of qualifications that must be met. That's fine. ABSOLUTELY FINE. BUT don't act like there aren't plenty of good ones out there simply bc of who you chose didn't work out. |
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In my experience there are three kinds of men. 1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married. 2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment. 3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.) Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories? Why are women always trying to fit men into certain categories, while at the same time always wanting to be "loved for who they are"? Agreed, but I'll humor this thread and do my own take for girls. 1. fits girls as well There's one girl I know that was always anti-marriage for a long time and last month she's all giddy about getting married to her boyfriend now whom she's dated for 3 months. 2. Ones who talk about "there's no good men left" while completely ignoring the good guys right next to her bc they didn't fit all their preferences. 3. This one is the same as well. All you need to do is go anywhere where alcohol is served.......lol or even Craig's List for that matter. 4. Those that are truely looking for a ltr. (You can add this to the guy's list as well) In regards to your number 2, why should a woman (or man) date someone just because they're a "good guy" or a "good girl," when they don't fit the preferences of what they're looking for? Who they date is their business but if I have to hear that "Oh there's no good guys out there" simply bc the person they picked fit the list of dozen physical attributes but cheated on them and had a nasty personality it's going to drive me crazy. Well, not literally. lol And trust me, on any given week I hear it at least 5 times. Guys are different....sure a girl being cute factors in it bc there needs to be some physical attraction but they don't eliminate girls bc of their height, hair style, or any minor stuff like that. Never. Guys just don't nitpick stuff like that. They will say "Oh, she's cute and she takes care of herself....." that's pretty much it. They may have preferences for bigger boobs or something but they won't say "Oh, that chick isn't "bis" enough....pass". That's my point. Girls could have a fantastic relationship but I can recall dozens of times where guys under 6'2 were immediantly cut from the competition. Let me also add that there are many girls who aren't like this as well. Btw, I do think it's funny how you didn't have an issue with my category but none of the three listed earlier that generally paint a negative picture on males. Observation shows that bias is the cause. Perhaps you need to go for different types of women if you're finding most are like what you described above. If you're getting the same results each time, stop doing the same thing over and over. I did say that I didn't think the three categories listed in the OP were all that men fit into. But, I have certainly run into them. |
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Edited by
armycat23
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Tue 03/15/11 02:16 PM
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In my experience there are three kinds of men. 1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married. 2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment. 3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.) Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories? Why are women always trying to fit men into certain categories, while at the same time always wanting to be "loved for who they are"? Agreed, but I'll humor this thread and do my own take for girls. 1. fits girls as well There's one girl I know that was always anti-marriage for a long time and last month she's all giddy about getting married to her boyfriend now whom she's dated for 3 months. 2. Ones who talk about "there's no good men left" while completely ignoring the good guys right next to her bc they didn't fit all their preferences. 3. This one is the same as well. All you need to do is go anywhere where alcohol is served.......lol or even Craig's List for that matter. 4. Those that are truely looking for a ltr. (You can add this to the guy's list as well) In regards to your number 2, why should a woman (or man) date someone just because they're a "good guy" or a "good girl," when they don't fit the preferences of what they're looking for? Who they date is their business but if I have to hear that "Oh there's no good guys out there" simply bc the person they picked fit the list of dozen physical attributes but cheated on them and had a nasty personality it's going to drive me crazy. Well, not literally. lol And trust me, on any given week I hear it at least 5 times. Guys are different....sure a girl being cute factors in it bc there needs to be some physical attraction but they don't eliminate girls bc of their height, hair style, or any minor stuff like that. Never. Guys just don't nitpick stuff like that. They will say "Oh, she's cute and she takes care of herself....." that's pretty much it. They may have preferences for bigger boobs or something but they won't say "Oh, that chick isn't "bis" enough....pass". That's my point. Girls could have a fantastic relationship but I can recall dozens of times where guys under 6'2 were immediantly cut from the competition. Let me also add that there are many girls who aren't like this as well. Btw, I do think it's funny how you didn't have an issue with my category but none of the three listed earlier that generally paint a negative picture on males. Observation shows that bias is the cause. Perhaps you need to go for different types of women if you're finding most are like what you described above. If you're getting the same results each time, stop doing the same thing over and over. I did say that I didn't think the three categories listed in the OP were all that men fit into. But, I have certainly run into them. I'm not talking about girls I am/was interested in. I'm speaking as a general observer. I'm talking about things that I witness and me being a third party. I hear it sometimes when I'm involved in a discussion and sometimes when I over hear it. My point was that anyone who claims that "There's no good guys/girls left" is ridicolous and by large and far that is something women say. I can't even recall the last time I heard a guy say something like that.........if ever. lol |
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You did it.
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armycat23, it sounded as if you were talking about your own experiences. If you're tired of hearing others complain, stop listening to them.
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I just want to hit it and quit it.
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basically i think they are all the same
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i want to be treated like a lady
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basically i think they are all the same Fantastic attitude. You need not fret whose invitation for a date to accept -- you pull names from a hat. And it's smart to keep the number of categories to one. A Buddhist kind of typology or file system. A lot of office staff payroll expense could be saved if companies used one file for everything they keep on record. No fumbling with file cabinet keys, no hectic fretting over where the Johnson file went, no need to be anal about the English alphabet. I wish women were like men. But women are unfortunately each an individual. A hundred year's worth of women's lib, and they are still not the same. |
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