Nah, I'd rather provide for myself and I have no problem paying my own way on a date.

Because if you are in touch with who you are, you become what you need to be for your mate. Women, i don't think are attracted to "bad boyness" but the underlying current of masculine sensuality; being in control and confident is very attractive to anyone, you don't have to be out of control or an ahole to exude those qualities. A woman can sense that a man will take charge/control at the right times, and that can be an aphrodisiac. It doesn't prevent a guy from being a gentleman either.

Singmesweet, what's next, you want a man to cook a meal for you? After all, if you are going to be doing my laundry and cooking my meals, don't you feel you deserve to be treated to a good meal?

Cooking for a woman has it's rewards.

Once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny (no offense).

You start cooking her meals, and the next thing you know, she'll be asking you to wear her underwear. Or, she'll say, "I think it would be so sexy if I painted your toenails. And then, you'll wind up a foofy mess.

You have to cut this off as soon as it happens. So when a women asks you to cook, that is where you have to draw the line, and say, "Woman (call her woman), there is man's work and woman's work, and you are asking me to do woman's work."

As Aretha Franklin says, "R-E-S-P-E-C-T." Well, she said that before she gained all of that weight.

You need someone to cook and clean for you? I would have thought that by your age, you would have figured out how to do that on your own.

Singmesweet, of course I know how to cook and clean, but that is not the point. A man should not do woman's work, and a woman should not to man's work. However, I now have to downgrade you from Sizzler to Burger King.

Oh get serious. That's a bunch of troll garbage.

^this...the "bad boys" that I know & love are not jerks or azzholes to women! They take good care of the girls they like/love, they just get into trouble with the law from time to time. I absolutely love being able to kick back & just be a girl when with a man like this & not have to be in charge of making every little decision or having to fend off drunkies in a bar with the guy I am suppose to be out with sitting there like a bump on a log!

lol @ getting into trouble with the law...outside of that, i agree with you. That, and the fact that the man you are with knows what he wants and needs and is not afraid to express it.

But not do the dishes.

He's trolling the threads on purpose.

SAYS:



The big question is are you "in touch" with your masculinity with your right or left hand?

Jeanniebean, jealousy is not good for anybody. Thera are plenty of shrimp at Sizzler for you, me, and Singmesweet.

guess that makes me perfect

Jeanniebean, you can have freaky.

-----> Mama's boy?

Ladies, there is no need to fight over me. I am flattered, but I never want to cause your passion for me to reach fiery limits.

And so, I hereby decree that I, Shiki, will step away from the lusts of Jeanniebean and Singmesweet. And ladies, please, no tears. There are plenty of good men out there. You'll find someone.

And never let it be said that with Shiki, the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few.

but perfect

Good, then your mama raised you right.