Topic: Three kinds of men...in dating
GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Sat 03/12/11 08:04 PM

In my experience there are three kinds of men.

1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married.

2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment.

3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.)

Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories?
What about the guy who is looking for a long term relationship like marriage but without the paperwork?...lol Common Law marriage is the only one that there should be, then there would not be the excuse of rushing into it...lol

wux's photo
Sat 03/12/11 08:05 PM
Edited by wux on Sat 03/12/11 08:09 PM

OMG, read this man's profile ladies - flowerforyou
He used the word 'outlier' - I think I'm twitterpattered. flowerforyou

AND he likes cats flowerforyou


As in "when a man loves a woman, he will lie out in the rain..."

or as in "an outright liar", misspelled?

... fer lying out crowd.

wux's photo
Sat 03/12/11 08:08 PM

I think I'm twitterpattered. flowerforyou

AND he likes cats flowerforyou


Kitty... "likes cats" is mantalk for saying he likes pooooossie.

I, myself, like the smell of it the best, but the language skills of men have not developed to the point yet where we would have a word just for that.

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Sat 03/12/11 09:05 PM


In my experience there are three kinds of men.

1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married.

2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment.

3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.)

Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories?






You are looking for fallen men?

Bingo! You're my soulmate.

Because I also only date fallen and wayward Catholic girls in highschool uniforms.


I might look silly in a highschool uniform but how about a nun's habit? laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 03/12/11 09:07 PM


In my experience there are three kinds of men.

1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married.

2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment.

3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.)

Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories?
What about the guy who is looking for a long term relationship like marriage but without the paperwork?...lol Common Law marriage is the only one that there should be, then there would not be the excuse of rushing into it...lol


I'm all for a long term relationship with no paperwork. You have to pay for paperwork. It costs to get married, it costs to get divorced. Why do that when you can shack up for free?


fireflysgirl's photo
Sat 03/12/11 09:12 PM

Oh they are all genuine men. They just fall into those categories.

If a man is not perfect you can blame his mother for not raising him right. laugh laugh




^^^this...I don't know how the men I have been came to be even remotely good people with the mother's they have...seriously! I would likely runaway from a relationship from now on when it comes to the "wanna meet my mom" point...HELL NO I DON'T-C YA!

scttggry81's photo
Sun 03/13/11 09:19 AM
Oh cut it with the categorical ****. Women can be put into categories too, but I won't delve into lowering myself to that. Human beings are more complex than most people would want to believe, and just because you've met the worst of a gender doesn't mean you can lump all of the gender into 3 categories.

Let's put it this way. The reason you can't find men outside of those three categories is because the ones that are outside those bounds are already taken, not looking, or don't want to waste their time with people who hold such a narrowminded view.

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Sun 03/13/11 10:38 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sun 03/13/11 10:43 AM

Oh cut it with the categorical ****. Women can be put into categories too, but I won't delve into lowering myself to that. Human beings are more complex than most people would want to believe, and just because you've met the worst of a gender doesn't mean you can lump all of the gender into 3 categories.

Let's put it this way. The reason you can't find men outside of those three categories is because the ones that are outside those bounds are already taken, not looking, or don't want to waste their time with people who hold such a narrowminded view.


Well you don't have to get so indignant and insulting. I'm just trying to stir up some conversation. geeeeze And if you knew me in the slightest you would not be calling me "narrow minded." laugh laugh note--->Also, I'm not "looking." I am past the stage of "looking" for a man. I'm 62 years old and pretty much too busy. I can't really see where I would find the time. So lighten up scttggry81.

I'm guessing your'e mad because you fit in one of those categories.

Besides... everyone...> I said IN MY EXPERIENCE.

I haven't had THAT much experience. Don't take life so seriously.

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Sun 03/13/11 11:42 AM
Actually I don't fall into any of your generic categories, none of which describe anything less than inconsiderate men. Not all men are ********. I'm being one now, because it's another woman's pathetic cop-out.

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Sun 03/13/11 06:29 PM

In my experience there are three kinds of men.

1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married.

2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment.

3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.)

Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories?







do you mean there a categories besides #3. why do i always get the 3s?

Goofball73's photo
Sun 03/13/11 06:48 PM

In my experience there are three kinds of men.

1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married.

2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment.

3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.)

Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories?







Forgot number 4. Those men who are wussies and then allow the woman to push/nudge/blackmail/seductively persuade them into tying the knot. :tongue:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/13/11 06:51 PM


In my experience there are three kinds of men.

1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married.

2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment.

3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.)

Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories?







Forgot number 4. Those men who are wussies and then allow the woman to push/nudge/blackmail/seductively persuade them into tying the knot. :tongue:


Oh blech, no wussies allowed...

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Sun 03/13/11 07:48 PM


In my experience there are three kinds of men.

1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married.

2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment.

3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.)

Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories?







do you mean there a categories besides #3. why do i always get the 3s?



rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 03/13/11 07:50 PM
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Sun 03/13/11 07:52 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sun 03/13/11 08:01 PM

Actually I don't fall into any of your generic categories, none of which describe anything less than inconsiderate men. Not all men are ********. I'm being one now, because it's another woman's pathetic cop-out.


scttggry81

You are probably right, I'm sure there is another category that is perfect for you but so far it's not in the charming category.

"You wrote in your profile: I'm what I consider a good guy. I've seriously thought about becoming the "a$$ holes" that most women seem to want....."

News flash: "a$$ holes" are a dime a dozen, women don't "want" them.

I don't think my listed categories mentioned anything about them being "inconsiderate." I think very considerate men could very well fit in one of the categories.

..and they aren't generic, they are "designer" categories.bigsmile

I think you "try" to be a nice guy, but its hard work for you. waving Don't give up, you'll get there.

A sense of humor would help.


wux's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:10 PM



In my experience there are three kinds of men.

1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married.

2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment.

3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.)

Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories?






You are looking for fallen men?

Bingo! You're my soulmate.

Because I also only date fallen and wayward Catholic girls in highschool uniforms.


I might look silly in a highschool uniform but how about a nun's habit? laugh laugh laugh


Okay, I will do nuns, you talked me into it. But I'll only do those with bad habits. Dirty, disgusting, sinful habits.

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Sun 03/13/11 08:20 PM
Bad habits I have plenty of. pitchfork No man in his right mind would get involved with me.

I'll wear a mask. bigsmile

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Sun 03/13/11 08:25 PM

In my experience there are three kinds of men.

1. The ones who "say" they don't want to get married but within about three months they are talking about marriage or asking you to get married.

2. The ones who talk about wanting to find the right woman to settle down and get married, but are really just playing the field, or afraid of commitment.

3. They just want to get laid, and beyond that they are fair game. (Meaning they don't think beyond that.)

Men, do any of you fall into one of these categories?


I don't think I quite fit into any of those categories.

I guess I see myself as one who a.) would really like to be in a committed relationship, but b.) can't find anyone compatible, or even remotely close to compatible.

I'm not in category 1 because I don't want to get married. I've been there once already and would not do it again.

I'm not in category 2 because I have no interest in "playing the field" (got that out of my system years ago), and I'm not at all afraid of commitment -- I just can't find anyone committable.

And I'm not in category 3 because sex just isn't really all that important to me at this point.

wux's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:44 PM

Bad habits I have plenty of. pitchfork No man in his right mind would get involved with me.

I'll wear a mask. bigsmile


U wear your Angelina Jolie mask, and I wear my Wilt Chamberlain bodycast camouflage.

Now, for the accoutramants: Your preference for the rod: 29 inches or 58 inches? (if the former, I unfortunately have to cut it back, which I will do only reluctantly, but for you... I will.)

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Sun 03/13/11 09:22 PM


Bad habits I have plenty of. pitchfork No man in his right mind would get involved with me.

I'll wear a mask. bigsmile


U wear your Angelina Jolie mask, and I wear my Wilt Chamberlain bodycast camouflage.

Now, for the accoutramants: Your preference for the rod: 29 inches or 58 inches? (if the former, I unfortunately have to cut it back, which I will do only reluctantly, but for you... I will.)



Wilt Chamberlain is way too tall. I told you I like short guys.