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When did it become good parenting to strike a child and tell them it is because you love them? Just wondering? it's also because they are screwing up...since my kids act in a normal manner, i don't have to spank them. but everyone is not so lucky. maybe you want your kids to wind up in a gang, or prison, or dead, then get them to a big group hug, and talk about everyone's feelings. |
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What are talking about it is my thread, has been all along. I had fun with it. I would really like to know though how long ago it was when striking a child in love became the norm for parenting? Sense time began. |
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Violence=love
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Violence=love no, spanking = love... there is a difference. |
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Violence=love What I'd like to know is this, why won't you answer my question? When did it become ok for a CHILD to ABUSE an ADULT? |
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 ok,, I guess all these years I was happy , loving and respecting my folks, I was only kidding myself about what violent abusers they were,, although , I have yet to hear of an abuser who pays all your bills, feeds you(your choice of food), clothes you(your choice of clothes) , buys you presents, pays for your vacations, attends all your school functions, constantly hugs and kisses you, tends to you when you are sick and gives you the freedom to move about freely in return for NOTHING but attending school and cleaning some things at home,,,, I bet alot of abused kids still turned out happier than those with parents who never laid a hand on them, or HUGGED them, or attended any of their accomplishments, or taught them anything, or spent any time with them, ,,,,,etc,,, but its ALL because of those random swats to my behind that this delusion has caused me to spend a whole lifetime thinking I Was happy ,,,,, 
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Violence=love consequences=reality |
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Violence=love consequences=reality 
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Striking someone is violence.
Do it to an adult sometime and see what happens. Anyway I have to change my club name. Unknowingly Unhappy Spanked Children Anonymous First step is to let go of denial Second step is to hold all responsible parties responsible Third step is forgiveness of self and others Fourth step is to recover from possible PTSD Fifth step is to denounce all violence against those who cannot defend themselves. Hello, Now, I am a Known to me Unhappy Spanked Child in recovery. |
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Edited by
Dragoness
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Sun 08/01/10 03:50 PM
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If you can't do it to an adult and them accept it as love, it shouldn't be done to children.
I am not talking about sexual spanking either. 
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Edited by
KayaksJuliet
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Sun 08/01/10 03:51 PM
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ok,, I guess all these years I was happy , loving and respecting my folks, I was only kidding myself about what violent abusers they were,, although , I have yet to hear of an abuser who pays all your bills, feeds you(your choice of food), clothes you(your choice of clothes) , buys you presents, pays for your vacations, attends all your school functions, constantly hugs and kisses you, tends to you when you are sick and gives you the freedom to move about freely in return for NOTHING but attending school and cleaning some things at home,,,, I bet alot of abused kids still turned out happier than those with parents who never laid a hand on them, or HUGGED them, or attended any of their accomplishments, or taught them anything, or spent any time with them, ,,,,,etc,,, but its ALL because of those random swats to my behind that this delusion has caused me to spend a whole lifetime thinking I Was happy ,,,,, Again, I agree with you. And guess what..the swats were nothing compared to the absolute lack of attention. Try growing up invisible. We all have been raised with how we feel we may have somehow been wronged as a child. But then we put our big boy/girl panties and develop CHOOSE our own way and get on with life.
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Striking someone is violence. Do it to an adult sometime and see what happens. Anyway I have to change my club name. Unknowingly Unhappy Spanked Children Anonymous First step is to let go of denial Second step is to hold all responsible parties responsible Third step is forgiveness of self and others Fourth step is to recover from possible PTSD Fifth step is to denounce all violence against those who cannot defend themselves. Hello, Now, I am a Known to me Unhappy Spanked Child in recovery. That's not answering my question. Why won't you answer my question? Why is it ok for a CHILD to ABUSE an ADULT? |
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lol...unknowingly unhappy,,,,,HAAAAAAAAA
can we imagine that, organizations and professionals set up to convince otherwise happy people that they should be UNHAPPY? I See quite a market in it,,,,,interesting concept |
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If you can't do it to an adult and them accept it as love, it shouldn't be done to children. I am not talking about sexual spanking either. just wondering... do you have any kids? and, have you ever been spanked sexually? |
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I am going to hit you child and you better feel loved from it
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If you can't do it to an adult and them accept it as love, it shouldn't be done to children. I am not talking about sexual spanking either. well, I cant take an adults car away if I dont like what they did or said,, and I Cant force them into a corner, or make them remain in one designated room,,,, so I dont think that necessarily applies as a qualifier for childhood discipline,,many things we do with children that we cant with adults and vice versa |
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When I raise my hand to you, it is in love that I cause you pain.
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lol...unknowingly unhappy,,,,,HAAAAAAAAA can we imagine that, organizations and professionals set up to convince otherwise happy people that they should be UNHAPPY? I See quite a market in it,,,,,interesting concept Hey now..Im quite happy in my own little world  ..they have cookies! 
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If you can't do it to an adult and them accept it as love, it shouldn't be done to children. I am not talking about sexual spanking either. well, I cant take an adults car away if I dont like what they did or said,, and I Cant force them into a corner, or make them remain in one designated room,,,, so I dont think that necessarily applies as a qualifier for childhood discipline,,many things we do with children that we cant with adults and vice versa kids are being taught, adults are supposed to know. |
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Edited by
KayaksJuliet
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Sun 08/01/10 03:55 PM
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Striking someone is violence. Do it to an adult sometime and see what happens. Anyway I have to change my club name. Unknowingly Unhappy Spanked Children Anonymous First step is to let go of denial Second step is to hold all responsible parties responsible Third step is forgiveness of self and others Fourth step is to recover from possible PTSD Fifth step is to denounce all violence against those who cannot defend themselves. Hello, Now, I am a Known to me Unhappy Spanked Child in recovery. That's not answering my question. Why won't you answer my question? Why is it ok for a CHILD to ABUSE an ADULT? Because you hit a nerve she has no answer for? Hmmmm |
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