I don't think she will do that snuggles....she actually said that she is
married but seperated for 3 years.
I am starting to wonder if you can really bring back that spark once you
have lost it? I think once a mate has cheated on the other one..usually
its to late!! I know that I wouldn't want to start a relationship with
someone who was still "pending" with the other relationship...someone
will end up getting hurt

YEP,,,,,,,your right,,,and one can FORGIVE, but one can NEVER
FORGET,,,and "THAT" will live like a slow cancer and kill the LOVE
through time....

Time for a divorce, why wait.

Liberace said you can only drive one Cadillac at a time. I can barely
afford a Chevy.

Why Wait snuggle? cuz most of the time they don't want to give up what
they have til have something else to go to.

Childish and the ultimate in disrespect for their partner

Spidermonkeys?

Hi Sherrie

Hi Harry

Yeah some kinda monkey swinging from vine to vine

I have a friend who's doing this right now. He's looking for someone new
and still living with someone. I've already told him how I feel about
this. I don't know if it made any difference. It shows a lack of respect
not only for his soon to be ex but himself and whoever he possibly
meets. It's a poopy situation all the way around.
I'd stay away from anyone that was willing to do this to their partner.
Not cool.

RIGHT-ON DUDE!!!!!!

Life is to short for bullsh1t and MANY people LIVE the LIFE of CHEATING
and LOVE "THAT" life,,,I FIND "THEM" DAMAGED!
And we all want to feel and be loved,,,but NOT at another's PAIN!!!THATS
JUST STUPID, SELFISH, DISRESPECTFUL,UNCARING.
And f`u`c`k`i`n`g "MEAN"!!!!!!

But, I don't like to lie, or PLAY!!!!

What is this teaching our children, when they see their parents cheat?

Monkey see, monkey do!

Those damn monkeys!

I'm happy that pretty much it is a consensus that married
people need to take care of their relationship at home and infidelity is
just wrong plain and simple!

Monkeys have a lot of fun, especially with all those bananas, how do
they eat just one???

Unsure...you're right...AGAIN! lol, my marriage is done...and for 3
years it's been done...my ex, as I call him, is living with his
girlfriend in another state...I haven't seen him in over 2 years....so
there's no way in the world that our marriage will ever have a
chance...just waiting on formalities for the divorce to be final. I have
custody of my 10 year old grandson and live on my horse ranch.

Being said that...there are always exceptions to every rule...
that's my story & I'm stickin' to it!! lol

So, hence the profile. Now that I've defended myself...my question is
about a man that I feel an attraction to that is married...but living in
the same circumstance as I did....so he says...one can never tell whats
real behind the computer. I would love to believe everything this man
has said...but past EXperiences won't let me.

A few married men have contacted me and viewed me...never bothered to
answer!...

OK lets just say that he is being honest! Maybe his marriage is over and
he is like you and just hasn't went through all the paper work! I guess
you have to look over everything that has happened between you and
him...does he seem like hes honest? Is he there when he says he will be?
Does he call you when he says he will??

So far he has been....but it's only been 3 weeks...so...I'm wondering if
I should let this happen....I soooo don't want to go thru what I went
thru before!

to make it easy you can just walk away..

What is so hard about going through with a divorce, if BOTH parties are
in agreement? Be done with the separation thing. Either you want to be
married or you don't(with each other).

understandable without passion the flame of love extinguishes