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Not true if you hit it off in a way they want more, there is a very good chance of seeing them again and again. It can be a lot of fun too specially when you start using the imagination to come up with different scenarios to.......Okay I'm not going to say anymore on that.   My comment wasn't meant for you sorry for the confusion. It was to the not seeing them again being unlikely. 
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Well to me casual sex is just sex that leaves you feeling empty you might be satisfied in a sense but I want that closeness and to know they will be the one I will wake up to the one that wants to be there because they want to be with me. Not because they were only there to get their rocks off so to speak. Heck they can do that alone.
 I have nothing against anyone else that can handle casual sex with another that wants the same thing. But.........to me I want more then just a fling.  those anyone can have just not for me.
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Sex is not all about the physical. It's also about intimacy and closeness in a relationship. I found this: The failure to establish and maintain intimacy in a relationship will ultimately lead to coldness and indifference, that will eventually destroy the connection between you and your partner. In a relationship it is absolutely crucial to have intimacy, it is one of the key elements for the passion that will keep the relationship alive for a very long time. Touché 
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I'm glad you posted this. I think I place too much importance on sex. I think it's partially why it still scares the heII outta me That's good though, maybe that is the issue...too many people don't place importance on sex. Who the hell knows, you damn humans are confusing me and my brethren in the sky. |
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I'm glad you posted this. I think I place too much importance on sex. I think it's partially why it still scares the heII outta me That's good though, maybe that is the issue...too many people don't place importance on sex. Who the hell knows, you damn humans are confusing me and my brethren in the sky. Well importance is one thing...being so terrified you turn into a freak of nature is another thing. Can I come up in the sky with you? I like speceships 
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I'm glad you posted this. I think I place too much importance on sex. I think it's partially why it still scares the heII outta me That's good though, maybe that is the issue...too many people don't place importance on sex. Who the hell knows, you damn humans are confusing me and my brethren in the sky. Well importance is one thing...being so terrified you turn into a freak of nature is another thing. Can I come up in the sky with you? I like speceships Err...did I say...dammit, I did...erhm...I was kidding? 
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I can't believe it!
I would expect alot of these responses if we lived in Vatican City.... I cannot believe how many people are talking down the physical aspects of sexuality...... Good sex is great! Even bad sex is still pretty good.... For everyone who has a negative vibe about sex.....Do yourself a favor.......keep me away from your mom or sister.....or just get used to calling me "Dad" or "Bro"...... |
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again .......................there are people that thrive on sex and intimacy, and spiritual tantric sex and love..........................................and then there are people who don't like sex, or think that it is a "bother" to the relationship that they want to achieve, well, that's why there is such diversity on this particular planet with these distinct races, and mixed races on these continents. there is something for everyone, it's just weeding through the people to get the compatability that's needed for you. i personally will never ever get enough, but have desire especially in this day and age, for just one spiritual lover/soul that feels the way i do, for it's far more than just a meeting of mind and body, but astral auras, and making your partner have pleasure beyond what we could ever imagine, if one takes the time to love their partner toward this goal....what a gift that is!!!! why would someone want to curtail this energy, when they could take the one they love to the ultimate of intimacy and sharing of total love?
  of-course there are times when just a nasty good time with your partner is a well needed roleplaying naughty creative, romantic swoon........... 
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I can't believe it! I would expect alot of these responses if we lived in Vatican City.... I cannot believe how many people are talking down the physical aspects of sexuality...... Good sex is great! Even bad sex is still pretty good.... For everyone who has a negative vibe about sex.....Do yourself a favor.......keep me away from your mom or sister.....or just get used to calling me "Dad" or "Bro"...... nothing better to brighten the day or put a quickness in your step. even when it's secretive...and nobody knows because it's "on the side" or "just a hook-up". that's when you walk around with that little grin cause it's juuuust for you. it's like a day at the spa: ridiculously indulgent and oh, so worth it... |
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again .......................there are people that thrive on sex and intimacy, and spiritual tantric sex and love..........................................and then there are people who don't like sex, or think that it is a "bother" to the relationship that they want to achieve, well, that's why there is such diversity on this particular planet with these distinct races, and mixed races on these continents. there is something for everyone, it's just weeding through the people to get the compatability that's needed for you. i personally will never ever get enough, but have desire especially in this day and age, for just one spiritual lover/soul that feels the way i do, for it's far more than just a meeting of mind and body, but astral auras, and making your partner have pleasure beyond what we could ever imagine, if one takes the time to love their partner toward this goal....what a gift that is!!!! why would someone want to curtail this energy, when they could take the one they love to the ultimate of intimacy and sharing of total love? of-course there are times when just a nasty good time with your partner is a well needed roleplaying naughty creative, romantic swoon........... Yea, but that is with your partner. I'm on about casual sex with someone that is ultimately, well, useless. |
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I can't believe it! I would expect alot of these responses if we lived in Vatican City.... I cannot believe how many people are talking down the physical aspects of sexuality...... Good sex is great! Even bad sex is still pretty good.... For everyone who has a negative vibe about sex.....Do yourself a favor.......keep me away from your mom or sister.....or just get used to calling me "Dad" or "Bro"...... nothing better to brighten the day or put a quickness in your step. even when it's secretive...and nobody knows because it's "on the side" or "just a hook-up". that's when you walk around with that little grin cause it's juuuust for you. it's like a day at the spa: ridiculously indulgent and oh, so worth it... What does it really mean though if you end up alone afterwards wanting? Sure sex feels good, getting off feels good, but without love it's rather empty. |
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Humm I have nothing against sex myself and enjoy it very much just don't care for casual sex. As far as I'm concerned being sexually with someone that you are attracted too in more ways then just the sex is more intimate as well as rewarding in the end.
Just not into the wham bam thank ya mam
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Yea, but that is with your partner. I'm on about casual sex with someone that is ultimately, well, useless. I honestly don't believe sex should ever be casual... |
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nothing better to brighten the day or put a quickness in your step. even when it's secretive...and nobody knows because it's "on the side" or "just a hook-up". that's when you walk around with that little grin cause it's juuuust for you. it's like a day at the spa: ridiculously indulgent and oh, so worth it... Right on! Someone else understands.... SEX IS A GOOD THING!!!!!!! (you amatures will NEVER convince me that a casual orgasm is wasted time) This will be your opportunity to tell us all how a "rolling your eyes to the back of your head, toe curling orgasm " is a waste of time. |
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It feels good while it happens after that who knows. What would you do be doing instead?
Casual sex is totally about the moment. A wise man once said. "Waiting at a closed door while an open one beckons is both foolish and futile." |
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Casual sex is dangerous and stupid. My opinion. I'd rather have a man who makes me smile...holds my hand...pulls me into his lap...holds me close.
To be completely honest...the whole "thrust-thrust-thrust-headboard-banging-against-the-wall" isn't what I look for...it doesn't "flip my switch". That being said...if I give you a dollar can I touch yout spikeys??? 
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I can't believe it! I would expect alot of these responses if we lived in Vatican City.... I cannot believe how many people are talking down the physical aspects of sexuality...... Good sex is great! Even bad sex is still pretty good.... For everyone who has a negative vibe about sex.....Do yourself a favor.......keep me away from your mom or sister.....or just get used to calling me "Dad" or "Bro"...... nothing better to brighten the day or put a quickness in your step. even when it's secretive...and nobody knows because it's "on the side" or "just a hook-up". that's when you walk around with that little grin cause it's juuuust for you. it's like a day at the spa: ridiculously indulgent and oh, so worth it... What does it really mean though if you end up alone afterwards wanting? Sure sex feels good, getting off feels good, but without love it's rather empty. fear, i guess that depends on what you want out of life. i don't feel alone, because i LIKE being by myself. that's my preferred state. i'm an introvert at heart... sex is NOT empty without love. it's not. it feels wonderful, it's great for the body and the mind...it gets the hormones pumping...and it keeps a connection open for other people. the one good thing about sex in a great relationship is that you learn each other's trigger points...you know exactly where to go to to get the reaction you are after. but with casual sex, there's always that learning, that spark...it's new and fresh and without emotions to complicate the issue. it's decadent, like that piece of dark chocolate i shouldn't have eaten. |
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Casual sex is dangerous and stupid. My opinion. I'd rather have a man who makes me smile...holds my hand...pulls me into his lap...holds me close. To be completely honest...the whole "thrust-thrust-thrust-headboard-banging-against-the-wall" isn't what I look for...it doesn't "flip my switch". That being said...if I give you a dollar can I touch yout spikeys??? Wow long time no see Peachie. Hows you? |
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Wed 07/15/09 09:00 PM
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in the distant past, 15 years ago for me, casual sex was all i could get back then, and because of all the thirty-something games played, i was glad i had someone to go to at the time, for one just gets too damn frustrating if there's no intimacy, with wayyy too much hunger and thirst to quench.....
it has now been ten years for me. since i've even touched another..... i refuse to have casual sex now! and......... i've found someone compatible for everything else.....i'll happily wait  well worth the wait!
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OH I AM SO HAPPY TO SEE MY FAVORITE KITTY!!
Am good honey..how's you??? |
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