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Topic: Sex (please do not move this to the sex and intimacy section
FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/15/09 10:56 PM



Exactly how often do you get laid?


I am a physical virgin and actually rather proud of that. If nothing else, I'd like my wife to be my first and my last.



Good luck with that man.

I want to find the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow...
I want to win the lotto.....
I want Ed McMahon to show up at my door with the Publishers Clearing house check for a million dollars....


but, I think I got better odds than you (and McMahon is dead)



just a word of advice bro.....


if you have never had sex and are only considering the mentalities of the possibilities....yet being loud and mouthy about it....

stop doing that...

...might be funny in the movies....in reality, you are screaming that you got no clue in the sack whenever you do hook up with the "lucky one".....

when you got no damned idea why she ain't satisfied and know she is about to dump your completly sincere de-virginized self...come talk to me...I can give you some pointers......

Cause this is like watching a guy tie a noose.....


You know I'd appreciate it if you didn't make judgments on my future. What do you know about any future relationships? You're making a huge assumption and I do not like it one bit. But if you want to judge me go right ahead, I could care less what you or anyone else thinks of me. I am who I am and I'm not now nor will I ever be ashamed of that fact.

With that, I think I'm done here, cause you don't get it now and you never will.


He has his thoughts on the subject, probably just doesn't understand differing opinions is all...

Kleisto's photo
Wed 07/15/09 10:59 PM





define "something comes up"


Well illnesses for example, or maybe a person just doesn't feel in the mood for a period of time, cause they're in pain, etc etc. There's different reasons where sex may end up on the backburner for a time.


define "a time"




That depends on the situation. The point is if you don't have the soul connection during those times, you won't last.


*sighs* if he's in a coma, i'm probably gone. i have a life to live.



That says a lot right there.....

krupa's photo
Wed 07/15/09 11:02 PM
Best of luck bro....

perhaps you know something that I haven't learned in 41 years....

truly...

nothing smart @ssed is being said here.....I never tried the full grown virgin thing so I cannot give an accurate assessment.

I hope things work out as you plan....cause you will be the only one I know who has thier life/fate/destiny controlled by thier own ideologies..

Seriously....good luck with it.

krupa's photo
Wed 07/15/09 11:06 PM




He has his thoughts on the subject, probably just doesn't understand differing opinions is all...


Heheheheheheeh THAT is hysterical coming from someone who is a virgin!!!!!

You REALLY need to go on the Tonight Show with Jay Leno!

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/15/09 11:06 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Wed 07/15/09 11:06 PM




He has his thoughts on the subject, probably just doesn't understand differing opinions is all...


Heheheheheheeh THAT is hysterical coming from someone who is a virgin!!!!!

You REALLY need to go on the Tonight Show with Jay Leno!


Err...I'm not a virgin...

lulu24's photo
Wed 07/15/09 11:06 PM


*sighs* if he's in a coma, i'm probably gone. i have a life to live.



That says a lot right there.....


and i'm okay with that.

for the record, i don't date at all at this time in my life. two of my kids have special needs, so they are the priority.

i don't have time for anything else, and unfortunately, that includes sex.

Kleisto's photo
Wed 07/15/09 11:08 PM
Edited by Kleisto on Wed 07/15/09 11:08 PM



*sighs* if he's in a coma, i'm probably gone. i have a life to live.



That says a lot right there.....



and i'm okay with that.

for the record, i don't date at all at this time in my life. two of my kids have special needs, so they are the priority.

i don't have time for anything else, and unfortunately, that includes sex.


I see, welllll to each their own I guess......

I do understand about the other part though.

krupa's photo
Wed 07/15/09 11:16 PM



*sighs* if he's in a coma, i'm probably gone. i have a life to live.



That says a lot right there.....


and i'm okay with that.

for the record, i don't date at all at this time in my life. two of my kids have special needs, so they are the priority.

i don't have time for anything else, and unfortunately, that includes sex.


Sorry Lulu....I know you got your hands full darling....if you get a moment and would like some belly down time...biting on the sheets with me nibbling your ear...look me up...

these other guys can probably walk your kids through a World of Warcrat tutorial if they wake up

lulu24's photo
Wed 07/15/09 11:18 PM





*sighs* if he's in a coma, i'm probably gone. i have a life to live.



That says a lot right there.....


and i'm okay with that.

for the record, i don't date at all at this time in my life. two of my kids have special needs, so they are the priority.

i don't have time for anything else, and unfortunately, that includes sex.


Sorry Lulu....I know you got your hands full darling....if you get a moment and would like some belly down time...biting on the sheets with me nibbling your ear...look me up...

these other guys can probably walk your kids through a World of Warcrat tutorial if they wake up


*chuckles*

look me up should you ever come to arkansas.

krupa's photo
Wed 07/15/09 11:30 PM
Edited by krupa on Wed 07/15/09 11:35 PM
See?


Was that sooooooo hard?

Make nice to a beautiful and sweet woman....

Only the threat of sex involved (I meant it)



All that honesty and being true to ones uneducated beliefs are nice....if you are really serious about maintaining a lasting relationship with your right palm.

no photo
Wed 07/15/09 11:40 PM

As this has really nothing to do with sex and/or intimacy. Moreso a personal view.

Anyway, I've always found myself as sort of a forsaken man. Not because I don't have sex or cannot have sex but moreso because I really don't want to have sex, I've never really seen the point in it aside from procreating and since I don't think I'll be doing any of that any time soon...it is pointless in my opinion. The reason I find myself feeling like an outcast is because this opinion of mine on sex is not exactly shared by a majority (this goes both for men and women), now don't get me wrong...it is not like I exactly thrive off being apart of the "in" crowd but that isn't really the point.

What I'm trying to figure out is why is sex deemed to be so important? What is it about sex that is so desireable? I don't want to see someone type 'with the right person it is perfect' as this isn't directed at this "right person", this is a personal observation on casual sex not sex with your significant other. I'm really trying to figure out why there is dozens upon dozens of people searching for someone to be sexual with or someone they have to see sexually appealing in order to date them, and yet only a handful of us really don't care and are just searching for someone we can connect with on a legitimate level.

I've been dating people for all about the last 3 years, in those 3 years I've dated probably roughly a dozen different women. I had sex with one of them, and the other 11...well to shorten the story to a sentence, either I or something beyond my control screwed the relationships up. A few of them I actually really enjoyed being with, for the most of them though I could really care less. Now when I say 'I'm not looking for sex' of course I get that BS face or some feeble attempt at a smartass comment of how 'I just can't be serious!', now of course I have friends that just make fun of me...but that's okay cause I give them just as much back when we are drinking and they have to 'watch' how much they drink because their girlfriend is watching.

But really? Is sex that damned important? Unless you are planning on having children it really is all about useless, isn't it?



I kind of understand you.........I think Billy...not sure if we are even still talking about the original post...however I would like to real quick.


I think sex is definitely pointless. However the real question is what is the definition of pointless?

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/15/09 11:42 PM

See?


Was that sooooooo hard?

Make nice to a beautiful and sweet woman....

Only the threat of sex involved (I meant it)



All that honesty and being true to ones uneducated beliefs are nice....if you are really serious about maintaining a lasting relationship with your right palm.


I've done that, and like I said it didn't work out for me. If I don't care about anything I have absolutely no joy doing it, and I refuse to do something that I simply do not enjoy doing. If it works for you, cool...it just doesn't work for me, and I find it useless.

no photo
Thu 07/16/09 06:23 AM



I can't believe it!

I would expect alot of these responses if we lived in Vatican City....


I cannot believe how many people are talking down the physical aspects of sexuality......

Good sex is great!
Even bad sex is still pretty good....

For everyone who has a negative vibe about sex.....Do yourself a favor.......keep me away from your mom or sister.....or just get used to calling me "Dad" or "Bro"......



nothing better to brighten the day or put a quickness in your step.

even when it's secretive...and nobody knows because it's "on the side" or "just a hook-up". that's when you walk around with that little grin cause it's juuuust for you.

it's like a day at the spa: ridiculously indulgent and oh, so worth it...


What does it really mean though if you end up alone afterwards wanting? Sure sex feels good, getting off feels good, but without love it's rather empty.


I don't agree. I don't have to be in love with someone to have wonderful sex and feel good afterward. Now, I'm not talking about one night stands, as I'm not into them. But, I certainly don't have to love someone to have sex with them.

Dan99's photo
Thu 07/16/09 06:32 AM

As this has really nothing to do with sex and/or intimacy. Moreso a personal view.

Anyway, I've always found myself as sort of a forsaken man. Not because I don't have sex or cannot have sex but moreso because I really don't want to have sex, I've never really seen the point in it aside from procreating and since I don't think I'll be doing any of that any time soon...it is pointless in my opinion. The reason I find myself feeling like an outcast is because this opinion of mine on sex is not exactly shared by a majority (this goes both for men and women), now don't get me wrong...it is not like I exactly thrive off being apart of the "in" crowd but that isn't really the point.

What I'm trying to figure out is why is sex deemed to be so important? What is it about sex that is so desireable? I don't want to see someone type 'with the right person it is perfect' as this isn't directed at this "right person", this is a personal observation on casual sex not sex with your significant other. I'm really trying to figure out why there is dozens upon dozens of people searching for someone to be sexual with or someone they have to see sexually appealing in order to date them, and yet only a handful of us really don't care and are just searching for someone we can connect with on a legitimate level.

I've been dating people for all about the last 3 years, in those 3 years I've dated probably roughly a dozen different women. I had sex with one of them, and the other 11...well to shorten the story to a sentence, either I or something beyond my control screwed the relationships up. A few of them I actually really enjoyed being with, for the most of them though I could really care less. Now when I say 'I'm not looking for sex' of course I get that BS face or some feeble attempt at a smartass comment of how 'I just can't be serious!', now of course I have friends that just make fun of me...but that's okay cause I give them just as much back when we are drinking and they have to 'watch' how much they drink because their girlfriend is watching.

But really? Is sex that damned important? Unless you are planning on having children it really is all about useless, isn't it?


I always knew you were gay.

just kidding.







(i only just found out! hahahaha)


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