Topic: your opnions...
buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:50 PM

Hummm I have dated 6 years younger and 8 years older it just happen that way. But would I go younger not sure it would all depend on the person actually I prefer closer to my age actually. But would not be closed minded if we had lots in common and enjoyed each others company.

Now there is no way I would date anyone that is close to my kids age at all.noway

But to each their own just not for me.bigsmile
soooo.... 6 yrs close to your parents age or 6 yrs close to your kids age is there a preference?

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:52 PM
Humm they were 6 years younger then me I want someone I can relate with not have to raise.bigsmile

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:54 PM

Me personaly I like them younger.Older is ok as long as its not to young and to old.

Not a cougar,nor do i want an old gizzer.lol:heart: flowerforyou
laugh laugh i guess im there with you... i asked... because ive had a basic age difference... usually due to the place in life... however... i have met someone that is younger than my standards.. uhhhh much younger lol that is in the same place i am quite shocked really!

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:55 PM
Edited by buttons on Sun 07/05/09 08:55 PM

Humm they were 6 years younger then me I want someone I can relate with not have to raise.bigsmile
ok so would feel you have to raise.... a 35 yr old?

jaxx15's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:56 PM
I think it all depends on the couple. For example my stepdad is only 12 years older than me and him and my mom have a great relationship. Age to me is only a number. I also prefer older women because i relate better to them but i wouldn't pass up the opportunity with a younger woman just because of her age.bigsmile

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:58 PM
ummmm if i were say 40... gawd i wish lol then 15 yrs younger would be 25 lol that is different than say 50 and 35 lol in my eyes anyway...

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:00 PM

I think it all depends on the couple. For example my stepdad is only 12 years older than me and him and my mom have a great relationship. Age to me is only a number. I also prefer older women because i relate better to them but i wouldn't pass up the opportunity with a younger woman just because of her age.bigsmile
bingo but how about a woman that is ... say 49 to you , what would you be attracted to them for?

CKeef's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:00 PM
For me, age does not matter although personal values and an open-mind cannot be compromised. I'm short, so I'd just like somebody to be my height or shorter hehe hard to feel like a man when you're on your tippy toes kissin her goodnight! As the beautiful Aaliyah said, age is nothin' but a number. Many people dont act their age... but who's to say what you should or should not do as long as it doesnt harm another?

jaxx15's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:01 PM

ummmm if i were say 40... gawd i wish lol then 15 yrs younger would be 25 lol that is different than say 50 and 35 lol in my eyes anyway...


I see what you are saying. i think it boils down to a maturity factor though.

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:03 PM

For me, age does not matter although personal values and an open-mind cannot be compromised. I'm short, so I'd just like somebody to be my height or shorter hehe hard to feel like a man when you're on your tippy toes kissin her goodnight! As the beautiful Aaliyah said, age is nothin' but a number. Many people dont act their age... but who's to say what you should or should not do as long as it doesnt harm another?
ooooo i so loved aaliyah!!!! sorry she had to go! and i know that song was a grand one! i beleive she was going out with bobby brown at the time she made the song....

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:04 PM


Humm they were 6 years younger then me I want someone I can relate with not have to raise.bigsmile
ok so would feel you have to raise.... a 35 yr old?



Hummm well now that would be 15 years younger then me now if they were around 11 years younger and we got along great and really enjoyed each other then I would not have a problem with it. It would really all depend on how we got along and how they made me feel. It is hard to really say since I have never been there in that situation. All I can say is go with your heart and see how things go. One never knows till they try and find out.

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:05 PM


ummmm if i were say 40... gawd i wish lol then 15 yrs younger would be 25 lol that is different than say 50 and 35 lol in my eyes anyway...


I see what you are saying. i think it boils down to a maturity factor though.
im thinking maturity and interests as well

jaxx15's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:05 PM


I think it all depends on the couple. For example my stepdad is only 12 years older than me and him and my mom have a great relationship. Age to me is only a number. I also prefer older women because i relate better to them but i wouldn't pass up the opportunity with a younger woman just because of her age.bigsmile
bingo but how about a woman that is ... say 49 to you , what would you be attracted to them for?



That would depend on the woman. I would go at it like i would someone my age. I really wouldn't bother me as long as we were compatible and there has to be a physical attraction also.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:06 PM
The next woman that i go out with i think i'm going to hold onto her for dear life, i don't won't to wind up on one of those dating sites!laugh laugh laugh laugh

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:06 PM
I must admit if the issue ever came up with me I would not totally shut them out due to the age issue. It would have to be due to we really did not have anything in common and there just was not anything there.

jaxx15's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:06 PM



ummmm if i were say 40... gawd i wish lol then 15 yrs younger would be 25 lol that is different than say 50 and 35 lol in my eyes anyway...


I see what you are saying. i think it boils down to a maturity factor though.
im thinking maturity and interests as well


good point

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:09 PM



Humm they were 6 years younger then me I want someone I can relate with not have to raise.bigsmile
ok so would feel you have to raise.... a 35 yr old?



Hummm well now that would be 15 years younger then me now if they were around 11 years younger and we got along great and really enjoyed each other then I would not have a problem with it. It would really all depend on how we got along and how they made me feel. It is hard to really say since I have never been there in that situation. All I can say is go with your heart and see how things go. One never knows till they try and find out.
honestly for gawd sakes... i never had to think about this before myself... and never wished that upon myself lol,, but u know the saying... ill just spell out 1234 happens! lol.. i never imagined that i would even have to think of it... i would think ewwwww but im finding i hard to think that way probabally the first and probabally the last lmaolaugh laugh

cabot's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:12 PM
Edited by cabot on Sun 07/05/09 09:13 PM
7 years younger...give or take a few. 5 years older...if she can keep up. jmo


Not sexually so much as daily work and outside stuff.

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:15 PM
im almost as embarrassed as hellooo! and was not in my beliefs ok im at least embarrassed but if things happend and it worked out id be proud just for his insides... still have the fear of being embarrased though... but what the heck? like i said.. nothing has worked out in the past.. so what is the difference of trying?

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:18 PM

7 years younger...give or take a few. 5 years older...if she can keep up. jmo


Not sexually so much as daily work and outside stuff.
and i agree with you too for a couple of yrs older never could with me in the past . not meaning that some wouldnt of been able too. maybe thats why older ones never ask me out i dont know what the problem is..