Topic: your opnions...
RKISIT's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:31 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Sun 07/05/09 08:32 PM
hell with the pictures of the landscape you have i would have nasty thoughts too..i was just thinking hmmm yep there and oh yeah there to...of course with you not actually doing the landscape.....just sayin:smile:

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:32 PM

I've dated 6 years younger to 20 years older. I wouldn't discount any one for age until they approach eligibilty to date my daughter.
ok 20 yra older could almost be considerde a "parent" age... so what is the difference then?

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:33 PM

I can't go down so far that there's nothing in common... I don't care how mature someone is, if they've never heard or can't comprehend stuff from my generation, what are we going to have in common? As far as how much older, well there's a point where than start looking like my dad even at my age, so I won't go too much older either...



Good point, very true!

Lilypetal's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:33 PM


I've dated 6 years younger to 20 years older. I wouldn't discount any one for age until they approach eligibilty to date my daughter.
ok 20 yra older could almost be considerde a "parent" age... so what is the difference then?


My dad is 79, so even if I dated someone 20 years older, he would still be at the age of my oldest brother.

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:34 PM

Im 33 and was engaged to a guy who was 21 last year.

Was nice til he moved, and distance didnt work.


Anyway, legal age shouldnt be a problem, and you dont have to marry everyone potentially.. just have some freakin fun!
seems to me...... that someone your own age these days is just for fun too rather you think it or not, rather you have 1 week sinked into it or 6 yrs.... thats what im trying to say...

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:35 PM



I've dated 6 years younger to 20 years older. I wouldn't discount any one for age until they approach eligibilty to date my daughter.
ok 20 yra older could almost be considerde a "parent" age... so what is the difference then?


My dad is 79, so even if I dated someone 20 years older, he would still be at the age of my oldest brother.
soooo well what about 15 yrs or so younger?

iheartyew's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:35 PM
I don't believe age matters.

I dated a guy 15 yrs older than me. I was closer to his daughters age than his and he was much closer to my moms age than mine.

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:36 PM

I can't go down so far that there's nothing in common... I don't care how mature someone is, if they've never heard or can't comprehend stuff from my generation, what are we going to have in common? As far as how much older, well there's a point where than start looking like my dad even at my age, so I won't go too much older either...
the weirdest thing.... i used to think that.... but there are guys who actually do

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:37 PM
Hummm I have dated 6 years younger and 8 years older it just happen that way. But would I go younger not sure it would all depend on the person actually I prefer closer to my age actually. But would not be closed minded if we had lots in common and enjoyed each others company.

Now there is no way I would date anyone that is close to my kids age at all.noway

But to each their own just not for me.bigsmile

RKISIT's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:37 PM
the waterfall and the bridge photo...now thats what i'm talking about..i wish i was younger:smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:37 PM

so what is your opinion on a younger person? im wondering because ive been with guys up to 8 yrs younger...... and i decided 5 yrs younger and 5 yrs older.. then i started thinking..... where has the world gone? same age as me and still no good, should you really shut out someone say.... 15 yrs younger? if you have the same likes and interests and experiences? hummmmm so if you think of it that way.....and knowing that things havent worked out in your age range in the past should you shut off the age difference that you thought would work in the past and widen it? it seems these days no relationship lasts long easy throw aways< not what i prefer> but the facts



scared I don't want to be on "To Catch A Predator"scared

Lilypetal's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:37 PM




I've dated 6 years younger to 20 years older. I wouldn't discount any one for age until they approach eligibilty to date my daughter.
ok 20 yra older could almost be considerde a "parent" age... so what is the difference then?


My dad is 79, so even if I dated someone 20 years older, he would still be at the age of my oldest brother.
soooo well what about 15 yrs or so younger?


Just for some fun, maybe. But for a relationship probably not. I've raised my children and someone in their mid 20's either has small children or wants to have kids.

earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:38 PM


Im 33 and was engaged to a guy who was 21 last year.

Was nice til he moved, and distance didnt work.


Anyway, legal age shouldnt be a problem, and you dont have to marry everyone potentially.. just have some freakin fun!
seems to me...... that someone your own age these days is just for fun too rather you think it or not, rather you have 1 week sinked into it or 6 yrs.... thats what im trying to say...


I agree with you completely, I dont go for relationships, and project, its the same with ayone I choose at whatever age they are, I enter for fun, and see where it goes, no expectations beside common decency.

RKISIT's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:39 PM
is being ignored part of getting old?:smile:

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:40 PM



if she puts out i put in:smile:
so thats the factor in a relationship for you?
not really... never have but forsome reason it seems to revolve around it,even if you don't want it to:smile:
ummm ive dated guys younger than your age compared to mine...it didnt work out and had nothing to do with age... and married someone ughhhh 2 yrs older than yourself... and dated as well for a ltrlaugh

silly's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:42 PM
Me personaly I like them younger.Older is ok as long as its not to young and to old.

Not a cougar,nor do i want an old gizzer.lol:heart: flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:44 PM

Hummm I have dated 6 years younger and 8 years older it just happen that way. But would I go younger not sure it would all depend on the person actually I prefer closer to my age actually. But would not be closed minded if we had lots in common and enjoyed each others company.

Now there is no way I would date anyone that is close to my kids age at all.noway

But to each their own just not for me.bigsmile
ive been close minded also! thats why im asking lol... once dated a guy that was 24 and i was 33... and the only reason i did.. cause no guys my age were asking me out! uhhh i turned down 8 people cause of younger age then finally i said yes, he was nice and age had nothing to do with my part anyway of me choosing to not go out with him anymore

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:46 PM





I've dated 6 years younger to 20 years older. I wouldn't discount any one for age until they approach eligibilty to date my daughter.
ok 20 yra older could almost be considerde a "parent" age... so what is the difference then?


My dad is 79, so even if I dated someone 20 years older, he would still be at the age of my oldest brother.
soooo well what about 15 yrs or so younger?


Just for some fun, maybe. But for a relationship probably not. I've raised my children and someone in their mid 20's either has small children or wants to have kids.
say..... none apply? and you have lots in common? even the age difference?

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:46 PM
:smile: I couldn't go younger than 20:smile:

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 08:48 PM



Im 33 and was engaged to a guy who was 21 last year.

Was nice til he moved, and distance didnt work.


Anyway, legal age shouldnt be a problem, and you dont have to marry everyone potentially.. just have some freakin fun!
seems to me...... that someone your own age these days is just for fun too rather you think it or not, rather you have 1 week sinked into it or 6 yrs.... thats what im trying to say...


I agree with you completely, I dont go for relationships, and project, its the same with ayone I choose at whatever age they are, I enter for fun, and see where it goes, no expectations beside common decency.
but what im saying... so what if it is for a relationship? since that doesnt seen to matter to many anymore? the chance is the same right? does age really make a difference?