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Fri 02/15/13 02:52 PM
Straight up... I dont know where that mouth has been, how often its used and how often its washed. Plus, the likelyhood that the mouth would taste like alcohol and/or cigarettes cannot be overlooked. Not even considering it could be an extremely unattractive person, physically and/or mentally... definitely no thanks. There are other ways to show someone you're attracted to them.

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Tue 02/12/13 09:51 AM
I find short hair on women very unattractive for the most part, but that doesnt mean I cant enjoy who they are or even fall in love. Just a huge turn on physically so I suppose it would make everything else harder (like a bad odor cannot be ignored and makes it hard to concentrate, though short hair isnt as bad as a massive stink). With that said, I hate dealing with my own hair and mostly refuse to allow it to get past a certain length, so I absolutely understand if the personal choice is to go short. I've always been amazed and confounded by how women deal with so much hair. Thankfully, there are various levels of short hair and some are not too short and can be very stylish, but the shorter it gets... the less likely I'll have a desire to get physical.

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Tue 02/12/13 09:44 AM
There is personal capabilities and circumstances that ought to be taken into consideration, but theres also the issue of social impact and over-population. There are people who can handle a lot of kids, but there are plenty who are terrible parents and just use their kids for a welfare check and housework while they get fatter. However, even if they can handle the amount and are good parents, the effect it has on the world, its resources and the amount of care, education, guidance, etc. that each child gets or cannot get due to having more siblings. I don't know if I could put a number on it, but I think if you've had 3 in the course of 10 years, they should start using a condom or find other ways of pleasure and/or intimacy. That also doesnt mean when your oldest turns ten, you should have another. There is more important things than just how we feel as parents or what we get from having children. A lot of parents are oblivious to the kinds of external treatment that occurs, how having more kids can affect a child regardless of age, and the responsibility and role modeling that is neglected by just having kids for the sake of it. Then again, people are going to do whatever they want regardless of anybody else, including their own children, so it doesnt really matter what I think. Humans are our own worst enemy.

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Mon 02/04/13 07:58 PM
Not interested in any way shape or form for any reason what so ever. It honestly makes me sad.

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Mon 02/04/13 01:06 PM
To be fair, calling someone 'baby' or 'honey' without knowing them is a bit much and to some, disrespectful. It is true, every so often people are just being kind but there is a lot of arrogant males who are out just for some play who use sweet words as bait for their own hidden agendas. I've seen it done far too many times... makes the rest of us look bad. I'm kind of on the fence as I think there are some elements that would be fine to say on the profile, but more often than not most things are best left for conversation or as you said, to be posted on a forum. The woman may be broken, but more than likely, she has good reason. Doesnt do anybody any good to judge her and then make a post about it. You made some good points but I believe went about it in a less-than-optimal way.

I have a problem simplifying... willowdraga said it best. Respect~

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Sat 02/02/13 12:47 PM


I try my best not to lie, and I am mostly successful.


ah an honest answer! everyone lies those that claim they don't are liars.I think it depends on the kind of lie, deceitful lie? boastful lie? exaggerated lie? lying by omission? lying on your tax forms? lying to your SO? the list can go on and on..............Some people tell ya "I hate liars" yea like you've NEVER lied, such a hypocrite. The point is there are BIG LIES and LITTLE LIES. Try getting through the week without telling a lie..................see if you can do it, depending on how much you are out in public or the type of work you do bet you it will be difficult to do..................


I never said I have never lied. I just dont do it anymore. Sucks to be you~

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Sat 02/02/13 12:46 PM
I'm sure there are but none my age, thats for sure

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Sat 02/02/13 08:08 AM
Edited by CKeef on Sat 02/02/13 08:12 AM
Depends on the person. People cheat for many different reasons and can have many different feelings about it, but for anybody in my life, including my friends, it's inexcusable. If things come to that, you either need to talk out your concerns and feelings or end the relationship. Cheating is selfish, vile and unforgivable.

And in response to who cheats more? It's pretty evened out. I've known way more women that cheat than guys, but the guys that do, do it more often. At the end of the day, I believe nobody can make accurate broad strokes about a group as a whole seeing as we'll only know a tiny percentage of people.

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Sat 02/02/13 07:49 AM


why do you lie? what makes you lie?


nothing, since I grew up and realized I had the option to say nothing at all,, or say things like "Its personal',, 'Id rather not talk about it', or 'next question?'....lol

:thumbsup:

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Fri 02/01/13 05:01 PM

"Baboobs" or "reverse overflow boobs"?

That actually made me laugh out loud. Baboobs. Love it. I wouldve just stuck with 'fat,' but somehow baboobs just feels right xD Thank you for that.

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Fri 02/01/13 02:01 PM
Edited by CKeef on Fri 02/01/13 02:02 PM

I don't trust people who don't lie.

This makes me sad. I've put a ton of effort into not lying; I've made many conscious efforts to find other ways to express myself, and if I cannot think of a good way to tell somebody a bitter truth, I simply tell them "I dont know what to say right now" or simply "no comment." As my mother often said, "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all" which is not that hard to do, and let me just say I prefer a bitter truth to a sweet lie. To simply not trust someone because they refuse to play games with people they care about really loses me a lot of faith in our species. Even more sadly, most people often seem to think the truth I speak are lies, yet will believe a lie in a heartbeat. Is it really that impossible to not have hidden agendas or false feelings? I can be the greatest friend and someone like you would be missing out a great deal V_V. I'm sure most of you deal mostly in lil white lies and maybe its not so serious for most, but I'm really ashamed so many seemingly take the easy way out from their own discomfort instead of pushing themselves to be the person they hope for in a partner (unless someone wants a partner who lies to them... ugh). That is all, sorry for so many words.

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Thu 01/31/13 05:57 PM
A penis

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Thu 01/31/13 05:51 PM

What is your opinion on women having tattoo sleeves in their 30's and 40's? Turn on or turn off?

Tattoo SLEEVES?
Huge no.
If an entire peice of their body is being covered, thats not desirable even before they age. Tats can be great in small supply, but can easily be too much of a good thing if large enough

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Thu 01/31/13 04:05 PM
Edited by CKeef on Thu 01/31/13 04:07 PM
I believe all one can do is try to express and explain in different ways and have patience that eventually they'll grasp what you mean and how you think.
That may only go so far though, and sometimes its best to go your separate ways if the other person is unwilling or unable to open their mind to something outside of their experience or beliefs.
It can be maddening... I know all too well. I've had to cut ties more often than not due to the closed minded nature of certain individuals or the hardened assumptions and beliefs you're trying to say something between the lines. There are many people with hidden agendas and I understand it, but sometimes you just gotta let people do bad by themselves, or if you're lucky, agree to disagree and stay away from tough subjects.

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Thu 01/31/13 03:59 PM
I do, but that doesn't mean its 'true love' or even a deep love.
Some people like myself are very good at looking into someones eyes and seeing much more than what graces the surface. Some people you can just tell are worthy of your love.
With that said, its a very rare thing and to have that person feeling the same would be very unlikely to happen so while its possible, it is highly improbable.

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Thu 01/31/13 03:46 PM
I'm only 5'4 so unfortunately, most everybody's taller than me. I've had time with women taller and they are awesome people, but for a long-term partner, I'd prefer someone I dont have to strain myself to kiss. An inch or two over is fine, being the same height is fine, but the last time I was with someone shorter than me I was in middle school so I dont even know what that feels like anymore. I'm sure it'd be fine. If I had a choice, which I really dont, it'd be a preference to shorter. My loss V_V

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Thu 01/31/13 03:31 PM
Right in the middle is preferable, but I'd rather someone with some chub than someone skinny I'd be afraid to lay on. However, most women I've met or seen claim to be chubby are in reality quite huge and thats not ok with me. I have met some thin people I was attracted to, but they werent boney... that's not ok either.


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Thu 01/31/13 03:17 PM
I don't :\
Causes more problems than it solves.

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Sun 02/21/10 07:53 AM
I'd prefer none, or if I cant notice, whatever. All natural is how I like my woman.

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Wed 01/27/10 12:48 PM


I'm blackman who lives in the south why so many of us are hung up on not dating outsides our races ??????


It could be staying where you feel comfortable. For example, up until my twenties, I wouldnt have thought of being with anyone who wasnt black. Black people are who I grew up loving and having love me, so I just didnt desire to look any further. There is also stigma in different communities about being in interracial relationships which may deter people. Good news is, noone is a stagnant soul, we live and learn and change....even our personal tastes. I learned and expanded my options to include more than black men.

I think it is kind of natural to want to date people who resemble your family and community,,I dont find it nearly as sad as REFUSING to date those who do though. I have known both whites and blacks who REFUSE to date other whites or blacks,,,,very interesting to me in a sad way.


Now this is quite curious. Growing up in a liberal northern area, I wasnt around a lot of people that refused, though I've met some. Personally, I actually have a really, really hard time finding attraction in white women. Whether its mentally, spiritually, or physically, I just really dont feel the majority of white girls I've ever knew, seen around, etc. Cant say I have a race preference though... just ratio's of various aspects of women that I love, and unfortunately, there is definitely truth to some stereotypes.

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