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WOW and your questioning this I cant even get a guy to look past the fact I have 5 kids. You go girl enjoy life is too short 
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Thanks Chevy
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To me,the age does not matter.
i agree
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WOW and your questioning this I cant even get a guy to look past the fact I have 5 kids. You go girl enjoy life is too short
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deb , if you think that there is some kind of thing there? then go meet this guy and see if there really is some thing there.... if not then you have made another good friend !
 and its off the wall that he is that much younger! but ive been thinking about reality is all. that no matter what it is its always a chance
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Thank u I am here for the friendship I am surching for it gets pretty lonely talking to people under 8. If someones intrested then all the better.
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Thank u I am here for the friendship I am surching for it gets pretty lonely talking to people under 8. If someones intrested then all the better. oh gosh i have been there.. is grand having them there to talk too but doesnt replace... however been there too with a empty nest , let me tell you that is worse!
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hell with the pictures of the landscape you have i would have nasty thoughts too..i was just thinking hmmm yep there and oh yeah there to...of course with you not actually doing the landscape.....just sayin 
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is being ignored part of getting old?
 
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Thank u I am here for the friendship I am surching for it gets pretty lonely talking to people under 8. If someones intrested then all the better.
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lol I so give up on finding love just want friends. So I can have adult conversation with
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ema..... maybe you should put up a few more pictures of yourself on here... people gripe that i dont have enough lol! i just tell them go to myspace there are different pics on there ... then i buy then for a pet friend lol!
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I hate pics my friends talked me into this I dont even take pics with my kids. I am just okay with having friendship its gonna take one hell of a man to understand that I am not looking for finacial support or someone being a daddy to them but a friend. Shoot people who I dont even know ask me how many daddys I have for my kids and the other stupid question I get is are those twins to mt IDENTICAL twin boys. I tell them that they are 2 years apart and they believe me.LOL:
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Edited by
earthytaurus76
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Mon 07/06/09 12:04 AM
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Im 33 and was engaged to a guy who was 21 last year. Was nice til he moved, and distance didnt work. Anyway, legal age shouldnt be a problem, and you dont have to marry everyone potentially.. just have some freakin fun! I agree with you completely, I dont go for relationships, and project, its the same with ayone I choose at whatever age they are, I enter for fun, and see where it goes, no expectations beside common decency. Yeah, I totally said yes, im all about it, I did it sucessfully til he moved, he was 21.. I was just saying to have fun at least til you can figure out if they can hang with the relationship, or whatever ya wanna do, not entering with any kind of relationship on your mind. That way its safer and there is less hurt, or prob for anyone. Oh, I hope your still watching this thread hon, cos ill tell ya! Ok, what hurts more is when you set yourself up for disaster with someone that never had what was nessasary in a relationship, cos 1. they are truly a person who turned out to be be too immature, and there was no way to find out this before ou were in love, and having this deep loving relationship you may like me have turned out totally screwed, cos your all into this whole thing, and they just cruise with no consideration whatsoever for your feelings, cos they arent really sure of WHAT they feel yet really, they are too inexperienced to get it, and your stuck out. ORRR 2 in my experience with someone older, they may not take YOU so seriously because they have been around the block, and been screwed, or never took you seriously anyway, cos they think YOUR too young to truly get them. Or.. you could be put by this mate in competition with other women of a certain age they may prefer more than yours in the long run. Ohh yeah, and then you cant forget that you have to take responsibilty for YOUR part in the situation, and admit to yourself that you got yourself into this useless crap mess. |
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so what is your opinion on a younger person? im wondering because ive been with guys up to 8 yrs younger...... and i decided 5 yrs younger and 5 yrs older.. then i started thinking..... where has the world gone? same age as me and still no good, should you really shut out someone say.... 15 yrs younger? if you have the same likes and interests and experiences? hummmmm so if you think of it that way.....and knowing that things havent worked out in your age range in the past should you shut off the age difference that you thought would work in the past and widen it? it seems these days no relationship lasts long easy throw aways< not what i prefer> but the facts You cant help who you connect with. I figure as long as they are of legal age, and they treat you well...you can learn to look past the age difference. I am 29, and I happen to usually date mates that are 15 or 25 years older than me. Doesnt bother me...and so far I never been mistreated. I guess to each their own..
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age is just a number as long as your date can go to the same places you go. clubs bars, ect
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so what is your opinion on a younger person? im wondering because ive been with guys up to 8 yrs younger...... and i decided 5 yrs younger and 5 yrs older.. then i started thinking..... where has the world gone? same age as me and still no good, should you really shut out someone say.... 15 yrs younger? if you have the same likes and interests and experiences? hummmmm so if you think of it that way.....and knowing that things havent worked out in your age range in the past should you shut off the age difference that you thought would work in the past and widen it? it seems these days no relationship lasts long easy throw aways< not what i prefer> but the facts When I was younger, I tended to go out primarily with older women -- it wasn't planned that way, it was just who I met. It shifted as I got older, because I started to get a better idea of what I wanted and what I didn't want in a relationship. Over time, I've come to understand that the whole "age is just a number" philosophy is largely true for me -- age, per se, says no more about a person than shoe size or social security number or license plate number. Yes, I can tell how many times you've ridden the planet around the sun. All in all, it's not very useful to know. There are those who parrot "Life experience!" as some kind of mantra, but the fact is, in a room full of people who are all 38, all will not have had the exact same life experiences. I've resigned myself to the reality that, if I'm going to find someone for a serious relationship, it's almost certainly going to have to be someone much younger -- not because I only want someone younger, but because it's impossible to find anyone over 25 or so who doesn't have kids. But it's not about the numbers, it's about the person -- and I think maybe it would be a good idea if people realized that a person was more than just a set of statistics. |
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I can't go down so far that there's nothing in common... I don't care how mature someone is, if they've never heard or can't comprehend stuff from my generation, what are we going to have in common? As far as how much older, well there's a point where than start looking like my dad even at my age, so I won't go too much older either... i feel the same. i don't like to go too much older than me because then it starts getting close to my mother's age and that sorta creeps me out a bit. as for younger, it all depends on the goal. if it's just a physical encounter then legal is legal. if i'm looking for something more substantial, then i think that 10 years younger is the lowest i'll go. . . . |
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Edited by
Gossipmpm
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Mon 07/06/09 03:37 PM
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Well I always enjoyed men my own age and older
They have the experience I like I can talk to them The feel of a smooth young cub. No thank you! |
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Edited by
Winx
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Mon 07/06/09 03:57 PM
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so what is your opinion on a younger person? im wondering because ive been with guys up to 8 yrs younger...... and i decided 5 yrs younger and 5 yrs older.. then i started thinking..... where has the world gone? same age as me and still no good, should you really shut out someone say.... 15 yrs younger? if you have the same likes and interests and experiences? hummmmm so if you think of it that way.....and knowing that things havent worked out in your age range in the past should you shut off the age difference that you thought would work in the past and widen it? it seems these days no relationship lasts long easy throw aways< not what i prefer> but the facts I'm almost 50. I won't date anyone under 45. How much older? Just a few. |
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