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im almost as embarrassed as hellooo! and was not in my beliefs ok im at least embarrassed but if things happend and it worked out id be proud just for his insides... still have the fear of being embarrased though... but what the heck? like i said.. nothing has worked out in the past.. so what is the difference of trying? I say move on with it and see what happens hell at this stage in my life I would not turn down due to 11 years in age if it don't work then at least you gave it your best. Heck you never know till ya try right? If it was me forget what others think and see where it may go. |
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Im 33 and was engaged to a guy who was 21 last year. Was nice til he moved, and distance didnt work. Anyway, legal age shouldnt be a problem, and you dont have to marry everyone potentially.. just have some freakin fun! I agree with you completely, I dont go for relationships, and project, its the same with ayone I choose at whatever age they are, I enter for fun, and see where it goes, no expectations beside common decency. Yeah, I totally said yes, im all about it, I did it sucessfully til he moved, he was 21.. I was just saying to have fun at least til you can figure out if they can hang with the relationship, or whatever ya wanna do, not entering with any kind of relationship on your mind. That way its safer and there is less hurt, or prob for anyone. |
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7 years younger...give or take a few. 5 years older...if she can keep up. jmo Not sexually so much as daily work and outside stuff. |
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Im 33 and was engaged to a guy who was 21 last year. Was nice til he moved, and distance didnt work. Anyway, legal age shouldnt be a problem, and you dont have to marry everyone potentially.. just have some freakin fun! I agree with you completely, I dont go for relationships, and project, its the same with ayone I choose at whatever age they are, I enter for fun, and see where it goes, no expectations beside common decency. Yeah, I totally said yes, im all about it, I did it sucessfully til he moved, he was 21.. I was just saying to have fun at least til you can figure out if they can hang with the relationship, or whatever ya wanna do, not entering with any kind of relationship on your mind. That way its safer and there is less hurt, or prob for anyone. |
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I have found that with some older women that kids can be a problem. Some don't want the hassle of a man with a 6 year old daughter. Would that matter?
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so what im saying earthy... would that not be the fact also with someone say 5 yrs older or 5 yrs youger also?
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I have found that with some older women that kids can be a problem. Some don't want the hassle of a man with a 6 year old daughter. Would that matter? |
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I have found that with some older women that kids can be a problem. Some don't want the hassle of a man with a 6 year old daughter. Would that matter? Yeah but you're allowed to |
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who knows what it was to make me think differently, but ill tell you this at least. perhaps im just honestly ready to settle down again.. and willing to accept the responsibilitys that i have already acheived... however that is not the case im talking about now..
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I have found that with some older women that kids can be a problem. Some don't want the hassle of a man with a 6 year old daughter. Would that matter? Yeah but you're allowed to |
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I have found that with some older women that kids can be a problem. Some don't want the hassle of a man with a 6 year old daughter. Would that matter? Yeah but you're allowed to True.... |
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for closing here i want to tell everyone that imput i appreciate... i am still lost but i will remember what you said.. when i have to think of this further thank you again!.... deb
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well, if that whats makes you happy then go for it !
age is only a number .... and if you two are happy then i see nothing wrong with it ! |
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Edited by
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well, if that whats makes you happy then go for it ! age is only a number .... and if you two are happy then i see nothing wrong with it ! |
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My Aunt and Uncle were together 36 years before my Aunt passed away they were 13 years apart. Love is love I was raised by them after my mom was killed and I would see the love they had my Aunt was so attentive to my Uncle from ironing his jeans to cutting up his meat. My Uncle would come home with wild flowers or even one time a heart shaped rock the passion and love they shared touched me to believe someday I can have that.
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4 years younger is the perfect fit for me.
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4 years younger is the perfect fit for me. |
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Edited by
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My Aunt and Uncle were together 36 years before my Aunt passed away they were 13 years apart. Love is love I was raised by them after my mom was killed and I would see the love they had my Aunt was so attentive to my Uncle from ironing his jeans to cutting up his meat. My Uncle would come home with wild flowers or even one time a heart shaped rock the passion and love they shared touched me to believe someday I can have that. |
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WOW and your questioning this I cant even get a guy to look past the fact I have 5 kids. You go girl enjoy life is too short
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deb , if you think that there is some kind of thing there? then go meet this guy and see if there really is some thing there....
if not then you have made another good friend ! |
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