Topic: your opnions...
TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:19 PM

im almost as embarrassed as hellooo! and was not in my beliefs ok im at least embarrassed but if things happend and it worked out id be proud just for his insides... still have the fear of being embarrased though... but what the heck? like i said.. nothing has worked out in the past.. so what is the difference of trying?


I say move on with it and see what happens hell at this stage in my life I would not turn down due to 11 years in age noway if it don't work then at least you gave it your best. Heck you never know till ya try right?bigsmile

If it was me forget what others think and see where it may go.bigsmile

earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:23 PM




Im 33 and was engaged to a guy who was 21 last year.

Was nice til he moved, and distance didnt work.


Anyway, legal age shouldnt be a problem, and you dont have to marry everyone potentially.. just have some freakin fun!
seems to me...... that someone your own age these days is just for fun too rather you think it or not, rather you have 1 week sinked into it or 6 yrs.... thats what im trying to say...


I agree with you completely, I dont go for relationships, and project, its the same with ayone I choose at whatever age they are, I enter for fun, and see where it goes, no expectations beside common decency.
but what im saying... so what if it is for a relationship? since that doesnt seen to matter to many anymore? the chance is the same right? does age really make a difference?



Yeah, I totally said yes, im all about it, I did it sucessfully til he moved, he was 21.. I was just saying to have fun at least til you can figure out if they can hang with the relationship, or whatever ya wanna do, not entering with any kind of relationship on your mind.

That way its safer and there is less hurt, or prob for anyone.

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:24 PM

7 years younger...give or take a few. 5 years older...if she can keep up. jmo


Not sexually so much as daily work and outside stuff.
outside stuff?

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:28 PM





Im 33 and was engaged to a guy who was 21 last year.

Was nice til he moved, and distance didnt work.


Anyway, legal age shouldnt be a problem, and you dont have to marry everyone potentially.. just have some freakin fun!
seems to me...... that someone your own age these days is just for fun too rather you think it or not, rather you have 1 week sinked into it or 6 yrs.... thats what im trying to say...


I agree with you completely, I dont go for relationships, and project, its the same with ayone I choose at whatever age they are, I enter for fun, and see where it goes, no expectations beside common decency.
but what im saying... so what if it is for a relationship? since that doesnt seen to matter to many anymore? the chance is the same right? does age really make a difference?



Yeah, I totally said yes, im all about it, I did it sucessfully til he moved, he was 21.. I was just saying to have fun at least til you can figure out if they can hang with the relationship, or whatever ya wanna do, not entering with any kind of relationship on your mind.

That way its safer and there is less hurt, or prob for anyone.
nu hurt comes with the same age or 3 yrs older or 8 yrs younger.... so what is the difference with the age? and i said those ages cause i have experienced that...

jaxx15's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:30 PM
I have found that with some older women that kids can be a problem. Some don't want the hassle of a man with a 6 year old daughter. Would that matter?

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:30 PM
so what im saying earthy... would that not be the fact also with someone say 5 yrs older or 5 yrs youger also?

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:33 PM

I have found that with some older women that kids can be a problem. Some don't want the hassle of a man with a 6 year old daughter. Would that matter?
i honestly used to think so just a couple of yrs ago... but i have a open mind,, and i love kids,,, huh!!!! ok maybe im thinking differently these days.. does a women not change her mind lol!!laugh :wink:

jaxx15's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:36 PM


I have found that with some older women that kids can be a problem. Some don't want the hassle of a man with a 6 year old daughter. Would that matter?
i honestly used to think so just a couple of yrs ago... but i have a open mind,, and i love kids,,, huh!!!! ok maybe im thinking differently these days.. does a women not change her mind lol!!laugh :wink:

laugh laugh Yeah but you're allowed to:wink:

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:37 PM
who knows what it was to make me think differently, but ill tell you this at least. perhaps im just honestly ready to settle down again.. and willing to accept the responsibilitys that i have already acheived... however that is not the case im talking about now..

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:37 PM



I have found that with some older women that kids can be a problem. Some don't want the hassle of a man with a 6 year old daughter. Would that matter?
i honestly used to think so just a couple of yrs ago... but i have a open mind,, and i love kids,,, huh!!!! ok maybe im thinking differently these days.. does a women not change her mind lol!!laugh :wink:

laugh laugh Yeah but you're allowed to:wink:
hey but at least i admit it lol!

jaxx15's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:43 PM




I have found that with some older women that kids can be a problem. Some don't want the hassle of a man with a 6 year old daughter. Would that matter?
i honestly used to think so just a couple of yrs ago... but i have a open mind,, and i love kids,,, huh!!!! ok maybe im thinking differently these days.. does a women not change her mind lol!!laugh :wink:

laugh laugh Yeah but you're allowed to:wink:
hey but at least i admit it lol!


True....

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:51 PM
for closing here i want to tell everyone that imput i appreciate... i am still lost but i will remember what you said.. when i have to think of this further thank you again!.... debflowerforyou flowerforyou

chevylover1965's photo
Sun 07/05/09 09:53 PM
well, if that whats makes you happy then go for it !
age is only a number ....
and if you two are happy then i see nothing wrong with it !flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 10:04 PM
Edited by buttons on Sun 07/05/09 10:05 PM

well, if that whats makes you happy then go for it !
age is only a number ....
and if you two are happy then i see nothing wrong with it !flowerforyou
lmaoooo there is definately no item here!!!!!! and if i meet this guy , its going in with the thoughts of friends, i love all ages for friends... however he has told me his interests are peeked, and for some reason i continued talking with him, then he peeked mine... but too skeered to meet him lol.....i have met one stranger in 6 yrs.. sooo im a big chicken u know... lol

ematwo71's photo
Sun 07/05/09 10:07 PM
My Aunt and Uncle were together 36 years before my Aunt passed away they were 13 years apart. Love is love I was raised by them after my mom was killed and I would see the love they had my Aunt was so attentive to my Uncle from ironing his jeans to cutting up his meat. My Uncle would come home with wild flowers or even one time a heart shaped rock the passion and love they shared touched me to believe someday I can have that.

auburngirl's photo
Sun 07/05/09 10:17 PM
4 years younger is the perfect fit for me. love

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 10:23 PM

4 years younger is the perfect fit for me. love
laugh laugh laugh golly gee who would that be?rofl rofl rofl rofl :wink:

buttons's photo
Sun 07/05/09 10:29 PM
Edited by buttons on Sun 07/05/09 10:29 PM

My Aunt and Uncle were together 36 years before my Aunt passed away they were 13 years apart. Love is love I was raised by them after my mom was killed and I would see the love they had my Aunt was so attentive to my Uncle from ironing his jeans to cutting up his meat. My Uncle would come home with wild flowers or even one time a heart shaped rock the passion and love they shared touched me to believe someday I can have that.
and that is awesome no matter the age.. actually the guy that was 8 yrs younger was probabally the most romantic.. he brought me flowers almost every time i told him no more that he didnt need to spend that money on me to impress me... ya know what he did?... he said ok i understand then he came the next time with cut flowers from a garden , told me he spent no money, saw a man pruning his rose bushes on the way to my house and told the old man the story and got some roses from him... never has anyone done that for me!

ematwo71's photo
Sun 07/05/09 10:31 PM
WOW and your questioning this I cant even get a guy to look past the fact I have 5 kids. You go girl enjoy life is too shortflowerforyou

chevylover1965's photo
Sun 07/05/09 10:33 PM
deb , if you think that there is some kind of thing there? then go meet this guy and see if there really is some thing there....
if not then you have made another good friend !flowerforyou