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Fran...I'm touring this summer and could use an opening act...would love to sign you up?The pay is horrible but the scenery is great! who needs money, show me the scenery  yay I got top billing!! Brought to you by M2 - View the world differently and share your experiences. And the letter Q  I like your momma now what happens when I misbehave 
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Robin it's 8:30 in the morning and already you want credit  no it's not the same - I don't think of men having sex  close but not the same ok fran i will sorta give ya that one yer probably not that conceited i doubt you look at the guy and say i know he is thinking of having sex with you but he may be saying that about you tho    me conceited neva I look at a guy and see him naked, don't really care what he's thinking about as what matters is what I am thinking about  it's not even 9am and I am straight smack in the middle of the gutta!!! |
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Robin it's 8:30 in the morning and already you want credit no it's not the same - I don't think of men having sex close but not the same ok fran i will sorta give ya that one yer probably not that conceited i doubt you look at the guy and say i know he is thinking of having sex with you but he may be saying that about you tho me conceited neva I look at a guy and see him naked, don't really care what he's thinking about as what matters is what I am thinking about it's not even 9am and I am straight smack in the middle of the gutta!!! at least you put it out there us guys know where we stand with ya (where ever you tell us too)
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Robin it's 8:30 in the morning and already you want credit no it's not the same - I don't think of men having sex close but not the same ok fran i will sorta give ya that one yer probably not that conceited i doubt you look at the guy and say i know he is thinking of having sex with you but he may be saying that about you tho me conceited neva I look at a guy and see him naked, don't really care what he's thinking about as what matters is what I am thinking about it's not even 9am and I am straight smack in the middle of the gutta!!! at least you put it out there us guys know where we stand with ya (where ever you tell us too) see you understand me - I mean no harm
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You two have a way of making this morning alot more entertaining than usual!I nearly spit my coffee up!
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Good mornin sal, ladies, gentleman.
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morn LHB
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Good mornin sal, ladies, gentleman. 
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You know what I'd like to see more of? Men being upfront and honest about things. Now, I'm not saying all men are like this, but from what I've seen and what other women have told me, many men avoid confrontation like the plague. It isn't that difficult to just be upfront about what you're thinking. If something isn't working out, let us know. It can't be that hard. Excuse the interruption, sorry to go back on topic here, BUT ..... I'm upfront and honest, to a fault sometimes, and I've found that most men find it to be disconcerting and even disagreeable to their nature. Many men are 'spinners' and like to keep everything in their lives on an even keel. When soemthing they don't like occurs they either sweep it under the rug and 'spin' the situation around to their liking or they consciously choose to be CLUELESS. When given a chance to discuss politics, religion, sports, most men will gladly spew their opinions like wildfire. BUT when asked to communicate feelings, desires, and the more personal aspects about themselves they RUN FOR THE HILLS and shut themselves up in a cave! For many men IT IS difficult to internalize; it's so much easier and preferable for them to externalize and leave the personal 'field' intact. Hence, the lack of communication between partners. Women look at it as enhancing and clarifying. Men perceive it to be confrontational because of their combative nature. IF they only knew it wasn't!!! NOW BACK TO YOUR REGULARLY SCHEDULED "MORNING" PROGRAM!!!! teeheeheeheeheeeee |
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I do think that's how some men are. They assume it's confrontational when it isn't.
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Edited by
salvatore35
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Tue 06/16/09 06:33 AM
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I do think that's how some men are. They assume it's confrontational when it isn't. |
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Good Morning Tee Hee Hee...your name makes me giggle!
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 Morning! I think it is generally best to be up front in most situations. Kinda goes along with honesty and trust.... know what I mean? |
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Edited by
TeeHeeHeeHeeHee1961
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Tue 06/16/09 06:39 AM
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That's why so many "TALKS" turn into 'fights', Singme.
Many men think the woman is attacking them and they become defensive instead of just truly listening and then sharing their thoughts and views in return. Don't they know that everything doesn't have to be a combat!?! Morning Sal!! Glad I could put a grin on your face. |
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Morning! I think it is generally best to be up front in most situations. Kinda goes along with honesty and trust.... know what I mean? |
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Morning! I think it is generally best to be up front in most situations. Kinda goes along with honesty and trust.... know what I mean? Exactly! |
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I don't think either sex has any real intentions of being confrontational. It's just perceived that way by party not getting what they wanted from the other party.
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That's why so many "TALKS" turn into 'fights'. Many men think the woman is attacking them and they become defensive instead of just truly listening and then sharing their thoughts and views in return. Don't they know that everything doesn't have to be a combat!! |
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That's why so many "TALKS" turn into 'fights'. Many men think the woman is attacking them and they become defensive instead of just truly listening and then sharing their thoughts and views in return. Don't they know that everything doesn't have to be a combat!! It's why some avoid talking at all about certain things, too. |
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