My apologies to the thread starter, for getting a lil off the topic

Let ya in on a secret... According to sociologists and psychologists, men want relationships. They are quicker to want sex because they don't get attached as quickly. (Now here's the kicker) THAT is because men get more attached when they finally do. On a general basis women tend to move on (emotionally) from failed relationships quicker. Kinda weird huh? I always thought it was reverse.


This info may not help you find a mate but maybe it might shed a little light on things and help you understand the opposite sex a little more.

There is a trick to FINDING relationships... and that is not to look for one. When there is less pressure there are less emotional barriers. This allows both you and any potential partner to let go of the "act" a bit and just be yourselves. Emotional independence tends to attract the opposite sex, and when the relationship moves on interdependence helps keep the long term relationship going.

Amazing how we humans can be so controversial huh?

Yor frustration doesn't lie in finding a good man, it's finding the right one for you. Any man will commit to the right woman. It takes time, and effort of course, but we are all so very differnt. My GF and I where talking about this. I've talked to quite a few women, and dated a nice chunk and so has she. Emotions aside, we both wrote down what a perfect partner would be, before we even met. When we shared it, we had to laugh quite a bit. The very attributes she wanted, that she never found in others, she found in me. Another is i'm into swords, video games, anime, nature and martial arts. These are all things i've always felt i had to sacrafice or atleast do on my own when in a relastionship, as i've never met a girl who was into all the same things. Since she is, we tend to have to many things we want to do together. Enough that it would probly take a lifetime to do. That being said, i had one of the most fun times in the last year, by doing nothing but taking a stroll in the park with her.

Now here is the kicker. I aint pretty, we are both slightly overweight, and we both had long term massivly failed relastionships in the past. We both have had lots of 'been dumped'. It isn't that we suck, it's that we are blueberry pie. For no guys wanted her for the exact reasons i wanted her. The guys she was with didn't like her playing with swords, or video games or didnt like anime or her religion, where i'm the same religion, and love those things about her.

See, blueberry pie is just the pie that only a few people want. Where most like apple cobler, or pumpkin pie, etc. There's nothing wrong with the blueberry pie, it's just people prefer something else. But the thing about blueberry pie is that when someone comes along who likes blueberry pie, they tend to be the same as you. Apple cobler relastionships turn into normal average familys. Blueberry pie relastionships have movies based on them.

It's my expierence that good guys are there. Most girls pass them up. i've been passed up quite a bit. Of course if your defintion of a decent guy being that he looks good, makes 100k/year, is polite and have good maners, and no bad history or anything, then your trying to find the best of the apple cobler. I dont think those guys go to this site. If our just looking for a good guy who can love you, and will do the right thing, then there are plenty of those.

Howdy... missed your wonderful posts!

good morning all

have we figured out by now what men really want from relationships?

Oh is that what this thread was about?

But the question still remains. Are men faithful. You start to trust someone and then they break that trust. I know that women are not faithful.

All people have the capacity to be faithful and to cheat. It is not gender based.

It just depends on who they are, what they want, and how they live their lives. There are faithful men out there.

Anyone read that new study about the faithful gene.

According to the study, Some men have it and some don't.
But it has no affects on women having it.

It does work both ways and being on the net these days it's more of a game to alot of people then anything else. They'er alot of real men on here. It just it's what your interested in. It goes for the men to, they'er are alot of real women on here but even though we see this doesn't meen anyone will be attracted to anyone. it's just knowing they'er are real people out there and no one knows when they will meet that one that they might conect with. For all you know, they could be standing right infront of you and you can't see it.

got the cure!!! finally!!!

right next to the diet pills that work miracles, there is a new pill that just hit the market!!!
It's made from particles of Cupids arrows and promises to make the person of the following sex (or same sex if thats what you both are into) that you make eye contact with fall madly in love.

The pill does filter out married, down-low, confused, and uninterested parties.

The recipe for this pill is kept under wraps alongside with the Colonel's and Bush's recipe for chicken and baked beans.

Now to find out where to find this "magic" pill, please send completed application, fee and complete banking information including your PIN number, once payment is secured the location of these pills will be made available to you.

Good luck.

And your profile is still a riot too....

You find my profile, how should I say this, OMG? Hmm. That goes to show that you are the type of woman I try to avoid. As to the term, "Mail Order Bride", at least they were raised to view the wedding vows as the way a family should be, each leaving their parents and family cleaving only to their spouse, FORSAKING ALL OTHERS, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, til death do you part. Unlike women here do.

A "real" man wants a relationship......a child/man wants to play.......with hearts and minds.

Sometimes it takes a while to figure out

it can, fourtunately i have what i have been seeking.

Good for you!!!

Yep. We want a relationship. Some of us just keep picking the women who want more than one at a time for some odd reason.

thanks gypsy, cheers for the heck of it lol

We???? There are alot of child/men out there.....dont kid yourself. I have no time for them......they bore me!!! If you keep picking the women who keep cheating on you, maybe you have to look at yourself and maybe.......subconsiously you dont really want a relationship, and base your choosing on looks alone.