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Topic: Do men what a "relationship?"
Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/23/08 12:11 AM
Its like........lets choose someone who is bad for us so WE dont have to be with them forever....... this is all psychobabble of course.....

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Tue 09/23/08 12:15 AM
the human brain, its mucked up in there

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/23/08 12:17 AM
the human brain, its mucked up in there I love psychology and the brain. Ive studied it extensively and have thought about different angles on things. Im a lateral thinker.....I dont think like everyone else. But anyways.....Ive thought about this because I thought maybe I was afraid of committment....

VladTheInhailer Joined Thu 05/29/08 Posts: 416	Tue 09/23/08 12:17 AM
indeed some guys do, i for one would love to be in a healthy relationship

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/23/08 12:18 AM
indeed some guys do, i for one would love to be in a healthy relationship Tell me your idea of "healthy"?

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Tue 09/23/08 12:18 AM
the human brain, its mucked up in there I love psychology and the brain. Ive studied it extensively and have thought about different angles on things. Im a lateral thinker.....I dont think like everyone else. But anyways.....Ive thought about this because I thought maybe I was afraid of committment.... lol i bet if you had a guy over, you would want to poke and play with his head.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/23/08 12:21 AM
the human brain, its mucked up in there I love psychology and the brain. Ive studied it extensively and have thought about different angles on things. Im a lateral thinker.....I dont think like everyone else. But anyways.....Ive thought about this because I thought maybe I was afraid of committment.... lol i bet if you had a guy over, you would want to poke and play with his head. Yes........Im terrible. I admit it.......but then I analyze everything. It makes me crazy!!! I even analyze my analyzing!!!! Ok someone hold me!!!

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Tue 09/23/08 12:24 AM
the human brain, its mucked up in there I love psychology and the brain. Ive studied it extensively and have thought about different angles on things. Im a lateral thinker.....I dont think like everyone else. But anyways.....Ive thought about this because I thought maybe I was afraid of committment.... lol i bet if you had a guy over, you would want to poke and play with his head. Yes........Im terrible. I admit it.......but then I analyze everything. It makes me crazy!!! I even analyze my analyzing!!!! Ok someone hold me!!! naw sounds interesting, a woman running her fingers trough my hair and rubbing my head, figuring out how i function, sounds enticing hehe

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Tue 09/23/08 12:26 AM Edited by wiley on Tue 09/23/08 12:26 AM
I want a real relationship. I just don't think I want all the usual baggage that comes with it. I've seen what it does to other people. I'll pass, thanks. shrug

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/23/08 12:29 AM
I want a real relationship. I just don't think I want all the usual baggage that comes with it. I've seen what it does to other people. I'll pass, thanks. shrug All relationships have some sort of baggage if you want to call it that. If you mean major problems then I agree. It shouldnt be hard.....it should flow freely and not be full of drama. I'll take 1 relationship with a side of fries!!!! But no ketchup!!!

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Tue 09/23/08 12:31 AM
I want a real relationship. I just don't think I want all the usual baggage that comes with it. I've seen what it does to other people. I'll pass, thanks. shrug All relationships have some sort of baggage if you want to call it that. If you mean major problems then I agree. It shouldnt be hard.....it should flow freely and not be full of drama. I'll take 1 relationship with a side of fries!!!! But no ketchup!!! yup that is true, i would know

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Tue 09/23/08 12:32 AM Edited by wiley on Tue 09/23/08 12:35 AM
I want a real relationship. I just don't think I want all the usual baggage that comes with it. I've seen what it does to other people. I'll pass, thanks. shrug All relationships have some sort of baggage if you want to call it that. If you mean major problems then I agree. It shouldnt be hard.....it should flow freely and not be full of drama. I'll take 1 relationship with a side of fries!!!! But no ketchup!!! I'm referring to the settling for someone you can barely stand just to be with someone. (Or ending up being with someone you can barely stand because they pull a bait and switch on you.) I see a lot of that. Why even get involved with somebody like that? (Or stay with somebody after a bait & switch?) I'd rather be alone than in a "relationship" with somebody that just annoys the piss out of me.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/23/08 12:34 AM
I agree wiley.......... But back to what I was saying......are they committment phobes? playing with heads and hearts or are they people who want to be in a relationship????? I think alot of people go back and forth in their heads.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Tue 09/23/08 12:37 AM
I agree wiley.......... But back to what I was saying......are they committment phobes? playing with heads and hearts or are they people who want to be in a relationship????? I think alot of people go back and forth in their heads. there are such things, but in a way, who can blame them? it can be a scary thing to think about. but yes gypsy, im sure they do go back and forth.

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Tue 09/23/08 12:38 AM
I agree wiley.......... But back to what I was saying......are they committment phobes? playing with heads and hearts or are they people who want to be in a relationship????? I think alot of people go back and forth in their heads. I think most people don't know what they want. Until they've lost it.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/23/08 12:39 AM
I agree wiley.......... But back to what I was saying......are they committment phobes? playing with heads and hearts or are they people who want to be in a relationship????? I think alot of people go back and forth in their heads. I think most people don't know what they want. Until they've lost it. yuP!!!

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Tue 09/23/08 12:39 AM
I agree wiley.......... But back to what I was saying......are they committment phobes? playing with heads and hearts or are they people who want to be in a relationship????? I think alot of people go back and forth in their heads. I think most people don't know what they want. Until they've lost it. yuP!!! agreed

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/23/08 12:47 AM
dood,,,,,,,,,,you know youre following me???

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Tue 09/23/08 12:48 AM
dood,,,,,,,,,,you know youre following me??? moi?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/23/08 12:49 AM
Ya you!!!! R 2!!!!!