Topic: why do nice guys finish last
MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Mon 07/07/08 08:38 AM

I will take the wine and cheese but geeeeeeeeeeeeeeezus!!! Here is the problem!!! Women like me will not give you the time of day if you sound like a whiney girl!!!noway noway noway noway and ya your child is the world to you???? Uhhhhhhhhhh shouldnt that be the norm??? why mention it???? Of course my child is my world too but why do you get a medal for saying it????


Someone hasn't had their coffee this morning lol

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 07/07/08 08:41 AM
Do you need a Hug ?!

You look like you could use a hug,

((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))


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DebbieJT's photo
Mon 07/07/08 08:44 AM


I will take the wine and cheese but geeeeeeeeeeeeeeezus!!! Here is the problem!!! Women like me will not give you the time of day if you sound like a whiney girl!!!noway noway noway noway and ya your child is the world to you???? Uhhhhhhhhhh shouldnt that be the norm??? why mention it???? Of course my child is my world too but why do you get a medal for saying it????


Someone hasn't had their coffee this morning lol
lol agreed caffiene fix neededdrinker

RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 07/07/08 08:48 AM
Some women like men who finish last. If you finish before they do they don't think it is nice. Other women like men who finish first because they can get impatient. Another type of women like men who finish when they do and they think that is nice.:smile:

nurjoyce's photo
Mon 07/07/08 08:51 AM
same reason nice girls do

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 07/07/08 11:46 AM
Oh and my bit of advice...chin up, not many women fancy themselves the 'woe is me' type. Confidence is key.

chuck366's photo
Mon 07/07/08 11:48 AM

why does the nice guy always finish last i just try every time and i treat a woman with love and respect but i get always the head games I have a daughter and she is my world.My favorite things to do are write poetry and listen from anything from rock to hip-hop.I am currently in school trying to better myself in life.I like movies and like to have a good time.Not in to the head games looking for someone who is straight forward and honest.I am looking for someone who is caring and that has a good heart like myself looking for that special someone to write my poetry for and to show her love and respect


We don't.

franshade's photo
Mon 07/07/08 11:50 AM


why does the nice guy always finish last i just try every time and i treat a woman with love and respect but i get always the head games I have a daughter and she is my world.My favorite things to do are write poetry and listen from anything from rock to hip-hop.I am currently in school trying to better myself in life.I like movies and like to have a good time.Not in to the head games looking for someone who is straight forward and honest.I am looking for someone who is caring and that has a good heart like myself looking for that special someone to write my poetry for and to show her love and respect


We don't.


biggrin wtg chuck biggrin short, sweet and straight to the point biggrin

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 07/07/08 11:52 AM


why does the nice guy always finish last i just try every time and i treat a woman with love and respect but i get always the head games I have a daughter and she is my world.My favorite things to do are write poetry and listen from anything from rock to hip-hop.I am currently in school trying to better myself in life.I like movies and like to have a good time.Not in to the head games looking for someone who is straight forward and honest.I am looking for someone who is caring and that has a good heart like myself looking for that special someone to write my poetry for and to show her love and respect


We don't.



There is a real Man for ya!!!bigsmile


broncosrock's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:00 PM
#1, you don't sound whiney, and I think it's a legit question. I've always said it seems like the nice gals end up with real jerks, and the nice guys end up with real witches. Not always, but seems like it happens a lot. Keep being nice, because someday you'll meet somebody who will appreciate it, trust me! I'm old----I know lots of stuff! Keep the faithsmile2 :thumbsup:

franshade's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:05 PM

#1, you don't sound whiney, and I think it's a legit question. I've always said it seems like the nice gals end up with real jerks, and the nice guys end up with real witches. Not always, but seems like it happens a lot. Keep being nice, because someday you'll meet somebody who will appreciate it, trust me! I'm old----I know lots of stuff! Keep the faithsmile2 :thumbsup:


hello and welcome broncos flowerforyou

bear in mind the first time we see a post it's legit, the same for the first couple of hundred times, but for a gazzilion times it's whining... lol :laughing:


Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:08 PM
Stopped to change a tire on the way to the finish line.

Lost the dash. Good thing it's a marathon.

Bad boy is zipped back up and havin a smoke. The good guy is just now slowly, methodically unhooking the clasps.

What's so great about finishing first?

franshade's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:09 PM

Stopped to change a tire on the way to the finish line.

Lost the dash. Good thing it's a marathon.

Bad boy is zipped back up and havin a smoke. The good guy is just now slowly, methodically unhooking the clasps.

What's so great about finishing first?


hiya beach, emailed you a couple of days ago, no response sad


izzie's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:10 PM
allow me to find you link to the answer for that....



as it has been asked and answered OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!
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Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:12 PM

allow me to find you link to the answer for that....



as it has been asked and answered OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!
flowerforyou



find the older/younger ones while you're at it



fran: swear I'm a good guy...didn't see emailohwell flowerforyou

broncosrock's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:14 PM
Thanks for the welcome, franshade! Maybe I'll learn some things as I go along on the forums, but it didn't seem whiny to me. Must be my maternal side, do you suppose?spock smile2

izzie's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:14 PM
http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/135261


theres tht one..
beach i didnt post inthat one..
but ifyou did i can find it..
heehe
i cheat!!!

no photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:16 PM
Edited by Unknow on Mon 07/07/08 12:16 PM


#1, you don't sound whiney, and I think it's a legit question. I've always said it seems like the nice gals end up with real jerks, and the nice guys end up with real witches. Not always, but seems like it happens a lot. Keep being nice, because someday you'll meet somebody who will appreciate it, trust me! I'm old----I know lots of stuff! Keep the faithsmile2 :thumbsup:


hello and welcome broncos flowerforyou

bear in mind the first time we see a post it's legit, the same for the first couple of hundred times, but for a gazzilion times it's whining... lol :laughing:







The problem is not everyone has been around as long as you or I and some might not know this topic (along with countless others) has been done to death.

izzie's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:16 PM

Thanks for the welcome, franshade! Maybe I'll learn some things as I go along on the forums, but it didn't seem whiny to me. Must be my maternal side, do you suppose?spock smile2
sorry bronco. just that we hear this one ALOT!!!

post_coitum's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:17 PM
I used to be one of "those" nice guys. Then I got into punk rock. You learn pretty quickly that being nice isn't the only thing out there. Come on now, a girl wants to be able to feel safe when she's out with you. Imagine for a second that you're out with your girl and some guy comes up and tries to rob you guys. your woman is going to want to be confident that you can protect her if something goes wrong. don't be afraid to act like an asshole sometimes....don't become an asshole, but make sure you assert the fact that you are tough enough to protect.