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Well I can play, but I am making the rules now......

because you ask why you are finishing last...whining that you can't get a girl because you a 'nice guy' and your not what they want. Instead, of being on here whining about it, go out find a girl, and let her find out how nice you can be. Have a little confidence. That's all they want to see...a man that knows who he is...and isn't afraid to be a man. but that's jmho

I personally like a man who can chop wood!!!

i'm good at chopping wood...but i'm better at hiding it

Im sure that Poetwriter really is a nice guy, but that whole "Nice Guy" routine NEVER works with women. And using your children to attract women doesnt work well either. Ive seen so many guys try it. It just makes the woman feel weird. Its best to introduce the woman to your children AFTER you have started a committed relationship. Of course, you should tell them you have kids but dont introduce them until you have started the relationship. Just some words of advice.

The kid thing can work, i've watched my older bro do it over and over and over again, you just need to know HOW to do it

I dont have any children but Ive watched so many guys try it and it rarely works. It always seemed to me that it makes the girl feel weird. But guys with kids can get chicks. My sister has married several guys with kids. I know it can be done.

married several?...umm nevermind.

One of my sisters has been married 7 times LOL She's been a step mom lotsa times

7? DAAAMN Gena!

I don't see anything whiney about what he had to say. I think he asked an honest question about how he feels and wanted pointers. Take heart not everyone feels the way some of these people do. If you are having trouble finding game players. Then you might want to take a look at the type of people you are asking out. And I do applaud that you aren't afraid to state that your daughter is your world. More parents should feel that way. Sounds to me like you have your priorities in order. Don't let the nay sayers get on your last nerve. They aren't in any better shape than the rest of us or they wouldn't be here either. And don't give up hope of finding what you are looking for. Best of luck

Your right Feisty Your a good person with some excellent advice

I grew up chopping wood

because most nice guys, are, at heart, doormats no matter how hard they try not to be. they usually end up getting used and tossed away without a second's thought. i should know, i'm a nice guy

Shshshsh I thought when they finish last they were the keepers so are they complaining about being the last one they chose lmao I tell ya never can satisfy them no matter what you do shshsh

BECAUSE THERE ARE TOO MANY-
NOT SO NICE GUYS OUT THERE THAT CAUSE ALOT OF MISSTRUST FOR WOMEN WHO ARE SEARCHING FOR THAT NICE GUY.

Well heck honestly I don't want a whimp I'm looking for a man with a heart and knows how to show it and has a brain of his own and knows how to use it.

I don't want a whimp I can run over or whines all the time.

Instead I want a Man that has a say in this world and knows what he wants but treats a woman with the same kindness she shows him.

Life is a two way street it is not all for just one nor does someone want another they must guide around.

Okay that is my rant!!

So here is to the Men of this world

it will work out, you'll see