Topic: Belief or Betrayal
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Sun 06/15/08 12:01 AM


all of your arguments are GOD based. so then what are you trying to prove,That he doesn't not exist?


I'm explaining that I don't believe God's existance can be proven or disproven. I'm encouraging you to think, see beyond your current misery and see that your suffering doesn't mean God is cruel or that God doesn't exist. Your suffering is a fact of life, not evidence to the nature or existance of God.



drinker smokin flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou smokin drinker

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Sun 06/15/08 12:02 AM

My My! I am amazed... I just came from a conference...

The teaching was AWESOME....

I want to say to all who don't believe in God that you don't know what you're missing. God's glory cloud rolled in & caught me up in it. I received healing in my back...my throat, my intestines...I FELT SOMETHING HAPPEN TO MY BODY! ...but the best thing was the presence of God. I called it God's glory cloud...it went from the front of the room to the back... AWESOME!!!! I RECEIVED from God...his healing...His word.. so much more.

You might think you will never get God & are settling for something less but don't give up. He doesn't forget His kids. He loves you all soooooo much!!!!! God is so much more than just some cute stories with a moral to them. So much more... I'm telling you that you are settling for so much less than you deserve.

I don't want to argue with yu'all. My wish is that you come to the same saving grace I experienced. So cool!!!!! :smile:


Why is it that christians have to make you feel less for not believeing the same as them?

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Sun 06/15/08 12:05 AM


Your original post assumes an unacceptable premise - that being


... a believer praise a God that would have to torture others for an eternity and the believer not speak against this for that eternity...


God doing the torturing? Where does that information come from?

The fact of the matter (biblically, since that is where your inference has been established) is there is Heaven - where God is located, and (for lack of a better word) Hell - where he is not. Both locations are described in enough detail to render a response of "I never knew it would be like this" just idiotic.

Now - the choice remains with the individual. If I have love ones who chose not to spend eternity with God in heaven and therefore have chosen to suffer the consequences thereof - you want me to now abandon God because He allowed them their choice?

Though I grieve for those who have been near and dear to me for the choices they made to reject God, I'm a reasonable enough individual to know the folly of blaming God for their eternity.

That's man blaming on his boots the faults of his feet.


What he said.




Amen flowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 12:12 AM
same song ~ different day...indifferent


I'll pass on reading the rest ...drinker


It is soooooooooo tiring...yawn yawn yawn

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Sun 06/15/08 12:44 AM

Why is it that christians have to make you feel less for not believeing the same as them?


They are so blind they know not what they do. ohwell

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Sun 06/15/08 01:08 AM
This "designer Christianity" that you speak of is - to me - the ONLY Christianity.

{snip}

I do not follow the rituals of the Old Testament, as they were purposed for a specific people at a specific time in history. That does not - however - mean that I no longer think the 10 commandments have validity.


I fully understand what you are saying Eljay. I actually went down that road myself for quite a long period of time. But in reality it's truly not doable. It's just reduces to a 'pick-and-choose' religion then.

It also suggests that God changes. To suggest that the Old Testament only applied to specific people at a specific time in history has two implications,..

First off, if God wanted ancient men to stone their unruly children to death why would he change his desire of that commandment now? Maybe we could imagine that instead of stoning them so brutally, perhaps today we should be giving them lethal injections. But there's really not reason to believe that a supposedly unchanging God would change his mind about what he wants from us in general.

Secondly, if the Old Testament is no longer applicable to modern society then it's time for God to write a new book. But we don't see that happening. The bible basically ends with Jesus and there is supposedly nothing knew to add until Jesus himself returns.

So the "Designer Christianity" isn't going to work. You can't separate Jesus from the Old Testament.

I've tried, and it's not doable, you'll never get mainstream Christianity to go along with that because the idea basically reeks of a dramatic change in the genuinely foundations of the religion.

Remove the Old Testament for example, and Christians could no longer use it as an excuse to be bigoted toward gays.

In fact, even fornication would no longer stand. Fornication itself is not included in the 10 commandments. Only adultery is.

In other words, if you could succeed in getting mainstream society to accept your "Designer Christianity" then Christianity would not longer be what it is today.

And again, this ideal might work good for you personally, but for me, the very idea that all men are sinners and need to seek repentance from the sacrificial lamb of God, is also a non-workable idea once you move into the concept of "Designer Christianity". The whole thing falls apart.

I didn't take this lightly Eljay. I began to realize that Christianity had problems in my late teens right after having been saved.

But I didn't completely abandon the religion until I was in my 30's. I continued to cling to the Old Rugged Cross, dragging it with me with both guilt and shame. Tying my best to 'save' Jesus via methods of "Designer Christianity".

I finally realized that I wasn't dragging around an Old Rugged Cross at all. I had actually been dragging around a dead horse of mythology.

When I finally dumped it, it was indeed a lightening of my of load. I no longer needed to defend the dead horse of mythology.

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Sun 06/15/08 01:34 AM
I just can't abandon this as a solution for salvation without something viable and superior to supplant it? And since you've never offered a solution to the "sin problem", only rejected Christianity as one - what good is your testamony? You're just another preacher on a soap box denouncing what other believe without offering a solution of your own.


A solution for salvation?

The "Sin Problem"?

You say that I'm not offering a solution for the "Sin Problem"?

I'm saying the whole bible is the made up mythology of man.

There is no such thing as 'sin'. Sin is disobedience to an authoritarian God.

If I don't believe that the bible is the word of God, then the very idea of 'sin' is a meaningless concept to me.

A lot of people think this way, and they can't understand how I can suggest that there is no such thing as 'sin'.

They immediately say, "If there is no such thing as sin then would it be ok to run around murdering people?"

What kind of a question is that????

Are they suggesting that they would like to run around murdering people and the only thing that is stopping them is because they think it's against God's wishes?

How pathetic is that?

What about atheists? There are many very good-natured atheists who wouldn't dream of brining harm to anyone.

Imagine now for just a moment that there is a God who doesn't want people to murder others.

WHO do you think God is going to have more LOVE for?

A Christian who would love to kill his neighbor but resists the urge only because he thinks God will get peeved and punish him?

Or the atheists who resists the urge to kill his neighbor simply because of his own personal morality?

Who do you think that God would be more appreciative of?

People who automatically have the same moral values as him?

Or people who only resist their true desires because they are afraid of God?

The "Sin Concept" is absurd and totally unnecessary.

People who need to be frightened into having good morals are in serious need of help Eljay.

I seriously hope that you wouldn't run out and become a murderer tomorrow if you suddenly discovered that there is no God.

If they only thing that keeps you 'in-line' is the fear of punishment or the lust for a reward by a supreme being, then you're truly in sad shape.

Albert Einstein held this very view, and I concur.

"Man would indeed be in a poor way if he had to be restrained by fear of punishment and hope of reward after death." - Albert Einstein

The whole idea of religion being some kind of solution to a "Sin Problem" is absurd. There is no such thing as a "Sin Problem". All that exists are humans and their own moral values.

Trying to bring a supreme authoritarian into the picture to try to solve a so-called 'Sin Problem' is a futile idea.

Sure, if the religion scares some people into being good, that's great!

Unfortunately it doesn't work very well for that anyway. Because the kinds of people who prefer to rape, murder, and steal etc. typically don't really give a damn what God thinks anyway.

There is no "Salvation problem" or "Sin Problem" to be resolved.

If you can't be a good person as an atheist, then fundamentally your not a good person as a Christian. You're just pretending to be good to win the favor of a God. And the only possible reason that you would do that, is fear of punishment, or lust for a reward.

If can't be good on your own merit isn't that ultimately pathetic? ohwell

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Sun 06/15/08 04:33 AM


Eljay,

Actually, if you really want to know what Christians believe, it is NOT that the bible is the word of God. Jesus is the word.


No, they believe and they have said over and over and over that the Bible is the inspired word of God.

Also, the Bible is not simply an "account of" the life of Jesus. That so-called account is only in the new testament.

In fact the man's real name was Yeshu'a (Joeseph) ben Panthera. He was a Jewish Rabi who was tagged with the savior myth and the Roman Catholic Church claimed that he was the "Messiah."

The life of this man (Joseph ben Panthera) was not accurately told in the new testament. What was told was a rewritten copy of an age old myth of a savior god who dies for the sins all of mankind. (There were about 17 mythical savior gods maybe more..)

These were age old pagan myths. They were used in building Christianity in order to gain pagan converts and followers.

JB




I tend to believe that the idea of a savior is not exclusive to the New Testament. All throughout the Old Testament there is the foretelling of the savior. The analogies and metaphores are everywhere.

And Jeannie, you need to give Monty Python a break for a while.
Just because Brian may have existed, it does not mean Jesus didn't.


I don't think I ever mentioned "Monty Python." I am not familiar with your reference to Monty Python at all. I don't get my facts from Monty Python. (and I don't know who "Brian" is.)

The "idea" of a savior is not "exclusive" to the new testament. The myths of a savior god who died for the sins of mankind have been circulated long before the Bible was even written. I am not talking about anything that is "foretold" in the old testament. These are connected to old pagan religions.

JB

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Sun 06/15/08 04:50 AM
Actually, that would not be true for me, as I'm not Jewish. And since I'm not, I cannot speak for those who have only the Old Testament to support their religion. I understand that you cannot rectify Jesus as the salvation for the sins of man, but I'm not following you on what is? I just can't abandon this as a solution for salvation without something viable and superior to supplant it? And since you've never offered a solution to the "sin problem", only rejected Christianity as one - what good is your testamony? You're just another preacher on a soap box denouncing what other believe without offering a solution of your own.


A solution to the "sin" problem Eljay? LOL

Here is the solution to that:

Abandon Christianity.

The term "sin" is meaningless outside of religious doctrine. The basic meaning of "sin" is the disobedience of your Lord and Master Jehovah, owner of human slaves. Yes owner.

His law is "The wages of sin is death." That is your god's law.

To disobey your master is punishable by death. Period. This is the law of your god.

~Unless you are forgiven and pardoned.~

He has the right to kill you if you disobey. What good are disobedient and unruly servants or slaves to a god who needs and wants worship and blind obedience?

You find "merit" in the ten commandments? That's nice. So that means you should be a Christian? Have you really thought this through? Do you truly need religion to tell you right from wrong? If so, by all means, stay where you are, get forgiveness for your disobedience and pardoned from death from your master.

JB


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Sun 06/15/08 05:00 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sun 06/15/08 05:25 AM
Abra wrote:

First off, if God wanted ancient men to stone their unruly children to death why would he change his desire of that commandment now?



The idea that you should stone your unruly children to death came from the Biblical god because that is the basic law ~(for us)~from the Biblical god.

"The wages of sin is death." To disobey means that you die. That is your punishment. If it is good enough for the Biblical god, then it should be good enough for us.

Do we have more compassion than the Biblical god? We must, since we are not stoning our disobedient children.

However, if you look at history, you will find that in America there was a law passed against the cruelty to animals before any laws were passed against cruelty to children. What do you suppose took us so long?

JB



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Sun 06/15/08 05:19 AM

#1, I hope not cause they are planning on sending men up in it. At least as far as mars!


"Fanta" NASA has been known for causing mostly blunders which is why it's under-funded it can barely launch a space shuttle without a "heating tile" falling off so the government and the public is not going to allow NASA to place a nuclear reactor on a spaceship so that it could possible explode in the atmosphere ...are you insane??????


#2, Thats where you are allowing your mind to be limited! (your fallacy, not mine)


"Fanta" everything exist in the mind and on the sci-fi channel but that doesn't mean it exist in reality


#3, The reality is that infinity exist beyond known reality!:wink:


"Fanta" let's clear up this infinity issue ..tell of something that exist in "reality" that is infinite...and then explain how you know it is infinite

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Sun 06/15/08 06:36 AM


Why is it that christians have to make you feel less for not believeing the same as them?


They are so blind they know not what they do. ohwell

Nope. It is a problem of the mentally weak that they do not control their own feelings so they blame others for their weakness. Grow a pair. You CAN have control of your feelings. You don't need mommy to wash your underwear anymore. Time to be a man.:wink: Yew con do eet.laugh

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Sun 06/15/08 07:03 AM

Hmmm... I could have sworn you said GOD was the torcherer. Who's going off question here? And please don't backtrack and tell me that you meant Jesus was God in your original statement.
That would just make you look the fool. Just leave it be and admit you got it wrong.


sorry Eljay but non-believers burning in the fires of Hell is all part of "God's Divine Plan" ...it was God's will to designed a way to torture those that didn't obey him and he created the "Fires of Hell" to get the job done ...therefore God is the torturer

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Sun 06/15/08 07:28 AM

so the bottom line is that numbers and colors are not infinite



If that is so - what is the finite of PI? Or one-third of 100?


"Eljay"...why is it so hard for you guys to conceive that numbers are not reality but only use as a tool to count reality ....in other words "Eljay" explain what in reality is the finite of PI or what in reality exist as one-third of 100

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Sun 06/15/08 07:56 AM




Eljay wrote:

This thread has nothing to do with people who don't believe the bible. Read Funches post again. For that matter - read mine again, I qualified my response so I wouldn't have to deal with your strawman arguments.


That's silly.

The whole idea behind Christianity is that the Bible is the correct description of God. It doesn't even make and sense to talk about things such as heaven or hell outside of the biblical context.

Eljay wrote:

God is in Heaven. For those who do not wish to enter there - God does not admit them. Period. He doesn't "send them anywhere". You have made this assumption. Had you read the book, you'd know otherwise.


Again, you say, "Had you read the book!".

It's all about what the bible says. You believe in a book. Not in a God. You claim that the book is the word of God. You worship a book!

And they you try to claim that it's not about the Bible. You want to have your cake and eat it too.

Spider wrote:

Musha rain dum-a-doo dum-a-da


Well that makes a lot more sense that what you posted before you edited your post. laugh

You and Eljay are both trying to pull the same stunt.

I tell you guys what the bible says, and then you guys try to say, "But God isn't like that!"

But the Bible is what you people claim to believe in.

You can't say that God doesn't threaten people who don't believe in him because the Bible most certainly does this. Whatever the Bible says is what the biblical God says, because the whole idea behind it. It's supposed to be the word of God.

You can't say, "But God isn't like that!". If say that all you are saying is that you don't believe that the Bible correctly portrays what God is like (i.e. you renounce the very idea that the Bible is the word of God).

Oxymoron. As always!

For Christians the Bible has to be the word of God. Therefore whatever the Bible says that God is like then that's what God must be like. The Bible clearly threatens non-believers that bad things will happen to them.

The Christian God clearly threatens non-believers with violence, and clearly uses tactics of intimidation and fear to try to get people to love him. This must be the case because Christians are claiming that the Bible is the WORD of God.

Therefore the Christian God threatens to reject people, and intimidates with fear tactics because this is what the Bible does, and Christians claim that the Bible is the words of God.

There's no way out. Christians have no choice but to confess that their God (the Bible) uses methods of intimidation, fear, and threatens to reject people if they don't believe him. Because the Bible tells us so!

You guys are hopeless. You'll defend that the book is the word of God until you're blue in the face, whilst simultaneously trying to claim that God isn't like what the Bible says. laugh

It's utterly ridiculous. The biblical doctrine trips over its own proclamations and falls flat on its face in the mud. And you guys stand there trying to defend it.

For what reason? You've either fallen for the intimidation and you are afraid to renounce it. Or you're lusting for the gift of eternal life it offers and you don't want to miss out on the chance in case it might somehow be miraculously true.

Good luck. flowerforyou



Abra;

Get out your logic book and look up "shifting middle".

You may equate God to the bible, I do not. I do not "worship" the bible - it is a book of words. It has limits. It does not contain all that there is to know about God. It's merely a "road map". A tool for guidance. It's not a recipe book.


AJ,

do you really believe that if you had never read the bible you would think and believe as you now do? and once you did reach the point your at - if it is just a road map then why continue reading it? do you look at road maps of the usa or world every day? if you know where your going - what good does it do you or other's who say it's not really necessary or even some saying they would be just as christian about it? I've heard from MS, and feral and others cherub included that the book is not what saves them but jesus or belief in him - yet would anyone know of jesus and or how to accept him without the word's? the question has to be answered once and for all- is the"BOOK" necessary to become or "be" a christian? is the book necessary for being a christian at all? yes - or - no? can you become a christian and follow jesus as he intended or as the writers intended and live accordingly without the words in your book or without you or others repeating the words in your book or any other books spouting the same things? can i or anyone be saved by one saying no more than ""if you believe on his name ye shall be saved"" without knowing what it is that i'm to believe? and if your answer is "yes" - why then would god have bothered to have it written to begin with? saying its a road map is not acceptable as an answer - if the book is absolutely not important, has no real value to becoming christian whatsoever, as to accepting god,son,and spirit, then get rid of it, stop the contraversy and confusion of the useless book.


Tribo;

Actually - I had not read the bible before I believed as I did. But admittedly, having heard about Jesus and who he was as a youngster (grew up Catholic), I would assume that somewhere along the way the bible was read by someone. But my faith in God came not through reading the bible, but through the events of my life. They were the great teachers in my life.
To put it simplistically - when I "broke a commandmant", which I spent most of my adolescence doing - there were consequences.
Some minor, some life altering. Then - having completely abandoning Christianity, I searched for enlightenent through everything from the occult, to buddism, to New Age, a Cult or 3, and eventually came back around to Christianity. Having done that, I then read the bible. I continue to read the bible for the same reason that I continue to read the "Backstage Manuel". I learn every time I read it. One I read because I need it in my job, the other because it helps me in life.

As to the question "can I be saved without the bible" - I would say "Yes - why not?" It isn't the bible that saves you - or being a Christian that saves you. It is only Jesus who saves.
And why is that? Because we mess up. We do what we do, and once done, we own it. There's no magic erasure to undo it, and there's no "redo's". For me - it is not difficult to see that there is just too much within the bible that rings true to me, and makes sense. I'm not going to say I haven't grappled with some of it over the past 50 years, give or take a few. But I've yet to read proverbs and find a whole lot of it "just plain wrong". On the contrary - I CAN'T find an issue in proverbs. I don't see a need to rewrite the 10 commandments. I've broken enough of them and suffered the consequences thereof to know that it's futile to think otherwise.

I think - in the long run - the question of necessity for a believer in Jesus is moot. There is a desire to read it. It, as I'm sure you are well aware, is not a book that can be totally absorbed, or understood - in a single reading. But the essence of it is understood when one does. For some, reading it once is enough. For others - there's never enough times for it to be read. So, is it "necessary"? Tough to say.


we have a lot in common AJ. i to was raised catholic til the 8th grade. so i know where your coming from. I understand that from the first grade you are "taught" about god and what "roman carholocism" teaches about the bible through the use of the catechism book in school. and also religious classes every day. you say you found out about jesus? of course you did - but not on your own - no one i've wever talked to has "found out about jesus" - on their own. It "requires" someone telling you about him for you to know of him. From the time i left catholocism my life sonds much like yours - i never read the bible either as a catholic, there are few catholics i knew or know that do on a daily weekly or even yearly basis, most have one, but its just an ornament to take with you, especially true of the older ones who like me did not speak the language of latin, so it was no more than pompous ceremony.i studied all religions over a long time also and found "no" religion worth my time, effort, support, or belief in. When i finally returned to "christianity" i was 26, and it was through a friend of mine - a jewish carpenter by trade - no it was not jesus hahaha. his name was willy bogen, a jewish kid who had come upon a book called late great planet earth - that was my entrance into it because i saw what i believed an incredible change in willy that shocked me - so i looked into it - i started out looking into the prophetic ends of things and went on from there but it was a few years before i actually picked up the bible as a whole book to read and upon doing so i saw way to much contradiction in ti and that was when my questioning began of it's "infallability". I'm skeptical by nature and a doubting thomas by nature as a result.but besides that i believe in core logic and using the power of reason and common sense that i have, and sense told me that this was the work of men not an all knowing all powerful god or if it was - he was acting to much like a man and not enough like the god he wants to portray himself to be - , you may not think you need the book AJ, but you do, you may think that you found out of jesus on your own without the book, but you did not, you as i have been duped by the going's on of organized religion - and i say all religion not just christianity. i hope you find your way through it, but if not good luck. by the way willy and the rest of us are no longer christians, or believers.

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Sun 06/15/08 08:26 AM

This "designer Christianity" that you speak of is - to me - the ONLY Christianity.

{snip}

I do not follow the rituals of the Old Testament, as they were purposed for a specific people at a specific time in history. That does not - however - mean that I no longer think the 10 commandments have validity.


I fully understand what you are saying Eljay. I actually went down that road myself for quite a long period of time. But in reality it's truly not doable. It's just reduces to a 'pick-and-choose' religion then.

It also suggests that God changes. To suggest that the Old Testament only applied to specific people at a specific time in history has two implications,..

First off, if God wanted ancient men to stone their unruly children to death why would he change his desire of that commandment now? Maybe we could imagine that instead of stoning them so brutally, perhaps today we should be giving them lethal injections. But there's really not reason to believe that a supposedly unchanging God would change his mind about what he wants from us in general.

Secondly, if the Old Testament is no longer applicable to modern society then it's time for God to write a new book. But we don't see that happening. The bible basically ends with Jesus and there is supposedly nothing knew to add until Jesus himself returns.

So the "Designer Christianity" isn't going to work. You can't separate Jesus from the Old Testament.

I've tried, and it's not doable, you'll never get mainstream Christianity to go along with that because the idea basically reeks of a dramatic change in the genuinely foundations of the religion.

Remove the Old Testament for example, and Christians could no longer use it as an excuse to be bigoted toward gays.

In fact, even fornication would no longer stand. Fornication itself is not included in the 10 commandments. Only adultery is.

In other words, if you could succeed in getting mainstream society to accept your "Designer Christianity" then Christianity would not longer be what it is today.

And again, this ideal might work good for you personally, but for me, the very idea that all men are sinners and need to seek repentance from the sacrificial lamb of God, is also a non-workable idea once you move into the concept of "Designer Christianity". The whole thing falls apart.

I didn't take this lightly Eljay. I began to realize that Christianity had problems in my late teens right after having been saved.

But I didn't completely abandon the religion until I was in my 30's. I continued to cling to the Old Rugged Cross, dragging it with me with both guilt and shame. Tying my best to 'save' Jesus via methods of "Designer Christianity".

I finally realized that I wasn't dragging around an Old Rugged Cross at all. I had actually been dragging around a dead horse of mythology.

When I finally dumped it, it was indeed a lightening of my of load. I no longer needed to defend the dead horse of mythology.




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Sun 06/15/08 08:28 AM
Designer Christianitydrinker drinker

That's rich.....laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 06/15/08 08:38 AM


#1, I hope not cause they are planning on sending men up in it. At least as far as mars!


"Fanta" NASA has been known for causing mostly blunders which is why it's under-funded it can barely launch a space shuttle without a "heating tile" falling off so the government and the public is not going to allow NASA to place a nuclear reactor on a spaceship so that it could possible explode in the atmosphere ...are you insane??????


#2, Thats where you are allowing your mind to be limited! (your fallacy, not mine)


"Fanta" everything exist in the mind and on the sci-fi channel but that doesn't mean it exist in reality


#3, The reality is that infinity exist beyond known reality!:wink:


"Fanta" let's clear up this infinity issue ..tell of something that exist in "reality" that is infinite...and then explain how you know it is infinite


I've already given you one example!
The spaceship is a reality!

"explain how you know it is infinite"

hmmmmm,,,,,

If I told you Id have to kill ya!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 06/15/08 09:17 AM

I've already given you one example!
The spaceship is a reality!


"Fanta" that spaceship is theorically useless because with today's technology it would be a suicide mission for the astro-nuts on board and with a nueclear reactor part of the load it would be too dangerous to even launch ..if NASA tried to launch that spacecreaft The United States along with The United Nations would have to invade Houston or nuke it



"explain how you know it is infinite"

hmmmmm,,,,,

If I told you Id have to kill ya!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



well it appears that question popped you back into reality

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Sun 06/15/08 09:57 AM



Why is it that christians have to make you feel less for not believeing the same as them?


They are so blind they know not what they do. ohwell

Nope. It is a problem of the mentally weak that they do not control their own feelings so they blame others for their weakness. Grow a pair. You CAN have control of your feelings. You don't need mommy to wash your underwear anymore. Time to be a man.:wink: Yew con do eet.laugh


:heart: a little tough love here...:heart:


drinker but, oh ohwell ....Someone's gotta do it ...drinker