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Topic: Emotional Blackmail
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Thu 01/22/09 11:53 PM
Does emotional blackmail always happen in a relationship?If you are both together-the guy will say "If you really love me prove it and make love with me tonight" and from a guy online-he will say "If you really love me show me your naked body and make love with me on webcam"!!!Is that a proof to let the guy know how much you really love him?:angry: :angry: :angry:

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Thu 01/22/09 11:54 PM
It happens all the time, and both parties do it. But the "ladies" are much craftier in their execution of said emotional blackmail- perhaps it's because they can get away with it much more successfully than men can.

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Thu 01/22/09 11:55 PM

Does emotional blackmail always happen in a relationship?If you are both together-the guy will say "If you really love me prove it and make love with me tonight" and from a guy online-he will say "If you really love me show me your naked body and make love with me on webcam"!!!Is that a proof to let the guy know how much you really love him?:angry: :angry: :angry:

Oh by the way I am just curious about this thing as what I have heard a lot of times from other friends online.Glad I havent encounter this thing yet....

Drifters13's photo
Thu 01/22/09 11:56 PM
Thats when they start using emotions as tools or weapons.

I've recieved my fair share of thatand I refuse to put up with it anymore. Its the fastest way to turn me totally away from someone.

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Thu 01/22/09 11:57 PM
what the FU*K......... thats the oldest trick in the book.... i more the type to umm...... let me show YOUbigsmile

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Thu 01/22/09 11:58 PM
your pretty .......you can do way better then some ass like that

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Thu 01/22/09 11:58 PM


Does emotional blackmail always happen in a relationship?If you are both together-the guy will say "If you really love me prove it and make love with me tonight" and from a guy online-he will say "If you really love me show me your naked body and make love with me on webcam"!!!Is that a proof to let the guy know how much you really love him?:angry: :angry: :angry:

Oh by the way I am just curious about this thing as what I have heard a lot of times from other friends online.Glad I havent encounter this thing yet....


i had a client one yr that i was talking to on messenger and she had this one reader(i dont think he was really one) as he told her he had to see her on webcam naked in order to do a reading for her... thats not even true. that guy was a nut case

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Thu 01/22/09 11:59 PM
I don't like to speak in generalities, but... everyone knows guys think with their d*cks.

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Fri 01/23/09 12:00 AM

I don't like to speak in generalities, but... everyone knows guys think with their d*cks.



but some of us know how to play it off lol

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Fri 01/23/09 12:01 AM

I don't like to speak in generalities, but... everyone knows guys think with their d*cks.


thats pretty much true.. its very seldom you run across a gentalman. which i have my guy is a perfect gentalman. for it took him 3 dates to kiss me :)

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Fri 01/23/09 12:01 AM
And some of us simply don't think with our interesting bits, as we've got better things to do.

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Fri 01/23/09 12:05 AM
I dont think Ive heard that line since high school!!!!


Who you dealing with there sista???huh

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Fri 01/23/09 12:06 AM

Does emotional blackmail always happen in a relationship?If you are both together-the guy will say "If you really love me prove it and make love with me tonight" and from a guy online-he will say "If you really love me show me your naked body and make love with me on webcam"!!!Is that a proof to let the guy know how much you really love him?:angry: :angry: :angry:


Ok in High school that might have worked.. Perhaps even in college.. but after mid 20's if that works then the receiver is simple minded.. Anyone that falls in love or thinks they've fallen in love ONLINE without EVER meeting the person really needs to self-assess...

tessa68's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:07 AM

I don't like to speak in generalities, but... everyone knows guys think with their d*cks.


I agree with you most guys are SOB(sex oriented bastards)mad mad mad

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Fri 01/23/09 12:09 AM
Wow, I've experienced those type of guys. Know what I did? I told them, "If you loved me you wouldn't have asked me such a thing, you wretched waste of flesh." *end relationship* ^_^ I'm an angel =D

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Fri 01/23/09 12:20 AM


Does emotional blackmail always happen in a relationship?If you are both together-the guy will say "If you really love me prove it and make love with me tonight" and from a guy online-he will say "If you really love me show me your naked body and make love with me on webcam"!!!Is that a proof to let the guy know how much you really love him?:angry: :angry: :angry:


Ok in High school that might have worked.. Perhaps even in college.. but after mid 20's if that works then the receiver is simple minded.. Anyone that falls in love or thinks they've fallen in love ONLINE without EVER meeting the person really needs to self-assess...
What???? do you mean I cant strip cam to strangers because they say they love me???????


Im going to go throw myself down on my pillow and cry!!!sad laugh sad

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Fri 01/23/09 12:21 AM
The ladies are just as guilty of emotional blackmail as the fellas are. They just use it to get a different result, whether it be "love", "money", or something else.


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Fri 01/23/09 12:23 AM
Never understood how people view a sticky keyboard as a mark of love.

Maybe i'm just new the whole "internet meeting people thing". Say if they push.. don't bother pushing back just walk.

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Fri 01/23/09 12:24 AM

The ladies are just as guilty of emotional blackmail as the fellas are. They just use it to get a different result, whether it be "love", "money", or something else.


YAAAAAAAAA we just want to suck your brain cells out and spit them out on the sidewalk......and then we go for the heart!!!pitchfork But lets not forget we rip it out along with your balls!!!!pitchfork explode

phoenixgoddess27's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:24 AM

The ladies are just as guilty of emotional blackmail as the fellas are. They just use it to get a different result, whether it be "love", "money", or something else.




Yep, you're right, I've seen it happen before to a guy friend of mine, he married her. To make matters worse, he was overseas when she emotionally blackmailed him :/

By time he returned, his bank account was cleaned out, he found out she was cheating on him the whole time, she was gone, and left divorce papers for him to sign.

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