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Sat 01/03/09 03:28 PM

I went out on one real date from one of my first mutual matches. I took her out to dinner for her birthday. We havent really talked much since. I think we both realized we werent right for each other. Ehhh....whaddya gonna do??


3 word. Not enough foreplay online.


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Sat 01/03/09 03:25 PM

Just curious.


bigsmile

marketing technique. Trying to make it stand out so I can get some attention and some results. NO OFFENSE! LOL

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Sat 01/03/09 03:09 PM
What would you absolutely not compromise for a new relationship? Proximity to your family? Bad body odor? Religion? Humor? Fitness?....


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Sat 01/03/09 03:06 PM



No.grumble


Awe! Poor thang


Its a distance thing....


why not arrange to meet half way?

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Sat 01/03/09 02:42 PM
Has anyone really met someone and had some face time through this site? Or is this all just a virtual foreplay, but nothing more?



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Sat 01/03/09 02:40 PM

Settling is when you know you can't reach a climax, and compromising is when you both agree to fake one!


laugh


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Sat 01/03/09 02:25 PM
What is the difference between settling and compromising?

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Fri 01/02/09 08:33 PM
3 days smurfing, but that was it. We almosted passed out. Whew, just the thought of it...

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Fri 01/02/09 04:28 PM
we were all born naked, no? Human body is human body.

It is the fear of how our society will judge us for our natural body. This concept is purely artificial, but in business or political sense, aristocrats will lose their power. I mean would Putin be an effective dictator (almost) if he was naked and making a speech? Would Hitler been a dictator for that matter? Does your professor/boss look mean and serious, if you visualized them naked?

So, if you want to be a boss one day or a president one day. Don't do it.

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Fri 01/02/09 03:58 PM

In my opinion, it does not matter until the question of combined finances enters the picture. That is the point in time when your financial burdens can potentially affect your loved one. It’s a question of personal responsibility and integrity.


also carefully measure his/her spending habits. Does he/she spend on needless stuff? don't just worry about the past debts, but future debts as well :-)



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Fri 01/02/09 03:43 PM
Ahh, the typical pigs and dogs issue.

I'm not making an excuse for that pig, but you must see the root of it all.

Hollywood and marketing agencies defined physical beauty and attractiveness. Initally, men are neurologically wired to seek partner who they perceive as visually attractive (which is now completely distorted by Hollywood). But, you must realize that beauty is only skin deep, and in time, it is your character that a person will fall in love with. Sometimes, men judge character based on the level of women's physical attractiveness.

Some men subconsciously thinks, "if she takes care of herself and her physical condition, she must love herself. If she loves herself first and foremost, then she has much love and care to give. She must also be independent and must know what she want in life. She must be purpose driven." Yeah, all these thought run through mind subconsciously of course.

So, being a pig or a dog that I may be, please do take care of your health, and don't let it go. Don't let the big corporation feed you the slop with tons of preservatives. Also, be positive and build your character, go out there and volunteer for your community. Do the fun stuff you want to do with your friends. Always move forward and don't dwell on the past (just learn from it). A lot of cliches here, but I think it all makes sense, I hope :-)

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Fri 01/02/09 03:17 PM
Does she have a bird-flu or ebola? If not, then she is lying.

Remember in humans FEELINGS come first.

Perhaps she feels terrible about telling you the truth knowing how much the truth will hurt. Perhaps she thinks you will feel terrible. By keeping thing in silence or giving out little lies will cast doubts, so you wont feel the full pain, but nevertheless, you will be stressed by your mental "what if's." She doesn't realize that not knowing is the worst feeling of all.

Come clean, make her to talk. Ask straight question. State your feelings and your concerns. Tell her that the cliff hanger mystery is tearing you inside and that you need some answers to bring things to proper closure and make peace with yourself. You may feel pain, loss, sorrow, but in the end, you will learn to move on and go forward, slowly, one step at a time :-)

Now go do the thing that you must do my young grassappa. LOL.

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Fri 01/02/09 08:13 AM
From a result of my previous forum topic "LIE," I found that people tend to care more about feelings than being honest. So in your case, in my opinion, she feel terrible about telling you the truth so she lies (unless she got into a motocycle accident and lost her phone, which happened to a friend of mine).

I would definitely move on and find peace in doing things I like to do. Just go with the flow, and don't let your mental drama take over your life.

By the way, unless your CAP lock button is broken, please do not cap all text. It's equivalent to shouting in here.

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Wed 12/31/08 03:57 PM



I'm guilty of white lies with some of my friends. Especially the ones that can't cook. Bless them, at least they try. laugh
"So how did you like the new recipe I tried out?"

"Delicious."

:tongue:


These are dangerous kind. Just watch the American Idol. How many white lies have been fed to these worst performers?

Perhaps they are lying to themselves daily.


Perhaps. :smile:
I just don't see the point in being brutal to someone who went out of their way to cook for me.

I do the same thing to friends or family who ask me how they look when we're out at a restaurant, or ballgame, etc. What's the point in making them feel bad about how they look when it's too late to do anything about it? I could see saying something if they ask me when we're at home & it would take 2 seconds to fix.
Just my opinion. :smile: flowerforyou


I can see that feelings are more important than truth. So, then we all dance around these lies, little, big, black, white, etc, etc, to make sure people feel good. That is until the truth gets discovered.

LOL. Now you can see what happened to our financial market? Little lies here and there in their statements and risk assessments showing great return, great progress. Accumulation of lies can be like a house of cards.

Thank you all for your response.



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Wed 12/31/08 11:26 AM

I don't lie, but I have been known to avoid the subject.


LOL. U lie.

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Wed 12/31/08 11:14 AM

Alot of people lie in my opinion to feel accepted among others.


Is this self perception that if tell the truth, they will not accept who you are?

Are you involved in criminal activities of some kind?

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Wed 12/31/08 10:58 AM

drinks It makes people feel betterdrinks


Does it make you feel better? Does it make others feel better?

So feelings trump lies then?

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Wed 12/31/08 10:57 AM

I'm guilty of white lies with some of my friends. Especially the ones that can't cook. Bless them, at least they try. laugh
"So how did you like the new recipe I tried out?"

"Delicious."

:tongue:


These are dangerous kind. Just watch the American Idol. How many white lies have been fed to these worst performers?

Perhaps they are lying to themselves daily.

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Wed 12/31/08 10:25 AM
People lie for various reasons and try to rationalize and justify. Some to protect the loved ones. Some to protect self. Some to gain something. Some to prevent losing something. Some without conscience (pathological/biological defect). Some out of fear. Also, telling half the truth is considered a "lie." So.... the big question.


WHY DO YOU LIE?



btw. U R a fvkng liar if u state that u dont lie.

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Mon 12/29/08 09:35 PM
Don't Trust Anyone form Ghana, West Africa. Actually the whole continent.

They are running a scam posing as girls searching for true-love to get you to divulge your personal information, especially your account name and pass. The idiot thought I would just simply give it away. Anyhow, they use fake photos (mostly white sexy models). Yeah, sure like the population of West Africa will be full of white sexy models who is single and desperately searching for true-love. So heed my warning, don't trust these fvkers from Africa continent.