that was freakishly funny. LOL.

cuz i don't live to work. LOL.

we all have to work, and work the hardest for the things that we love. We all have to work hard to live our lives.

Okay, I will work on that phrase, later.

Dude, I single handedly gave you a one minute fame in the spot light. Call me Ice-man. Now go out there and pick and choose your chic and make true love. LOL.

what the heck is unflattering noses? Is it like pug?

I am very forgetful, can you remind me which advice that you are referring to? I have lots of opinions, which people can take it as advices, but I'm just happy to know that people are providing comments and seeing different point of views.

Some of these postings are good for one laugh (some half a laugh), but most are really good, thought provoking. If you have some thought provoking point of view that you can masterfully articulate, please do so for others to read and learn.

Thanks.

LOL. My secret is that I cant wank no mo. Too many callouses from working out. Damn, that reminds me, I need some workout gloves. LOL.

Did He watch too many Doctor Phil episodes?

He has lots of good questions no doubt. Is he the moderator?

Thanks for putting this forum in the motion. LOL.

Chances are if he is forward looking, he moved on. It's too late to apologize...like the song?

women are known to verbally abuse as well.

whereeeeeeeez that guy who will hold my bangs up when Im puking in the toilet????


NVM about the toilet. I remember mopping/cleaning the carpet and getting the smell out. Hard work indeed.

No.

Image will fade. You love the sleek image, like I love my shiney macbook pro, but when the next generation model comes around, I will love that one more, and toss the old one.

Learning and discovering your partner will grow your love. You have learn things like how does he/she react to a situation like bad customer service? What are his/her ambitions? What makes him/her tick? What gives him/her strength? What does he/she do to make you feel happy? What does he/she do to comfort you when you are down? What does he/she do to dissipate arguments? What does he/she do to spontaneously energize the relationship? What does he/she do to make you feel loved?

Can you answer all those by just looking at an image? I think, not. BTW, I was in love with Pam Andersn after her centerfold release, but all went out the door as soon as she started to talk. So, no. Cant fall in love with a stranger, without further communications and meetings.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...



Your two posts seem contradictory, but I like it. It makes me wanna puff the magic dragon and live free. So, does that mean that you will share your spouse with me (if she wants to)? LOL. J/K. I don't share :-)

BTW, thanks for the great posts. It was really really poetic (not being sarcastic at all).

Hollywood says "Love" is the greatest thing in the universe that sets us apart from animals. So we all seek "Love." Not just an ordinary love, but a "true" love. Hollywood kind of love where you would literally sacrifice everything for this love. They say there is love at first sight. Love at first sight, sounds superficial.

So are we all conditioned by hollywood to search for this true love, preferrably at first sight?

What happened to growing together? Learning together. Living together. Experiencing things together. Challenging each other. Understanding each other.

Aren't we all here merely to understand other's interests and commonalities to eventually talk, meet, and do activities to explore each other? IMO, Love comes much much later later after we experience and understand how we react to varying degrees of challenges.

depends on the definition of intimacy isn't it?

perhaps there are different phases of intimacy as we get older. I wouldn't know if old people have sex or not, but they must be since the drug companies are making a killing selling viagra and cialis.

In the beginning, definitely, hourly, or even perhaps every 10 min. LOL.

Later, we strive for the moment and quality.

Don't know what happens at old age :-)

Can intimacy mean holding hands or hugging? Not necessarily penetrations?

I live in a city rated for #2 in homicide.

Police literally find dead bodies floating in some creek daily. If it weren't for my job or cost of living, I would definitely move to San Diego.

Oh, btw, we had several lengthy phone conversations, shared photos, over 1000 text msgs, b/c due to her custody situation and my finals, we didn't have the opportunity to meet.

Mac's Weener, go ahead take a bite.

No thanks.

I'm thinking it all depends on how severe the level of this prank.

I mean someone could easily say that they are a new car salesman but in actuality they are used car salesman. Hmmm, damn the severity, IMO all car salesman should be burned along with lawyers, but that's just my opinion. LOL.

No, seriously, how bad is the situation? You should be able to judge that based on the information that you have.

By the way, anyone get messages from West Africa? Two girls messaged me for serious relationship, but they are in Ghana. I'm so naive. I sent them my bank account number, NOT. LOL>

Growth.

Gutter minded people need not reply.

Love at fixed level will become stagnant like standing water which will evaporate or rot.

For that matter anything at a fixed point will be stagnant.

Learning and experiencing is part of growth, even if you fail you learned. Constantly challenging self is part of growth.

One should constantly challenge self for growth whether it be relationship, education, career, intelligence, exercise,...etc.etc.

There is always a case of mis-communication.

Ok, long story short, I was chatting with this girl and got her number and we had very good discussions several times. We seemed to click. She worked as some type of lounge waitress, but this Christmas season she butted heads with her manager who was always protective of her. So I told her that there are plenty of opportunities in the city, and a few days later, she told me that she was interviewing with another bar. She called it a working interview. Since we have not physically met yet, she didn't want to tell me where. Besides she said that she didn't mix pleasure with work. So, ok I backed off on further questions, and wished her good luck.

A couple of days later, I called to see how the interview went, but I did not get an answer, so I left a voicemail. A few hours went by, and I was actually getting worried. So, I txt'ed her saying something like, there are certainly evil people around the world, some with lots of money, and some are bar managers :-) A few hours went by and still no response, so I left another voicemail stating that I was concerned.

That night, I could not sleep well hoping that I was not a catalyst to some serious crime. The thought of anyone getting harmed because of my big mouth was just too much to bear. The next day, I called again, but still no answer. I sent her emails and text. No answer.

That night, my stress level was so high, I called the local police dept to see if there were any missing person report with her name. They told me that it's non-emergency, has to be missing 48hrs or greater, and they are just answering service and I had to call back the next morning to speak with detective. So I sent her another email explaining my intention in the morning.

Needless to say, I couldn't spleep that night and around 2AM I get an email from her stating that I was being insecure and too needy. She told me to not to contact her ever again.

I reciprocated her language and told her that I was relieved that she was ok, and told her to have a wonderful life.

So, my question is: Was I really being needy?