Past fwe guys Ive gotten involved with have just used me in one way shape or form. The most recent one he and I were going out all the time but he threw me aside for one of my "friends" whom was twice my age, half my weight with kids and makes Hitler look like an angel.

Do ALL men throw aside "nice girls" for annorexic hell hounds?

bummer

jury is still out on that one

no I hate to say not all men are,the ones who do are just plain stupid


I would never date a skinny girl I dont like them,

Most do

no... some of us just never have a chance with women like you

I don't think all men are pigs nor will all men do what he did.. It's not fair to generalize/stereotype over a few bad eggs.. Maybe you need to reflect on the type of men your you're picking and see if there's a pattern and then break it....

Good luck!

No evening kiss, not all men are alike.

While I can sense your hesitation and frustrations, all your past few guys will see the light. Just be glad you found out before you got involved and that they are now someone else's problems

Stay positive, surround yourself with positive people and positive vibes.

Make 2008 your year to shine!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good Luck!
Fran

no i dont . i wish i could find a girl that would not do it to me

What are you sad about. Move on dont let as*holes get to you.

Some men do and some men don't. some guys do and some guys don't.
To avoid being with pigs or falling for them do not sleep in the hog house its common sence.Do not feed them either.

Thats right !!

My best friend tried to set me up with a cool guy.. but unfortunatly he fell for her even though she has a fiancee. =( *sigh* Sometimes it makes me want to give up on guys.

i KNOW HOW YOU FEEL
iT SUCKS WHEN YOU ARE BEiNG USED..
AND SOMETiMES i'M TOO NiCE..
i GO OUT OF MY WAY FOR PEOPLE WHO NEVER RETURN THE FAVOR..
SORRY THAT HAPPENED..

no. we don't. but there are many women no better than men in this way anyhow. the idea that a man is more likely to be a **** in a relationship is a myth. i've found many women try to be domineereing and controlling. or jealous. and even if maybe men might be a little more likely to have an affair, it seems like it's much hard to get a woman to give youthe time of day in the first place. women are more selctive, which forces distant men who can wait to be emotionally involved to be the most succesful at getting with them, which means women end up with distant men, who are more likely to leave them. it's sort of a viscious cycle. plus it's pretty well established that people are mych more likely to continue a relationship with someone all their friends like. but this of course can lead to other problems, as you've experienced. in a any event, i'm sorry you've been f****d with. It sucks for anybody who it happens to.

yes, the majority are.
But dont put your guard up too high anyways. Cause there are plenty of good ones out there regardless.

not all men are like that you have just been unfortunate enough to find the few that are. keep your chin up and a great guy will come your way

most are. end of story.

it takes a bit of work to find that special someone, the diamond in the rough.

im pretty sure ull find him tho.

Amen!!

Good advice Indnprncs